It's over bros

>24
>install tinder and other apps to try and meet a girl
>convinced myself i was not entirely repulsive because i once had a gf a long time ago
>pick my very best photos of myself playing guitar in an open jam
>write in my bio that i'm from abroad and travel a lot
>just a single fucking match
>it's a fat girl and she unmatched me litterally 2 minutes after
How fucked am i?
I thought i was a 5/10, i'm skinny but somewhat taller than average, my jaw is okay, my chin is okay, i grew an okay beard, ...
Honestly i groom myself and i even asked friends if i looked okay and they told me what was wrong before and i corrected it
How am i supposed to do?
It's been 10 fucking years since i felt a girl's warmth

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You sound average looking, which on Tinder is gutter trash tier. Just date irl, you will be fine there.

On tinder unless you're a a woman or a guy in the top 10% don't bother.

I've never ever used tinder by one thing i don't get is why everyone puts up some normie photos of them selfs? Like it's a fucking business interview to seem as normal as possible. What if you uploaded a pic of you snorting coke? Would you get banned?

the game is rigged
just invest in politicians who will make sex work legal at the federal level
this will force women to lower their standards knowing that men could just buy pussy like buying a baconator at Wendy's
I'm actually serious.

Being average looking on Tinder is suicide tier. Being below average is even worse you'll get matches so women just laugh at how ugly you are when you message them.
Lel, Americans are truly cucked beyond belief. Even so I still think you can just buy pussy whenever you want, you're just too lazy or anxious to do it.

I've tried irl
I'm too much of a spaghetti spiller user
Even greentexted my latest fuckup a few weeks ago
Too much trial too much error and i'm not improving one bit
I thought to myself that if i started flirting with a girl and it went well by chatting everything would be fine
I'm trying to be normal and attractive
Friends told me guitar is fucking attractive
Sex work isn't remotely legal in france
I might just change country
Maybe germany then
Do you think the fatty matched me just to laugh at me?

America does have an incel problem, but no, I do not think you can currently just buy pussy even overseas.
Maybe in specific areas of the world but even then it's taboo. We need to change that. Not to sound like an incel myself but this superiority complex, this entitlement mindset, women have must come to an end one way or another. Things are going to get worse before getting better, and the last thing you need is some crazy bitch you never met calling you a rapist and ruining your whole life.

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>I'm trying to be normal and attractive
>Friends told me guitar is fucking attractive

Gurls dont like normal. Be not normal

>I'm trying to be normal
There's your problem. Girls don't like normal. They like a unique person who's also a challenge. Or maybe an interesting dynamic. Someone risky or euphoric.
As much as they talk about settling down, they want anything but. At least until they have a kid or hit the wall, and even then, it's a toss-up.

Where do you live. I'm a 5 (official /soc/ average rating). I got a lot of matches with okay to good looking *women* (very few under 25 - but I was 30+ when using it). But I live in a really large metropolitan area.

If you are in a smaller city it might be much harder. Don't get too down yet.

>sex work isn't even remotely legal in France
Explain all the slavic whores I met in Montmatre?

Tinder has gone massively downhill in the last 2-3 years. I am an average guy in pretty much every way. I used to get laid without too much effort while I was at university and travelling. I was in a relationship for 3 years and recently got Tinder again - suddenly barely getting any matches.
I spoke to my friend who is a similar person to me appearance wise, and he said the same thing. And I've seen a lot of these threads.
I honestly think Tinder has had it's run a bit like Airbnb did and now it's just full of insanely entitled women.
I used to match with decent girls (as decent as you can get on Tinder), like STEM students who weren't caked in makeup with interesting bios and pictures. I feel like they have all migrated to other apps now. Almost every single girl on Tinder now is an orange, hyper-filtered gym bunny type with insane standards.
I swear I'm not coping, Tinder did not use to be like this.

Guitar is attractive if you are attractive, retard. This applies to everything.
Also you can easily get prostitutes in France. Or just take a trip to Netherlands or Germany they are in spitting distance, jeez.
There are a few countries in Europe where there are brothels, you can literally walk inside and pick a girl to fuck, what the fuck are you talking about, mutt?
And even where it's "illegal" it's not only piss easy to find prostitutes for 50-100 euros, but also if you somehow get caught you get a fine at most.
Only Amerimutts go to jail for soliciting prostitution.

>Do you think the fatty matched me just to laugh at me?
No I think fatty matched you and some other guys as well, then decided you're not worth it out of the bunch.

I'll change my bio then

Call me Tommy "smiling emoji"
Straight from california
Coming to France to make music and friends "guitar emoji"
Always moving from one place to another every year or so
My mother is french so i speak this exquisite language very well
A plus tard autour d'un verre "winking emoji"

It's my current bio what do you suggest?

>she unmatched me litterally 2 minutes after
this is one of the worst feelings. I matched with a hot girl recently and got a rush of self esteem, sounds pathetic but it improved my entire mood instantly. Spent ten minutes in a good mood working out what I'd message her with, open app - gone. Unmatched. Felt like being punched in the stomach.
Worst time was when I was talking to a girl all evening, really good conversation and she said 'I've got to sleep now - text you tomorrow morning?'. Woke up excited to check my phone - unmatched. I am ashamed to admit I threw a childlike tantrum at this point and sobbed a bit and got drunk.
Women are horrible, horrible creatures. I am trying so hard to not give up but it's one thing to not succeed, another thing entirely to be routinely humiliated and toyed with.

When I used it it had infinite swipes. I wonder if limiting it has made people turn off it. I guess there are competitors too - I don't think hinge/bumble etc were around.

Though proper dating sites were about and they offered more comp for people looking for serious relationships.

Fucking lmao. This is just sad, I suggest you just fuck an escort and move on with your life.

Don't use emojis. 'Call me Tommy' is a bit weird. Don't talk about your mother.
'Coming to France to make music and friends' - this on it's own is good. Makes you sound like you're not overly fussed, not trying too hard and clearly a chill person. I would just keep that line.

The bio feels a bit pretentious, and It's best to keep it simple.
It's hard to build the perfect bio for you because I'm not you. The rule of 3's applies here though if you insist on keeping some detail to your bio.
Not sure about the emojis either, I'd avoid them.

I'm in reims for the time being
I go to paris every once in a while that's where i matched with the fat girl
Yea but it's illegal and almost taboo
Any other app to use then?
Thinking of fruitz maybe?
I know i can get hookers but i also want a girl who might truly desire me not someone out of spite for money
She was 4/10 at best she had a photo of her in bikini and she didn't have big bonkers nor a fat ass
Fuck
I feel like these apps are slowly killing us
Stop user
Ok i'll change it then

My bio was one line, and contained a bizarre fact about me (not overly bizarre). So girls always asked about it. You could literally just use
>An American in Paris.
or
>I'm not French, I just live here

No one wants to read a novel on tinder.

>it's illegal
What is the punishment if you get caught with a prostitute? Bet you don't even know.
>almost taboo
Who gives a fuck?
>stop user
Ok dummy. Suit yourself, try your new bio and come back here in one week to tell us how you didn't get shit.

I just changed it to

Coming to france to make music and friends

I have no idea what Fruitz is sounds like a soda brand. Fruity means gay to me

>Musician coming in France
or
>Coming to France to make music and love
I dare you.

>please break my heart so I can write a hit song about us

Fuck off user
It's a 1500 euro fine, i almost got fined that's why i'm scared
At least i tried
Some friends here told me it was decent basically the same as tinder but you can chose a fruit meaning what you're looking for
One night stand, serious relationship etc etc
Oh shit dude thanks i'll use that

>Oh shit dude thanks i'll use that
>tfw my friends always got me to talk to the girls they matched on tinder
>tfw the girls they met never questioned why the personalities were completely different

Can't tell if you're serious or not

based cyrano de bergerac user
and you can't get laid ?

I'm serious in that I'd dare you to put something like that up. I'm not serious in that it would work.

I do seriously suggest you try my other option here However I'm anglo, and don't speak French. So I don't know how it would translate or whether that is a common trope in frog land.