My ex found a better guy. It happened shortly after she cut contact with me.
I'm in no shape to be dating right now. I guess she worked on herself, and I didn't work on myself, and now she's got someone and I don't.
I just can't help but feel like I need to find someone else to prove that I can. I'm late 20s, absolutely terrified of being alone forever, but I'm also terrified to settle, which is what I did in my previous relationship. Now that it's over I find myself missing her and wondering what she sees in her new guy.
It just feels like I'm in a bottomless pit and can't find my way out.
probably already had the dude on the hook, likely was talking to him the entire time you were together. women don't leave unless they already have another option in place. they are jews. don't sit around overanalyzing any of it or beating yourself up, it's no reflection on you. happens to the best and worst of us.
Luke Torres
>shortly after She probably monkey-branched. Many such cases. >I need to find someone else to prove that I can. Stupid idea, this is just a waste of time and effort. Especially when >I'm also terrified to settle and >which is what I did in my previous relationship Your previous relationship was broken, you thought you could do better, she thought she could do better (which is why she moved on so quickly), all you were doing was wasting time and stroking each others' ego and fear of loneliness. It's much better to wait until you find someone who you find worthy.
Asher Ortiz
normalfags exit the immediate premises
Thomas Jones
Kill yourself normalfag, I hope you get hit by a fucking train.
Landon Mitchell
Whose scrumptious little bunghole is this pray tell
Jackson Howard
Yeah that sucks dick, but you wouldnt like my ex situation either
Sucks, I got brain damage doing drugs and have had a non stop headache for over a year now. Hope others misery make you feel bit better, sometimes it works for me.
Jace Peterson
it pisses me off when people post a thread ranting about something and then the image is jsut some peice of shitty porn
Julian Butler
Op, the best advice anyone has ever given me and Im giving it to you, act like it never happened. Ignore and move on. Its ok to hurt, but when they try to still message you or crawl back into your life, pretend they dont exist, ignore them, etc. It is the biggest fuck you to the other person and it works.
Jayden James
Mine did it after 10. Women are whores on a biological level.
Brody Bennett
A lot of us don't have 5000 pictures saved to convey a nearly infinite range of feelings. Loads of us just say what's on our minds, then go grab a random porn pic to catch people's attention, because threads requires pics to be uploaded in the OP
NEVER try to start dating again after a breakup until you've taken some time alone to work on yourself and rebuild your confidence. Otherwise you're just going to end up being a clingy weirdo that stares at his phone for hours waiting for text responses. My advice is make a vow to be single for at least 3-6 months and during this time: exercise, do nofap, eat healthy food, get your life in order (job, spirit, etc) and THEN when you're a complete young man, you can start dating again. Good luck OP.
Justin Martinez
asshole.... asshole.... white female asshole...
Jaxson Carter
Im not OP What kind of lie is this ? Does this actually work for people. I cant relate. No matter what i do.. it doesnt fix anything in my body. It doesnt make me feel better. The only things that make me feel better are illegal drugs. This just seems like such a lie that you can fix yourself by doing healthy things. It doesn't work for me.
Joseph Moore
Well of course belief in God is essential but that goes without saying. Jesus saves. But are you sure you've actually tried all the things I listed? Are you doing nofap? Is your life in order? (Job, long term security, shelter.) Are you in good health? (Exercise at least a few times a week, making sure all your vitamin levels are proper, abstaining from poisons like aspartame and porn.) but if you don't even believe in Jesus then I wouldn't be surprised if you feel empty. Nothing this world offers you can fulfill you, it can only give you short term pleasure that quickly fades in potency.
Brandon Rodriguez
my ex found an equally white, taller, bigger, stronger, smarter, richer, and more motivated guy call you can do is just stand back and witness the hypergamy
imagine suckling on her poopy butthole for 4-6 hours per day.
Noah Ortiz
>Be me >Born in 1988 >All grandparents were faithful and monogamous >All friends boomer parents from sports and school were always together and seemed faithful to each other, like it was a permanent thing. >Grow up Under the impression everyone gets a wife and its not hard and everyone stays together forever. >It seemed like a taboo thing when people got divorced >Fast forward to now. I am on r9k and you see the current state of the world. >It all happened so fast and its so over
