If a girl genuinely loved you, like truly did and would for the rest of her life...

If a girl genuinely loved you, like truly did and would for the rest of her life, what sort of past of hers would you approve of? Anything that she could have done in the past that, even with unconditional, pure uplifting love for you, you'd still break it over with? Even if she fucked quite literally every guy in town before you, and you were dead last?

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>If a girl genuinely loved you
Let me stop you right there. Women can not love.

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If we're operating in fantasy-land where a woman could be promiscuous and yet still be loyal and pair-bond effectively, then yes, I could see myself accepting the town-bicycle as my wife, we've all got our issues.

This 100%

But I'll formulate a hypothetical for OP's sake. If there was true happiness there, I'm not sure I would care, even if she was the town bicycle.

If she truly loved me, she would never have been a whore

Any prior partners. I appreciate your point. If she had any history it would fuck with my head enough to affect the relationship. I don't want to force that on someone, and I can't extirpate it.

I'm genuinely trying to think of an alternative. Some scenario where it'd be cool; given every girl is having sex by 18 it feels. I've got nothing.

>If
what is the meaning of the word if

I am 21 and still a virgin, but ive done things. So that would affect you too?

>I'm genuinely trying to think of an alternative.

there are more extremely low-quality females out there than you think. maybe you could save one.

Well doing sodomy and having kids are two of the very big ones. Kids for many reasons, which I think have been well-discussed by now. Sodomy because it's disgusting and goes against everything I believe in.
With that out of the way, I have a little leeway because I try to be somewhat grounded in the fucked reality we inhabit.
I can overlook a few previous partners assuming that the aforementioned stuff isn't applicable. However, they'd have to have been in an actual committed relationship, if she was just jumping on a ton of random dudes dicks or she had several short-lived relationships where she gave it up anyway then no.
If she had done a small amount of casual stuff (like 2, maybe less) and regrets it, and I mean she feels actual guilt not the fake ass "regret" where she only shows it for pity and to get what she wants, then perhaps I can overlook it somewhat, but she'd also have to make it up to me somehow.
That being said, I don't think any woman actually fits this profile.

I can be flexible, personally. Obviously, rape doesn't count in anything. I would go up to solo porn not even bothering me. Drug use, up to some criminal history. That being said, those factors would make me apprehensive, but I could work past it if I genuinely liked the person. I don't have a high bar for that, other than they can't fuck with my head.

I don't want to dredge shit up, but in your case, what would be an example? Or even a hypothetical you would consider?

I remember a girl from college I would talk to. Very autistic. Crooked teeth. Tumblr larping was her favorite pastime. Objective 4/10, but I felt she was closer to 6. We talked for hours sometimes. I would have married her.

I'm not bad looking either. It might be gratuitous, but I've had people tell me I look like a football player. Exercise daily, etc... Not saying this for fun. Just to make it clear Im not just dismissive.

isnt a blowjob technically sodomy?

You gonna learn why there's no shortage of actors in Hollywood. People will lie to you and you won't ever know.

Those sound fair. My case would be a blowjob / mutual masturbation.. But that's about it.

I'm iffy when a guy has had multiple sexual relationships and I'll feel extremely self conscious

Yes, and I count it as such. No, I don't care "how good it feels" it's an abomination and I'll never allow it to be done to me nor will I tolerate those who do it.
I know this, that's why I expect to be alone.

In my head, those count. That doesn't mean you aren't probably a decent person, but it is that massive a mental block.

neither can men so its even.

This past month I did a bit of introspection. I learned that I am a very selfish person and that I need to fix that. My mother actually gave me the chance to IRL date, but I need to work on myself before something like that so I declined. Now I feel bad about declining though.

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Dogs can genuinely love you, doesn't mean I wouldn't have it destroyed if it was a bitey aggressive turd with no hope of correction.
I'm not about to lower and degrade myself to preserve the fee-fees of some whore or worse.

tl;dr Don't care, rules don't change

I just realized what I said was hurtful. I'm sorry.

you can believe what i have to say or not, that's up to you. i'm also going to leave the thread after this reply, but i just wanted to comment on this as a woman who had a past and truly repented.
i made mistakes as a teenager for which i repent for. i haven't been intimate with a man in several years and don't plan to until marriage. i don't do anything inappropriate with myself, either.
everyone can repent for their past, and if i was with a man who also had a past but repented and doesn't want intimacy until marriage, i wouldn't have a problem with it.
ideally, people should save themselves for marriage, but our society doesn't teach that anymore.
so for those of you who haven't been intimate, please, save that for your husband/wife.
for those of you who are currently engaging in fornication, i'm just an anonymous person online but all i can say is it's not healthy for your soul to do this. you should save yourself for marriage, so it's best to stop now and wait.
and for anyone considering doing such things before marriage, please reconsider. don't buy prostitutes or engage in hookup culture or sexting.
i pray for Any Forums and i mean this sincerely. may God bless you all, and good night.

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I would forgive her for fucking every guy in town, I wouldn't want to be with her because of how absolutely stupid she must be to fuck every guy in town.

no, men actually can

women are incapable of displaying genuine emotion and therefore love

just deal with it