Are most of us here anxiously attached?
Anxious core wounds:
>I will eventually abandoned
>I will always be alone/I will never be seen
>I'm different/there's something wrong with me
>I'm unlovable
>I have to fix myself/try hard to make relationships work
I see myself the most in fearful avoidant/disorganized by far.
the last 3, combined
Those are copes. You can be robot/incel or normie or Chad. Anything else is coping.
This is also cope. You can be either with christ or turn away from him. Anything else is just pseudo scientific psychology bull****.
None of this stuff matters, user. What matters is whether you will be saved after death or not.
>You can be robot/incel or normie or Chad
You've let this place poison your mind
Do you really think the creator of the universe would punish people for not worshipping it?
I'm dismissive avoidant. Which can be especially painful since not only is it hard getting close to someone to the point she may want to get closer to me but then I utterly tsundere it up or otherwise refuse to close distance.
It's reality. Attractiveness is everything. The reason you deny it is because you cannot become attractive. It is impossible to grow taller and grow better face. You want to believe you have power over your faith.
Nobody who posts on this website is secure, I can tell you that
I'm secure. Hit me up fembots for love and praise.
>anxious preoccupied
turns into AVPD and/or DPD
>dismissive avoidant
turns into PPD and/or SPD
>fearful avoidant/disorganized
turns into BPD
>not needing to suction off of others like an emotional leech means you are insecure and anxious
I have been largely independent and self reliant for things ever since I was a child because I learned pretty early on the only one you can ever truly rely on is yourself. Not because I am some le anxiety faggot.
> Not because I am some le anxiety faggot.
Any upbringing that would teach you to rely on yourself is le anxiety faggot, that's the point. You're just fronting to cover the vulnerability and everyone knows now. I've known tons of "independent" people in my life who all cry themselves to sleep because they're too anxious to open up. Sucks but humans were never meant to hack it alone.
this is pedo shit
I'm mostly secure but kind of avoidant sometimes.
wow im so fearful avoidant/disorganized!!!
too bad its not a good thing
i guess im either dismissive or fearful avoidant. they seem pretty similar. all bullshit anyway though.
Third one
its impossible for normies to conceive of someone who wants to be alone. Imagine if everyone was gay in the world and they thought it was impossible not to be gay. then they asked you why aren't you gay and you say "i don't like dick" and they just sat there confused like "why?" and assumed you are gay but just a repressed homosexual.
I think I was closer to anxious preoccupied when I was younger but developed into SPD.
Doesn't matter to me though because I'm the most comfortable I've ever been when I get to be alone and I get to be alone all the time because I was lucky enough to be born in a country with easy neetbux,