I wish i were a woman but my mind and body are incompatible with my desires

>we literally can not change who we are,
we can. just not in the ways that i want

>this is kind of silly to me, there is no man/female brained there is only (You)-brained in my understanding
there are clear biological differences between men and women which also applies to the mind.

>it just seemed like a logical step in these days if you wanted to be a woman,
i consider it a lot but i just don't know how to feel about it. maybe i don't want it as much as a real tranny

>on top of that, looking like an anime girl
cosplay is just like a hundred pounds of makeup. but i think your magic pill is less about wanting to be female and more about wanting to have your ideal body

>there are clear biological differences between men and women which also applies to the mind.
what differences were you thinking of? compassion/empathy or something along those lines? or is it more pragmatic?

>i just don't know how to feel about it
im sorry, i wish i could help you, i cant tell you how to live your life and any advice i would give you to "at least try something" would go against my own actions as i just sit here waiting at the mental train station for a train that never arrives

for some, for others not

it sounded like you wanted the benefits with none of the work, my point was that if you want it you could put the work in to get it

>it sounded like you wanted the benefits with none of the work, my point was that if you want it you could put the work in to get it
it's moreso that I think regardless of how much work you put in, you will always be a man in a wig. the technology is not there yet.

>for some, for others not
For majority.

>what differences were you thinking of?
idk, i think like a man in most ways. maybe that's just the testosterone but i think my brain also developed to be male

>as i just sit here waiting at the mental train station for a train that never arrives
same. i'm not really taking any actions, part of me feels like i'm just trying to get my life over with

>it sounded like you wanted the benefits with none of the work, my point was that if you want it you could put the work in to get it
we all do. but the results of transition vary greatly

i think there is a difference between wanting to look more feminine and be a woman, but yes i would agree that things like SRS is lacking atm

>developed to be male
if it developed to be male, as you believe, then why do you want to be born a woman?

>i'm just trying to get my life over with
im with you, bro, everything feels pointless these days and i relate to nobody and nobody to me, ive decided to indulge in drugs just because that would be doing something rather than nothing

>results of transition vary greatly
they do, i dont really know what to add, its just a diceroll like with our genetics

what would you have them do alternatively?

>what would you have them do alternatively?
Nothing, just like with any other impossible desire. You can't become the other sex.

so stagnation and subsequent continuation of "life of unhappiness", sorry i just dont see how doing nothing is better than doing something when a person fails to identify with whatever reflects back on them in the mirror

The problem is in hesd, not body.

>not body
why is that? is the head not the body?

Okay, I should have said mind.

it's besides the point, if the mind can be wrong cant the body be made wrongly likewise?

>my mind tells me I am a wolf
>it's body's fault that I am not a wolf

>if it developed to be male, as you believe, then why do you want to be born a woman?
because i resent being a man

>ive decided to indulge in drugs just because that would be doing something rather than nothing
that seems even worse for your body

>they do, i dont really know what to add, its just a diceroll like with our genetics
even if i knew i had the perfect genetics for it, it's still not an obvious decision

and im saying it also works the other way around, we have established that the mind can be another way than the body and vice versa, how bringing extremes into the mix to prove anything is failed on me

>i resent being a man
care to elaborate?

>that seems even worse for your body
yeah, never claimed i was a smart person, its my cope

>it's still not an obvious decision
of course not, it was simply an option, transitioning is evidently not for everyone

Why not try to change mind? Should be easier?

>care to elaborate?
it's a lot of things.
i don't like my appearance being so masculine. i'm not comfortable with the idea of being in a relationship as a man
i just feel happier when i imagine myself as a woman

it's getting late here. goodnight