being an adult with a decent income is nice, but it sucks how i have to go out of my way to meet girls now the only thing i miss about high school and college, was the fact that you would naturally meet new women without even trying now that i work full time, i have to go to parties or social events to meet girls, it's fucking lame dating apps are gay, i refuse to use them
at least i'm not poor anymore, but son of a bitch, it's annoying i guess it won't matter once i finally find a decent partner, but until then, it sucks dick
i understand that's not a good thing, but still, i understand
Aaron Lee
That's the main reason why I hated finishing uni. Never before I had such cute girls into me, but I blew it and now it's over. Only used up slags for me from now on, uglier women at that.
Jeremiah James
I dont want to hijack your thread. It was nice in highschool how things were natural. I wish I wasnt a pussy then when I had excellent options. College for me was literally the rethink your weekend on the right and post college dating apps I think traumatized me to where Im at now Good luck user
>out of my way if your way doesn't include social events or bars then you haven't really become an adult, bud. i mean, even if you are a boring cunt you would still have dinner parties and hobbies. i doubt there was anything "natural" about how you met people in school if you aren't still in a big friend group.
Aaron Miller
>hobbies Unless your hobby is tango classes, you aren't going to meet a single woman doing "hobbies"
Levi Long
Right, what the fuck do people do? I play hockey, shoot guns, and play guitar, and ride my bike, sorry Im not going to yoga classes or in some lesbian book club
Leo Rivera
we were all gamers who did nothing but play CS:GO & TF2 i only met girls in class, same with college i stopped playing video games as much in college because they required too much time & energy i am legally an adult, and i have financial stability, not sure where this gatekeeping is coming from >introverts aren't adults strange line of thought gonna start going out more though, it's just a big cultural shift for me can't be a recluse forever, i guess
Charles Jones
>I wish I wasnt a pussy then when I had excellent options me too man, it happens all we can do is learn and move forwards do whatever you can to make yourself attractive while you're still reasonably-aged once you hit your late 30s, if you haven't been taking care of yourself, you're fucked
health and wealth are key achieve those, then focus on maximizing your looks and social life everything else will fall into place once this is accomplished
Camden Butler
Introverts still meet people and pass through normal phases of life like marriage and having kids. Its not really gatekeeping, you just made a broad statement that is the polar opposite of peoples experiences. Kids definitely dont feel like they naturally vibe with strangers, everyone has stories about anxiety and trying to fit in. As an adult you just connect with people whenever you want and the type of people you know you will enjoy, rather than classmates at lunch time or sleepovers
Luis Cooper
I feel like a lot of people claim to be introverted and are not or I am an outlier. If I didnt have a twin I would have no friends and be perfectly content to just make music in my room myself. I guess Im glad his friends put in effort to keep our friendship goin and invite me to shit because I would never think to and I never hit anyone up. Whatever outgoing is I am the total opposite
Lmao I am not surprised at all I hate to be a jaded fucker but when I used dating apps up until about a year ago there was a reason the girls I hung out with were still single. I know I have my problems but at 28 to date within 3 years of yourself the single girls that are left all seem to have either sever trauma and issues or straight up heavy mental illnesses. To find a girl who is remotely normal seems like I would have to go for like 21 year olds or to find a needle in a haystack. It is almost
Yeah dont use the word introvert when you mean recluse lol
Isaac Wilson
I'd say dancing is pretty gay
Luis Allen
>Introverts still meet people and pass through normal phases of life i am genuinely one of the biggest introverts possible, i have left the house 2 times in the last 2.5 years, both of which i was peer pressured into doing so by my gamer friends because they'd never see me otherwise i get what you're saying, i don't want to be an annoying argumentative little shit, but some true giga introverts like myself do exist, and it's hard for people to believe
David Hill
kinda, my body count isn't super high, but i've done a bit of degenerate shit for this reason, i don't expect a woman in my age range to have a super low bodycount, i just want it to be reasonable no giga sluts please, i beg i'd die of shame if i ended up dating a girl that was fucked by the entire football team twice through, big yikes
