I've had a girlfriend for 8 months now, in the beginning, things were going well. I thought she was sweet, traditional, family oriented, and wanted love more then anything.
Before I go into the issues in our relationship, I just want to say that I really liked her for a reason. She didn't judge my shyness, she told me she wanted a nice guy. She always let me be very affectionate with her. At the beginning of our relationship she was very affectionate with me. She also lets me be incredibly politically incorrect, I've talked to her about racial IQs, the Rothschilds, I've talked to her a lot about anti-feminism and why the traditional way of life is superior. She seems to agree with most of it. I also like that she's got an anime girl like voice without even trying. Her giggle is super cute, and physically, she's absolutely gorgeous. She's an 8/10 minimum, perhaps even a 9/10. When walking around I struggle to spot a single girl who's prettier then she is. She also has a very high sex drive so my advances never feel unwanted.
There's a lot of problems that have surfaced, however. She's extremely materialistic and money hungry, she never wants to stay in a normal hotel, its always got to be some really fancy hotel. And her obsession with money has hurt our relationship tremendously because she keeps comparing me to her ex boyfriend who made a $100,000 salary whereas I'm only making about $40,000. But I don't have any debts, I have a very well off family, and I'm working really hard to get a promotion at work.
But she just doesn't care. She's so obsessed with wealth and over time I've noticed that she's very selfish. Everything about this relationship has to be on her terms, she never wants to make any sacrifices or effort for me. She's also unbelievably wimpy, she can't stand sacrificing anything in life that she likes. Even the most petty shit imaginable she seems to find impossible to give up in order to save money.
Most concerning though, I learned that she's cheated on every boyfriend she's ever had. She had what seemed like a reasonable explanation for all of it, but I don't know if I believe her. I feel like continuing in my relationship with this girl could be very dangerous. But I'm scared, because I was a borderline incel before I met her, had almost no experience with girls, and it has felt surreal after all these years to finally have a girlfriend.
Tyler Sanders
Wow, she sounds like exactly this escort I just had a really weird sugarbaby relationship with. She was my personal 10/10, hot as hell, funny as fuck, hella fun to be around. But she was so materialistic and used me like her personal piggy bank. I wear Wal-Mart clothes and make like 300K; she wants dior handbags and perfume. And she would not fucking spend any time caring about me, even though I told her my gifts require her to actually pretend to give a shit. I have now cut things off with her (more accurately, I told her she now has a budget per month and she can take it or leave it; she is ignoring me). I was fucking obsessed with her, and she was feeding me oranges to my mouth, just the perfect submissive girl. She wasn't worth it. I am not sure whether your girl is worth it to you. It is easier for me to pivot though, I just returned to all my regular escorts who I was neglecting while I was with her
Jonathan Morales
Not just any girlfriend either, but one who is so cute and so similar to the kind of girl I fantasized about meeting. When I first met her, she really was my dream girl. Everything was perfect. But now I don't trust her, and I don't know how the hell that trust will ever come back after the way she's behaved, her obscenely materialistic mentality, and some of the things I've learned about her past.
Owen Stewart
Dude seriously, why would you write a bible about your girlfriend on Any Forums? Not the place for this at all
Jason Morgan
Wow, she sounds exactly like my girlfriend.
I even accused her one day of wanting to marry a super rich man and she didn't even bother to deny it. She just said "I think I could probably still love an average man."
Like wtf kind of response is that?
Eli Jenkins
Escort guy here; same damn thing, for me, I am so openly honest about my thoughts, and she is just so closed off, and never admits to the lies and BS she says.
Sorry, I am not trying to equate my experience with you; I am just a pathetic loser who can't get sex without paying for it, you are a normal human being who can get a GF. It is just that I can see lots of parallels between your experience and my very recent one
Luke Hernandez
FUCK YES, she said the same FUCKING THING to me. I make a shit ton of my money, and she was like, well I want a CEO who can give me the equivalent of your salary as playmoney. You know what bitch, be grateful. Be fucking grateful before demanding another present, and then crying about it when I am hesitant and start asking for cheaper alternatives. FUCK YOU.
Take it from me, man. If you marry her, she will use your wallet as her personal plaything. She will not give a shit about you. Don't do it
Tyler Murphy
Isn't this board about personal experiences?
Also, back in college, I was in exactly the same position lots of people here are in. This girl I'm talking about, she's the first girlfriend I've had. This is my first relationship.
I am really struggling to pull the trigger on this because I know what its like out there. I know how miserable I was being single for years and years and years. I couldn't believe I finally got a girlfriend. I thought I was beyond hope, and she restored my hope in a lot of ways. But I'm really scared, scared to plunge myself back into the hell of singledom.
But I don't feel like I can trust this girl either. I feel like she just loves money, not me.
Ayden Flores
>I feel like she just loves money, not me. Escort loser here. WOW, WOW. That is exactly my thought (well fucking duh, she is an escort). I feel like she is never looking out for MY INTERESTS, while she is always focused on her own. TRY ONCE to look out for me, care about my goals and wishes, you STUPID BITCH. This is why I see escorts all the time, I don't trust women; all women are escorts, they just want resources
Jonathan Baker
Jesus Christ, your girl doesn't happen to live in Florida does she? I don't think my girlfriend is escorting but I've heard of crazier things before. Whenever I give her a number of how much money I think I'll make in the future, she never sounds impressed... Ever. Its like nothing is enough. $100k isn't enough, $150k isn't enough, not even $200k seems to be enough. I've literally heard her mention figures of like $500k before and I told her that it was absurd and unrealistic and that maybe I could make $200k at most.
Adrian Cruz
LOL, no my girl is a korean escort who can't speak any English. So not her. I was like, I make tons of money in my position. She is like, well you need to be the boss in your company. I was like bitch the boss has to come in everyday and be on call all the time, I am perfectly happy with the big paycheck I got. I DON'T understand her obsession with pricey bags and skincare products and crap. I drive a toyota corolla. I wear Wal-Mart clothes. I make tons of cash, but I don't need to fucking flash it around like you. Yes, you are my perfect 10/10 in terms of looks, and I silently shake with awe when I see you in your full glory. But it is NOT worth it.
She keeps saying CHINSHIM, which basically means she truly cares about me; STOP saying you care about me, and PROVE it with your fucking actions. Try to fucking care about me ONCE! Sorry, she is the closest thing I ever had to a GF in my life (I am a pathetic loser with no GF hx). I still love her at some sad level, but at the end of the day, it was toxic and was just hurting me. I was becoming sad at work, and couldn't crack jokes with people like I used to. I was becoming a different person, enslaved to her every BS whim. I got rid of her and now feel much much happier (but as I said, I am different, I can get a fake GF who kisses me and feeds me oranges and snuggles with me every day basically)
Luke James
Out of curiosity, what race is she?
Chase Bell
So ITT there are multiple utterly psychopathic money-grubbing whores, and there are multiple guys who think entering any kind of relationship with someone like that is a good idea. If you don't dump these cunts and run like hell then you all deserve everything you get. Fuck simps and enablers.
Hunter Myers
>Asian Not surprised. OP what race is your girlfriend
Jace Long
That's funny, my girlfriend's Filipino, so we both got asian girls. Well, that's a relief at least, I was legitimately starting to worry lol.
I know exactly what you mean. I've stayed in numerous fancy hotels at this point because she insists on booking the nicest hotels imaginable. And yeah, they're a little nicer then a Holiday Inn but I don't get what's so fucking special about them. A room is a fucking room. They've all got TVs, they've all got bathrooms, they've all got beds, they've all got air conditioning. The only difference is that the decorations are a little nicer and we just paid twice as much for it.
On our first date, I told her I liked Italian food and you know what she did? She brought me to the most nauseatingly expensive restaurant you've ever seen. The fucking water they served us cost me $6 for each glass. I spent almost $100 on our meal and all I wanted was some pasta.
I told her afterward I didn't know why she brought me to such an expensive restaurant and I liked more simple things, so she never did that again, but holy fuck that was weird.
Nathaniel Rivera
sorry dude, she was a manipulative person who saw your shyness as easily exploitable. its time to move on.
Carson Reed
>Asian I knew it
Tyler Phillips
I think you're right... Its not a real relationship anymore. I have to breakup with her, but its like said, she's the only girlfriend I've ever had and my 8/10 and 9/10 rating was meant to be objective but for me personally, holy shit, she is drop dead gorgeous. When we had sex and I got to caress her thighs and see her in the shower, I thought to myself "I can't believe this is actually my girlfriend." It was hard to keep my hands off her on our dates. I kept telling myself I couldn't judge her for being materialistic because a girl this beautiful must come with a heavy price tag.
But this is just ridiculous, I don't know if any amount of money would make her happy. Her lust for money is insatiable.
Camden Williams
kill yourself gf haver. absolute state of this board
Jackson Hall
Escortfag here. I finally reached the same point. There is never enough money for her. She will always need more and more; there is no end point. For me, I have very clearly defined money endpoint; once all my basic needs are met, I am happy. For her, it will never end. The quest to satisfy her will never end. Also, she just texted me saying she really likes me. I just had a good convo with her. I think we are now either wrapping up our relationship, or more likely starting a new phase where we are just friends, with me just helping her out once in a while. I talked about how much I loved our relationship, how it was full of fights, forgiving, jokes adventures, misunderstandings, she laughed. We may not be good fake GF-BF (or whatever the fuck we were). But we can be good friends. My god I had such a fun korean drama like adventure with her. I will never forget it. But yeah, I ain't marrying that stupid bitch. I am a humble dude happy with driving my toyota corolla. I go to cheap ass places to eat; I don't need to eat at fancy places. They are NOT who I am. I remember her dragging me into this Dior handbag store, where it was super fancy. I realize it is not my world. Yes, I am now relatively rich. But I grew lower middle class. I will always be lower middle class.
