Finally get my first bf

>finally get my first bf
>he cold approaches me, feel very flattered
>we are surprisingly compatible and he has the same obscure interests
>start dating
>realize that he is not just a regular extrovert, he stops to talk to pretty much any stranger
>especially if they're a woman
>always ignores me and puts his "charm mode" on around other women
>constant seething and jealousy
>but can't say anything about it or he gets offended at me being too insecure or wanting to change him

I WANT OFF THIS RIDE. FEMBOTS DO NOT EVER DATE A NORMIE EXTROVERT.
>inb4 it's your fault
I know. I was a khhv with 0 experience with men, I was naive and stupid. this is just my vent and warning to fembots.

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>but can't say anything about it or he gets offended at me being too insecure or wanting to change him

The man is emotionally dishonest. Offense is given NOT taken. I know you don't want to offend him but you also don't need to be manipulated into talking words that only suit other people.

hi user I know it's difficult maybe you could be my gf instead (I will not flirt with other women)

yeah, practically this means that I can't ever say that I don't like x behavior without him getting offended and saying how it's hurtful to him instead that I assume bad things about him. please tell me that most men aren't like this. and thanks for understanding.
i wish he was like this instead. i'm very monogamous and even avoid looking other men at all if I don't have to when I'm with my bf, but he clearly has a different mindset.

Ask him to sit down and have a conversation with you about it. Tell him how you feel like he's being flirty with other women, and tell him how it makes you feel when he does that. Ask him how he would feel if you were flirty with other men. If he still doesn't understand, then end the relationship. It's just that simple.

Yes! YES! Which is why I laid out an alternative (being my gf). Probably? If it makes you this insecure, and he's not willing to listen to you, you're not going to have a very good time in the relationship.

>Be my girlfriend
I wonder if this technique has ever worked.

Did he take your virginity?

It has never worked, but I continue doing it because I think it's funny

Never try to be someone's rebound. Never ask someone to date you as the "instead" option. You will never be able to place your faith in her if your relationship is built on your bullshit.

You want her to leave her current bf for you, just because you promise to be slightly more compatible.
How will you trust her to not leave you for someone else, just because they're slightly more compatible than you?
You want her to immediately get over her previous bf, just because she'll be with you now.
How will you trust her to not immediately get over you, just because she's with someone else now?
You ask for "easy come", you get "easy go".

How old are you? Would you be interested in coming to Washington DC and living with a rich black dentist (me)?

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It's so fucked that douches fuck up their relationships when I'd cherish every second with my gf if I ever got even though I know that sounds gay and beta asf

>Hurr durr
Every woman worth having is always dating already, so you can take this advice if you wish to die alone.

Hey! Hey buddy! My post? It was a joke... HAHAHAHAHHAHA

you can't be my bf but you can be my male friend. you see I wonder if having male friends would make me care less about him so that the jealousy wouldn't hurt so much.
Thanks user, this is probably the most realistic approach. but it's just that he isn't being especially flirty with them, usually he's just making jokes like he does with men. but it does hit differently when he's making other women laugh vs. when he's just trying to entertain other guys. but I will have to bring it up eventually I think.

>you can't be my bf but you can be my male friend.
Why would I want to be your male friend?

>khhv girl gets used by Chad again
Being khhv was probably your only interesting attribute and now you've lost that. Fucking kill yourself whore.

>Why would I want to be your male friend?
unequivocally based response

I think
>if having male friends would make me care less about him so that the jealousy wouldn't hurt so much.
Is a good approach. Also talking about it so you can both get to a point where you a comfortable. Because after all, you are still his gf. He has other options and still picked you. On one hand, get used to that when dating attractive people of either sex, on the other I think it's another kind of flattery.

Other women manage to have male friends, Idk why I can't. but yeah you're right.

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