Has anyone been to a therapist or psychologist and did it make you more of a normie and more socially competent?
As someone with major social problems, no close friends, no female contacts, most likely schizoid personality disorder and poor social intelligence, do you think it would be worth it? Would I see improvement from it?
At worst I'd probably get diagnosed with something that would let me get more centrelink money and give me sympathy.
I live in Australia btw so it shouldnt be that expensive.
Has anyone been to a therapist or psychologist and did it make you more of a normie and more socially competent?
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Therapy was the biggest waste of time of my life, someone passively aggressively reaching conclusions I've already reached on my own, maybe my therapist was just shit but whatever not going to one again
Were they female?
I already know I should only see a male therapist/psych
>Were they female?
Yes, do yourself a favor and ask for a male one if it comes down to it
I also know a passive aggressive fucking piece of shit therapist. Almost like they're all the same
>someone passively aggressively reaching conclusions I've already reached on my own
what sort of shit do they say?
my sister and was in therapy for years, the age of 12-30, same therapist the whole time. At best the therapy did nothing, and at worst it exacerbated whatever minor issues she had. DESU, I'm not sure why my sister was in therapy at all. As far as I could tell it was because my mom desperately needed some sort of excuse for why her daughter turned out to be a whore so she signed her up. I think even my mom came to see it as pointless but by that time my sister was milking it for neet sympathy points. Eventually my sister quit and got a high paying job without trying (she has no degree and barely graduated hs) all that stuff. She's a strong 5 maybe weak 6 so it's not like she should've been struggling in the first place.
I never took my visits seriously and stopped coming after 5 visits so no but I never really tried
>I'm not sure why my sister was in therapy at all
Every toxic family needs a scapegoat. I'm one
>never took my visits seriously and stopped coming
I've heard this is what Narcissists do
Tbh I probably do have some form of Narcissism
therapists treat normalfag problems in normalfag people, they would be completely lost at approaching much less offering solutions for the truecel robot.
>t. seen 7 in the last few years
Narcissists are attracted to the mental health field like a moth to a flame. Think about it, they receive endless praise and admiration for taking on such a virtuous job, they make very good money, they thrive on the power imbalance between themselves and the vulnerable mentally ill clients, and they get their own emotional needs met by FEELING like they are helping people. But if you are a client who genuinely needs help beyond normie advice, coping techniques that you can Google, or fake compassion like saying "aww it's okay, you have a lot going for you," then don't bother. In fact, when a therapist feels like they are dealing with a difficult client and therefore no longer feeling like they are getting their own emotional needs met, they will discard the client like trash (happened to me). They can easily justify this for any reason due to the power imbalance, and discard clients as they please. Don't bother, therapists are narcissistic trash, all of them. At best it will be as helpful as Google, and at worst it will exacerbate your issues far worse than they are now. If you must, get a male therapist. I also have social problems, no female contacts, etc., so I unfortunately developed an attachment to my female therapist. It wasn't super helpful, but it felt good to FINALLY trust someone, and I felt like she really cared. Long story but she inevitably discarded me and it reinforced and magnified all of my issues far worse than before seeing her
>therapists treat normalfag problems in normalfag people
This is true
It's a shame there aren't any super empaths out their to help ppl.
Genuine empaths, such as daniel mackler in this YT video, would get burnt out by the therapy system. Therapists are the opposite of empaths, they are sociopathic and have fake empathy. Any good, decent person, would realize this while working in the therapy field.
>Eventually my sister quit and got a high paying job without trying (she has no degree and barely graduated hs)
What does she do?
If I was a super empath I wouldn't work in a therapy office. Maybe there is another way to seek these ppl out. My favorite story of his is someone peeing on his colleagues chair
My psych gave me antidepressants doesn't chastise me for being a neet
He sounds like a nice guy to me
Been to therapy for three years, got diagnosed as a sperg, now I literally haven't left my flat in 2022, and the only social contact I have is Any Forums. I dread going out on the streets, my parents think I'm succeeding in uni when I'm really failing and playing Vidya all day to cope. Obviously khhv. I'm planning to kill myself at the nearby train tracks this Sunday.
I went to therapy for all of 2021 and it was absolutely pointless