My current state of melancholia would go away if a cute girl hugged me right now. And my depression would go away if she decided to be my girlfriend.
I am deeply depressed. And after trying to solve the probem by taking different kinds of medications for depression for years and noticing that literally nothing changed, i quit it. Did not feel any different. I tried to stay away from Any Forums and negative media. Did not work still. My real problem (other than being and existing) is loneliness. I need female affection.
>I need female affection. so long as you cling to this idea you will never be happy, even if you get what you think you wanted do you meditate? have you contemplated life with no distractions, no obsessions? you can discover peace through a monks detachment and if you choose to then explore the other aspects of life you will be ready for any outcome
Ryan Green
fuck you cuck, not caring about basic things in life does not make life good, its literally cope
Isaiah Martin
have you tried it friend? have you ever fed your spirit before your body?
Gabriel Ortiz
>have you tried it friend? yes, I'v been alone for years and I'v been together with somebody for years. Being together with somebody fixes things much like you expect. >spirit before body oh fuuuuck offf faggot if you think all of this is just about sex
Adrian Ross
>if you think all of this is just about sex those are your assumptions, I think its about gluttony, when you live off basic foods, quit drugs and internet, actively maintain mental and physical fitness, even complete social isolation can be helpful if you utilize it correctly if you gave this all an earnest attempt without preconceptions or cynicism and you felt no benefits at all then I'm sorry I couldn't help you, I can only recommend what I have experienced to work for myself good luck brobot
Jordan Phillips
issolation is only good for those that have not had any time to themselves. it's utterly useless to people who have themselves figured out and just want companionship.
Parker Watson
>depression can be cured by a gf >ssri's doesnt work nigga you dont have depression.
Isaac Edwards
I agree there are diminishing returns, but for one who truly knows himself harmoniously, companionship is an addition, not a requirement
Blake Richardson
>companionship is an addition, not a requirement depends on your standards, denying it's importance is just cope from where I'm standing.
Liam Gonzalez
>depends on your standards precisely, you let it go and you realize you don't need it
Christian Jackson
and thats why it's cope, because you are "letting go" only because you have no access to it, not because there is a benefit to it.
Christopher Barnes
life is not about avoiding coping user, its about avoiding suffering similarly, finding peace without something does not prevent you from obtaining that thing, if anything it makes it easier to obtain
Asher Green
giving up and convincing yourself you dont care is cope that wil seal in your misery.
Hudson Wilson
i get hugged everyday by multiple women, nigger
Connor Turner
shut your cunt faggot
Jason Stewart
if you do it correctly there is no misery to seal in you seem reluctant to try because of how others might see you for it user, maybe the reason you want a gf to begin with is because you feel you're expected to have one?
Elijah Sanchez
>if you do it correctly there is no misery to seal in At best you are a delusional retard, at worst a malicious faggot. There have been many women for example that were lied to, about not getting a family, of chasing their carrers. These women are the most misserable people we have right now, cat ladies, people who too late realized they do want a family but the bio clock has run out and they are fucked.
>you seem reluctant to try because of how others might see you for it user, maybe the reason you want a gf to begin with is because you feel you're expected to have one? What other people perceive me as has absolutely nothing to do with this retard. My answer would remain the same regardless of society or others existing.
I'm telling you now, that your way of thinking is a trap that will lock you into misery.
Austin Ramirez
such angry response really isn't called for, I know you're suffering and I hope you become open to new ways of thinking, it could change your life
Jose Walker
>I'm telling you now, that your way of thinking is a trap that will lock you into misery. I know I'm only agitating you at this point so I will leave you with this, read back over each of our responses with an objective view and see which one of us seems more likely to have locked ourselves into negativity with our mindset I hope you find what you are looking for, friend, and have a good night
Ethan Price
dont bother with these people, they cannot imagine a life void of physical pleasures. Imagine not being able to enjoy life without the company of another person oh no no no
>ohhh you used a no no word so you are negative Not how it works. I am all for pushing and struggling towards a happier life. You being calm and collected while you slide off peacefully into your grave is defeatism. I care not to look dignified, I will claw towards happiness forever if I have to. You remaining dignified as you drown, will win you no favors.
Liam Johnson
>My current state of melancholia would go away if a cute girl hugged me right now.
No it wouldn't lol, it would just subside for a brief amount of time, before the same negative emotions that haunt you come creeping back. Chill out, lift weights, and listen to primus.
