Just finished crying iver the fact i don't have any friends

>just finished crying iver the fact i don't have any friends
>see this
>i was that exact girl all throughout hs, and after leaving nobody remembered or talked to me
holy fuck. i want friends so bad but i know everyone always has and always will see me as this, i can't take it anymore

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You want friends? Get religion.

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Why didn't you have any friends?

I'm sorry, if I had a girl like you I would have tried to comfort you.
I was friends with a girl even my sister made fun of me for playing with.
but I didn't care about what the normies thought.

>tfw your sat there listening to Chad make a stupid joke
>the next 20 minutes of conversation is based around this joke
"Oh French tips, I THOUGHT YOU SAID FRENCH TITS HAHAHAH"
Just 20 minutes of this cunt going "oh yeah pointy nails not pointy tits"
I should have killed myself in high school and made a spectacle out of it.

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I did that in high school (as a guy) although it was less that they didn't like me than I just wouldn't talk, either afraid to, didn't know how to, or just didn't want to

I was the center of my friend group, and pretty popular in high school

They don't remember to talk to you regardless. No matter if you try, not even after one of the most beloved of the friend group kills himself

You're not missing out on anything, high school is less of a meaningful period of your life than you think. Find ways to make friends around your current interests and hobbies

You can ignore social media, but I agree, having no friends sucks. I don't feel much liked by people even though I think I'm an alright guy. I just don't understand why people dislike me so much.

social anxiety pretty much. couldn't talk to new people at all
thanks user. it sucked because i went into highschool with a couple friends, but they all joined a friend group where i was just "the one who stands around on the outside silently" so i gave up and stayed alone forever since then
same here, i guess it was my fault, because if i was more outgoing i probably would have been fine, they didn't seem like bad people. but they all just seemed so much better than me that i couldnt talk to them

Shes cute
The girl in pic, not op

She looks like all hooded skanks.

>but they all just seemed so much better than me that i couldnt talk to them
Everyone tries to "seem" better. That doesn't mean they're actually better, it's just what they want you to see.

One thing I realised after I started university after 2 years of being alone is that if you want to change then you have to make a real effort to change.
I thought I had changed because in my head I imagined I had changed over the past 2 years. About how I would totally have lots of friends in university that I invited over every week etc. Of course reality hit me like a brick and I realised I haven't changed in a good way bit besides being even more aloof and caring even less about anything. Who would have thought isolation would breed asocial behavior?

The last part makes no sense because I edited it without proof reading. Hopefully you get my point anyway.

Yeah, you're saying that if you think change is less than not being a fucking anti-social loser then you will never "change" and have a social life. Fucking goober.

i mean they were objectively prettier, more extroverted, had more friends than me, even richer than me. but i know if i was just able to hold a convo and to crack some jokes none of that would matter, instead my head traps me and makes me unable to even get a word out
that's true. i thought i really had changed though because i'd never made any friends until middle school. but it turns out that's just whenn i peaked i guess lol. currently a neet pretty much so no more real opportunities to fix it, but even if i had the opportunity to, ive been isolating since covid started, if i was already struggling to that degree back then, i doubt i can fix it now.
no worries, i still got it. i'm tired too and probably rambling a lot, not proofreading anything

Why are you so vapid? Being "prettier", "having more friends", or being born rich doesn't make you better than someone. I have very few friends I talk to regularly, one in real life and two online, but I would much rather have them than 20 random people I can't trust and don't really know anything about.
I used to have a similar problem of wanting to be popular and be liked. You should stop worrying about it and just focus on fostering genuine friendships and not being so egotistical, you will enjoy life much more.

Yeah you're probably right. I'm also autistic so my friends will only ever be other weirdos which I am fine with. I did at least get some friends both in and outside of university

Autistic or "autistic?"

is it really so vapid of me? i was just insecure of those things. my best friend for a short while was an 8-9/10, constantly had guys hitting on her even when in public with me, lived in a penthouse, meanwhile i looked like a little goblin next to her and was too embarrassed to ever even have someone over to my house, since i shared a room in a tiny apartment with a younger sibling. i don't think i'm better than people im prettier or richer than, but i think im worse than the people who are prettier and richer than me. its just a double standard i hold myself to, i think it's common to feel this way

I was diagnosed so I'm actually autistic and not just pretending