Daddy Issues vs Mommy Issues

Everybody discusses how a lack of a proper father figure leads to a lot of issues and complexities arising in children as they grow up... But what issues can arise in a lack of a proper mother figure? Actually, judging from the pic, I seem to be suffering from both at the same time.

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Not having a mother or having a bad mother ruins you forever.
A man who has been the indisputable favorite of his mother keeps for life the feeling of a conqueror, that confidence of success that often induces real success. Freud

My parents deprived me of my foreskin and I'd love to make them suffer.

I have both, sadly

HAHAHAHA FAGGOT
YOU GOT SHITTY PARENTS
SO DO I
FUCKIN FAGGOT TRAITORS HAD MY DICK MUTILATED
FOR THAT I WOULD LOVE TO HURT THEM

HAHAHA
AT LEAST MY PARENTS DIDN'T MUTILATE MINE

HAHA
I'M GONNA MAKE MINE PAY

Well, taking into account that single fathers tend to raise children more effectively, I guess they will come out better than raised by a single mother.

I cant figure out which type of mother would be best.
Looking at people around me, "unloved" (by mother) children are usually the best off, they learn to be independent quick and they are motivated to achieve because they desperately want to earn and deserve their mothers love and blessings.
On the other hand it also can give birth to psychopaths, who never learned what love is and are unable to ever feel it towards others. Rather insensitive beings. But still do well in society if there are authority figures that guide them on proper paths. Still, a thorn in the heart will be there forever.

The coddled kids on the other hand are often frustrated with their inability to handle society and become bitter through that. This as the result of tending to reject people easily again, because their "mental chalice of love" is already full and they are emotionally detached from people outside family. They do not lack empathy, but lack the motivation to utilize it. But in a good scenario, they can also be very loving and caring people and have a good life.

In my own life, if you ask what my mother figure lacked...definitely that is "love for life". I've been pumped full of pessimistic outlooks and visions of misery throughout my life. That is despite being loved, I always felt her love very strongly. So I believe now that a parent has to be a good role model first of all. To be able to handle life without hystery about every little thing, and teach a child that confidence that living is good and that all troubles can be solved (on emotional level).

As for person wanting either parents love...It is normal in any scenario, unfortunately there is no way for a person to truly disregard his parents, your heart came from theirs, after all.

cis
the daddy issues thing there is accurate, majority of my friends that are bi have some form of daddy issues. Majority of people I know well that don't identify asgender also have daddy and/or mommy issues (my ex-girlfriend has a deadbeat dad and is pan + had dysphoria and eventually identified as male for a few months last year)

I think my parents raised me absolutely terribly; there was never enough open hostility/resentment to have me turn out fully bi but I am partial to femboys