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This board, both in relation to men and women, are experts at reductionist thinking and what-about-ism. It seems to me that how men and women approach love and sex are fundamentally different. This isn't really a surprise to anyone who's ever actually paid attention but it does cause a sense of alienation. Beyond that, due to anonymity and general culture both of the sexes really put their worst foot forward here.

There have been multiple examples today, and potentially in this thread alone of these broad stroke reductionist ideals being wrong objectively, but being helpful to the individual as a coping mechanism or as a tool to help make sense of an otherwise hostile relationship with the other gender. If you compile reactions and arguments from places such as this, incel.is, lolcow, CC, etc; I believe you could come up with a pretty good outline of how the two parties come into conflict and why, however it would be a monumental task and only applicable to the subset of generally off curve divergents who use those places. Which would give skewed results.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm fucking bored of randomly hating women or men over trite repeated points with no attempts at furthering either the understanding of, or reconciliation of the two parties. Either work towards peace or make the proverbial "nuclear weapon" of gender wars so it can be done and over with already. If this exists for either side and is lovingly compiled somewhere, please do let me know and I'll shut the fuck up on the topic forever more.

this is a long blog post. Men have it bad, you don't. If you can't accept that, you're never going to be a part of this board.
Stop faggot. it's not Men's fault, it's not both are faults, it's women's fault, it's been their fault for a long time. Just accept that, or move to reddit. You can't bullshit people here into ignoring the unavoidable obvious truth of it. Just give up already. This generation of men got fucked over, by a lot of people, notably this generation of women, and the previous generation of manhating boomers and koolaid drinking millennials.

There's no arguing out of this.

Once again, you think that you do not need those things because you take them for granted. You think that you don't need sex and attention because you KNOW that you can get them whenever you want. If you were a man, aka someone with no romantic options and not the recipient of attention, those needs would come back, because you can no longer get them effortlessly anymore. The reason as to why people need sex has more to do with their need to be desired than the need to satisfy their lust. If I was constantly reminded that I was desired because I exist, I wouldn't seek sex as much either. You have no idea how depressing it is to be a man. Seriously. Unless you're extremely unattractive, you're literally incapable of empathising completely. I'm sorry but when your problem is "I'm not desired in the way I want to be desired by the people I want to be desired by" and our problem is "I'm not desired" and you think that both these situations are equally awful, you're delusional

Your fault is assuming that sex means anything to women. Being ""desired"" simply due to having a vagina isn't a good thing -- it's objectifying, humiliating -- and stems from a belief most incels adopt from a history/experience of not being desired.
>The reason as to why people need sex has more to do with their need to be desired than the need to satisfy their lust.
This applies to men, not women. Women inheriently know that they are valued as a fleshlight rather than a person. Again and again you put sex above literally EVERYTHING else.

same user?! SAME user?!?!

if it is, it's me. i switched browsers so i can't find where it was we first met but i'm using the same picture. ireally hope this is yuu and not another imposter. again, i'm sorry if i missed an y of your other posts.

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I don't deny that we're totally fucked in a large number of regards. I also don't deny that a large section of women are beyond the pale and should be considered nothing but harbingers of misery for men.

I'm more stating the idea that the worst of the female population conspired with the worst of the male population over generations to drag both groups into hell.

I'm totally fine to change my stance on this if there is a compiled list on some website you could point me to? I know there are the info graphic image dumps but without reading the study myself, the methodology, and other factors it's only hearsay. If it is not compiled directly then can you provide some key examples to look up myself?

i'm really really really sorry if i didn't erspond sooner. i'm sorry. please responnd. is there anything you need me to do to apologize? please respond please respond please respond please respond

>SAME user?!?!
yes, it's really me.
> i can't find where it was we first met but i'm using the same picture. ireally hope this is yuu and not another imposter.
I remember you. Are you doing well?
>i'm sorry if i missed an y of your other posts.
don't be, I wouldn't take something like that personally. Don't beat yourself up over something like that. How was your valentines day?

>yes, it's really me.
!!!!!!!!!!!!! I really misseed you =D =D
>I remember you. Are you doing well?
hehe i'm realy really happy right now! thank you for responding!! and ignore me ( ). i was just overreacting haha
>How was your valentines day?
i actually didn't know it was valentines day until after it was over cause i slept all that day. my dad got me these yummy chocolates from the drug store which was really nice of him!!
how wa s yours? did you do anything special? =D

>Being ""desired"" simply due to having a vagina isn't a good thing -- it's objectifying, humiliating
Yes it fucking is. You know why? Because the alternative is to not be desired. At all. Something you've never experienced and therefore have no idea how much it sucks. I wish I was seen as a sex object. At least then people wouldn't treat me as an invisible nothing. If you truly think that there's some major biological difference that makes women not enjoy attention then you need to study basic psychology. The reason that sex means nothing to you isn't because you don't need it. It's because you take it for granted. Same goes for attention. You're used to being given attention all your life so naturally getting attention isn't enough for you. You want the RIGHT kind of attention. But let me tell you something. When shit hits the fan, and you experience what it's like to not get any attention for the first time, you're gonna start appreciating the ""objectifying"" you used to get a whole lot more. Us not empathising with your spoiled kid "problems" isn't a sign that we're "heartless" or "emotionless husks". Expecting us to empathize with you is like expecting a starving kid in Africa to empathize with a rich white kid from a suburban household who's "hungry too" because it refused to eat it's fucking vegetables for lunch this day. Kill yourself

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