what is the general consensus on bpd guys?
What is the general consensus on bpd guys?
Gavin Cruz
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Juan Flores
BPD guys are the lowest on the social ladder, a flat 1/10, the most undesirable traits imaginable.
Parker Cox
Nobody likes us, at least with girls you are a girl. Everyone will just say you are faking it unless you have an official diagnosis. If you do have one people dont want to be your friend if you make it known. In terms of online if you are really charming and nice during your positive moods it gets people obsessed with you and it gets annoying and you feel guilty when you don't want to talk to people.
Adrian Hughes
stop labeling me, im me, not a label
Bentley Lopez
>if you are really charming and nice during your positive moods it gets people obsessed with you
how to keep them obsessed to match your own obsession without scaring them away?
Blake Howard
You just have to find people who are the same level of obsessed that or just hide it initially for a few days-weeks and ramp it up then.
Most of the people I meet who are like that are trans and meet through videogames like overwatch or league of legends or other games like that.
Robert Sullivan
Yo, apathetic to all zooider here. Pick related.
I'm legit curious about obsession, both towards and received as it's a near alien concept to me. Would one of you be able to actually greentext up what it's like from either side? I'm legit curious how the other mental half lives, as it were.
Owen Lewis
What are the general symptoms of bpd?
Like hoe do you generally feell n shit?
Ethan Fisher
picrel is all i want honestly
im sick
Lincoln Ortiz
It can be summed up like this: They idealize you and picture you as some magical person who can nurture all of their self-centered needs.
Grayson Hernandez
i didn't realize i had bpd until i got my first (and only gf)
Gavin Price
Huh, simpler then I imagined I suppose. Thanks for the info. I thought there would be a lot more fanciful delusion baked into it.
Grayson Cooper
What was the relationship like
When I had a relationship I was literally completely high from it for like 3 months and then it fades down and we broke up
And I generally tend to extremely idealize people I want
Benjamin Jenkins
they're neurotypicals who have sex and get laid. this is why i think only autists can be robots
if you're a 30+ virgin, and have trouble maintaining eyecontact with people, theres a serious chance you are a undiagnosed autist. i got diagnosed at 27
Gabriel Ward
I swing between charismatic and social and barely articulate and reclusive
Michael Parker
oof ouch
Ryan Anderson
I'm dead inside, but I don't want to die.
Brody Nelson
Yes that's kind of how it works, for me at least.
Benjamin Bailey
>find people who are the same level of obsessed
I've yet to find a single person unfortunately, and I don't know if the repeated disappointments are worth it at this point.
when I'm obsessed it's something like:
>always have that person in mind, while also being reminded of them by everything around you
>want to spend every waking second with that person, even if it's just silently sitting in a call together
>want to cut out everyone from your life as to make that one person your everything, since no one else can compare anyway
>their slightest affirmations feel like heaven, while their slightest rejections feel like getting stabbed in the chest 50 times over
you basically will do ANYTHING for them, while wanting to merge with their entire being, so you never have to separate.
Most pain arises when the other person doesn't feel the same way about you, which they never do.
Henry King
Nolan Morgan
I found that person once. Married her. It was an absolutely wild ride, but I'd not of traded it for the world. In the end I burnt her out even though she was the same sort of brainsick. I still think of them daily. No, I don't bother them.
Carter Bailey
I don't care what you think of me, I'm not going to describe my illness to you and what social implications it has on my life so you can form some kind of retarded fetish for it.