How do I overcome my anxiety of using dating apps...

How do I overcome my anxiety of using dating apps? I have some positive attributes like being tall and not super overweight or anything, but I still can't get over the fear of rejection and having to make conversation at the start. Are there any dating apps that would be easier to start with? I don't even really care if I get anything out of it I just want to be able to actually give it a shot and hopefully gain at least a tiny amount of confidence to continue trying.

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Dating apps don't work. They're written by tech bros who get even less pussy than you, and their goal is to take your money and personal information when you are vulnerable.
Just live your best life, and a woman will come along to mess it up.

>Just live your best life, and a woman will come along to mess it up.

Top fucking kek, made me exhale air from my nose.

You're wrong faggot incel.
Met my current gf that i've been with for years on okcupid.

>Just live your best life, and a woman will come along to mess it up.
thanks user, you're probably right. the women in my past have always messed up my life more than helped anyways, so I do feel best on my own. I usually do okay on my own but the loneliness can just be hard to deal with sometimes.

>Just work 9-5 and partake in your solitary and/or sausagefest hobbies and a woman will fall into your lap

It's not going to happen if you reek of desperation, either.

Dont bother unless youre chad. Its a waste of time otherwise unless you have a bbw fetish

>fear of rejection
If you really want to play the dating game, you gotta get rid of that stupid fear

Hard not to be desperate as an adult virgin who isn't sllowed to pursue women because it makes you seem desperate

Dont date retard. You eithrt get along with a girl you have mutual friends with or you stay alone, dating is the third and worst option

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>Hard not to be desperate as an adult virgin who isn't sllowed to pursue women because it makes you seem desperate
It seems to me that if that's all you are, you need to get some better interests than self-destructive navel-gazing.

I find it impossible to focus on whatever hobbies because they aren't what I really want, they're just a means to an end

Take LSD, figure out your life, get a degree in marine biology, and work at Sea World.

Then you can fuck dolphins.

I can't even focus on assignments for my worthless easy online college degree because I'm so hung up on sex, let alone something that would actually be challenging

>but actually nobody bought her flowers
Pottery department

Do you play video games? If so, do you play easy games or hard games?

Can you redpill me on taking LSD to realize your problems and find a path in life? Will I know what to do once the trip is over?

Always easy or moderate, if I hear a game is hard I won't touch it because I know it will only bring me rage

You don't need LSD to do that. My realization from when I did it is that it's not very nice to demand answers out of yourself. Thinking about questions all the time makes your head hurt.
Just ask yourself what you want to do for fun and how you can make a job out of it. I did that when I was a teenager. I liked playing video games, so I became a programmer. Later, I started liking life, so I started to become a metaprogrammer to change myself.
Maybe you're not playing games that suit your skillset. I would think that over time, there must be some game that you would get better at to the point of playing as an expert.

I don't derive joy from being challenged

I'm best at certain 2D platformers but even then I'll only do the hardest stuff once for completion and never touch it again because it causes nothing but stress and frustration