"just be confident like Chad who's had a lifetime of positive social reinforcement brah"

>"just be confident like Chad who's had a lifetime of positive social reinforcement brah"

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That doesn't look like a Chad tho, some average faggot.

He looks rather tall and hes white so, good enough.

But I'm doing well for myself rn and I had a shitty non-social childhood. Stop coping you fucking loser.

don't need to be as confident as chad but yeah idk what you do if you always have shit feedback
just keep trying forever until you find someone who can accept you i guess, even if you're not super confident

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that dude was getting so many girls numbers that he decided to stop trying to get them because he felt bad about doing it without the intention of calling them back. none of us will ever relate

>white
So what happened to the black masculine guys fucking all the hottest white chicks?

Or you can have self-awareness to know what you're good or bad at. Having confidence doesn't really help you get a gf, but not having confidence makes you look offputting.
t. confident khhv

Literally happens only in porn or if they're a rich rapper. Ask any woman they're preferences and blacks are always last.

survivorship bias. faggot. IF youre even telling the truth

don't really understand how incels don't get it
women want men who look like they're thriving without a woman in their life
that's what people are really talking about when they talk about 'confidence'
you guys walk with your hands in your pockets and your head down, constantly griping about the world and bemoaning your state of affairs. and you wonder why you get no chicks?
she wants the guy who is comfortably on his own and smiling and laughing every step of the way, enjoying his achievements and needing no women at all, letting them come and go as they do
and you may not realize it, but being that guy is a lot nicer than being the guy you are now, even if you don't get any girls as a result. and it's within any man's grasp. you just have to change the way you look at the world

>"just smile and laugh and have good social skills and achievements without ever having had the experiences necessary to be like that brah. Just have skills you never had the chance to develop braaaah. yiiiikes sweaty i can tell by the way you type on the internet you walk with your head down hands in pockets creeping out women!"

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>women want men who look like they're thriving without a woman in their life
Except they're not thriving without a woman in their life. They've had regular attention from woman since at least middle school. So going a bit without, isn't a big deal for them. There's no man who's been alone for 25+ years, who is well adjusted and happy.

>raise your value x10, so a dickless lunatic can reduce it x100

yep. everything this user said is spot on.
t. literal chad
>instead of going outside to acquire said abilities he decided to shitpost about men he believes are genetically superior
just come out of the closet already.
maybe these men that are >= 25 years old should try doing something fucking different instead of screeching on a plastic bag collectors forum.

>maybe these men that are >= 25 years old should try doing something fucking different instead of screeching on a plastic bag collectors forum.
Tried. Doesn't do anything. I'm depressed and anxious all the time, so every single social interaction I have is awful and just reinforces all of my issues.

then no gf for you my man. either stop crying and change your life or rot alone. it's really that simple.

>muh porn
sure buddy.

surely you're just being obtuse at the point where you're basically saying it's impossible to nurture a good attitude to life in yourself just because you've had some bad experiences
everyone has bad experiences. you have to pick yourself back up and go get enough good ones to keep smiling and enjoying life
do you seriously think this is it, you had some bad experiences so now you're doomed to be a whining faggot forever? come on man
now is the easiest time in history to do this, we have unprecedented freedom and opportunity. unless you just want to whine and keep yourself weak, in which case you rob yourself of all that
raise your value x10 for yourself, so you can enjoy life more, and who fucking cares what any bitch decides to do? maybe if one comes along and bounces on your dick enough and cooks and cleans enough then you'll let her hang around, but if not then who the fuck cares anyway? there are far more interesting things to be getting on with in life

>t. literal chad
>posting on 4chamz
automatic disqualification.

>there are far more interesting things to be getting on with in life
Like fucking what, man?

this reminds me of that quote about cowardice. it's the worst most disgusting form of narcissism. It so irritating to deal with retards that think they have anxiety when in reality all it is being self absorbed

I just don't know how this shit works. Most men are better than me. They have the social skills, the height, the looks. I'm the bottom of the barrel in everything, always have been. So why the fuck would a woman pick me? "There's someone for everyone" is complete bullshit.

uhh basically anything? business, martial arts, languages, music, philosophy, writing, learning any a hard skill to a level of mastery etc. etc. the list goes on
women are nice, cool, fun to have around sometimes, great at raising kids, but they come and go. the things in your life that persist are the things you do for yourself, learn for yourself, make for yourself. those things also happen to be the things that attract women, but that's not even close to the main reason to do those things. you do them for yourself
how all this isn't obvious is mindboggling to me tbf

Okay. So how do I fix it then?

>>instead of
>>pick yourself back
Why. are. normal. niggers. so. incapable. of. imagining. someone. venting. AND. trying. to. improve.
It's like fucking clockwork with you "people" over and over and over and over again. Any time someone complains about no friends or gf you faggots come out of the woodwork and say "just try lol" as if that isn't what they are doing every single day.

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