Has anyone ever given a female friend money for sex? I am a 28 year old virgin and I have 40k in savings from working while living at home like a piece of shit and there was a girl I knew back in college who I had one of those cringy friendzone dynamics with. She would drive like a whole hour to hang out with me and she was very nice but eventually we stopped talking after she got drunk and asked if we were ok just being friends and I said yes even though I'd admitted feelings to her several times, we just ghosted each other after that. She recently moved back to town and is working for minimum wage despite finishing college with a no so great degree employment opportinity wise. I was thinking if I ran into her and she recognized me and we caught up I could explain how I don't want to be a 30 y.o. virgin and see. I would happily pay 1k to lose my virginity. I don't even know how to approach this in a way that won't upset her or seem like I am trying to pressure her. I just can't bear to visit a normal hooker who I have no attachment to, I'd rather lose it to someone I trust even though I haven't talked to her in years. I know this sounds retarded but I can't get the idea out of my head.
Your brain is fried on porn, what makes you think she will do that
Cooper Williams
This is a terrible idea. She doesn't view you as someone she would want sexual intimacy with, and if you do this you are essentially treating her as if for enough money she would fuck anyone.
If she really was that way, you two would have had sex already..
Since she is NOT the type of person she will get really upset. She will tell people that know you about this. They will believe her, and your life will get much worse. This is not a good idea at all. Here is the only, and I mean ONLY situation in which something like this could be possible.
First, search local escort sites in your area, and in surrounding areas. If you see someone that looks like her. Pay them for sex. Either you will find out it IS her, and pay her for sex because by some fucked up chance she is a whore. If it's not her, then you get to lose your virginity regardless.
I understand you don't want to lose it to someone you don't trust or care for. I respect that, and would encourage you to try to form trust in another women. But what i described above is realistically the only way you could feasibly see your scenario play out. And, if it IS her by some fucked up shit? Do NOT under any circumstance confess or say it's "you" if she says she thinks she knows you? Deny it. Do not accuse her of being who you know she is. If you do? She will end it right there, and you won't have sex with her. She doesn't want people to know she is a whore. So don't let her know that you know her.
Carter Sanchez
Yeah it is a terrible idea and I think the only reason I'm considering it again so because I haven't jacked off in 3 days. So I'll rectify that situation. I definitely will never get a hooker. Maybe try to date another woman but I cannot lose it to a hooker. I don't think she'd fuck anyone for some amount of money but she didn't hate me or think I was entirely repulsive so I figured maybe there is a small chance. but that is stupid.
Jordan Butler
dude just tell her you want to take her out to dinner and fuck her that night
Nathan Green
1k? far too much i dont really understand your standing with her and im not rereading your annoying paragraph but offer less if ur gonna go that way. preferably just take her to dinner and try to make her like you. gotta find out why she doesnt like you it might be a personal problem of hers so chill out fuck this shit advice
Zachary Campbell
She did like me, as a friend. She sometimes would text me first but usually I initiated the conversations. But a lot of the time it was me because I didn't have a phone so I had to use a free text app thing. I was broke as fuck so I didn't buy her stuff but I did give her a necklace for Xmas once which was extremely cringy. I also ignored her several times when she got a boyfriend, sometimes for a month or more. I was a maisve fucking incel fag but I was never rude toward and when I confessed my feelings she said she'd never thought of it but we could hang out more and see where things went. Well shocker surprise they didn't. I continued to orbit her, we would go hiking and stuff and she enjoyed talking to me I think. She was willing to drive like an hour to see me. But I haven't talked to her in over 7 years now so it'd be a weird sort of reunion at this point. I doubt she'd want to bang me now, she's had a lot of boyfriends and they've gotten slightly uglier but still all better looking than me.
Connor Wright
well she dislikes you cuz youre ugly and maybe because you were poor and youre a shutin right. maybe the money really is your best option lmao >haven't talked to her in over 7 years now so it'd be a weird sort of reunion at this point hopeless
Colton Stewart
I've paid friends for sex arrangements. Never 1k. Start with 60 to 80 if anything. It helps if you know they're struggling.
The ones I catch usually have a weed habit or pill habit.
Good luck.
Colton Stewart
It's the best advice he's going to get in this thread guaranteed. The fact he is considering approaching a life long old friend to pay to have sex with him, and take his virginity already speaks volumes of his mental well being.
Realistically my scenario is the most likely way for him to have sex with her in the way he described. It is a long shot. But far better than dealing with the after math of trying to pay her to have sex with him directly.
Since she was clear she viewed him as a friend it is clear she has no sexual desire for him. This is the truth. So she will be monumentally more offended, and disgusted by such a gesture. It'd be worth a fucking laugh I guess, but I don't want to encourage him to destroy his relationships with people when word gets out he is a virgin creep who offered money for sex.
John Thomas
Why not just meet up, get drunk and fuck her for free?
Sebastian Young
>I don't even know how to approach this in a way that won't upset her or seem like I am trying to pressure her. You don't need to worry about this, she never cared about upsetting you and she is obviously in a situation where the money will talk. Go for it, take that last little shred of doubt that she didn't fuck her life right up totally and crush it, show her the good guy backup plan doesn't see her as more than meat, FINISH HER!
Brody Wilson
well it just depends on his goal. your way doesnt offer any possibility of sex even though it maintains the possibility of friendship (which hasnt existed in 7 years, she might not want to be friends either)
only OP knows what his friends are like and how they will judge it. doesnt sound like he has many friends anyway. overall probably best to give up on the sex i agree
Jaxon Barnes
>She did like me, as a friend. Which means she looked at you the way you would look at the bottom of your shoe after stepping in shit.
Liam Martin
That's called rape and I don't want to be a rapist. Admittedly what I'm proposing isn't much better.
Grayson Turner
>That's called rape No, it's rape if she doesn't consent if an adult can choose to get drunk knowing they become loose, then the adult has decided beforehand that those decisions do not bother her. It's not rape and don't subscribe to that man shaming bullshit. You'd be drunk too, are you not human? Does it not matter if she is raping you? Because that's what your thinking assumes, that you are not good enough to have that same protection.
Andrew Rodriguez
I don't want my first time having sex to be while drunk which I'll barely remember.
Isaac Taylor
>which I'll barely remember. Oh you'll remember it regardless.
Matthew Collins
terrible idea op.
just ask her out normally, maybe buy her a nice gift if you want to spend money on her
Robert Gomez
I used to do that shit and she already rejected me. There's no way she'd fuck me without money involved, she's like 7/10 and I'm like 4/10, not fat normal looking dude just sunken cheeks and Jew nose. Her boyfriends are all 7/10 to 8/10. I only make 39k a year so I can't be beta bucks and we're only 28 so no beta bucks yet.
Blake Torres
Not a female friend, but my mom yeah. She kept grubbing for money to scrape by, so figured to get something out of it.
