Why did you make me download tinder Any Forums?

why did you make me download tinder Any Forums?
ive never felt lonelier in my life then after jumping on tinder

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nobody told you to do anything

people tell me to do a lot of things here
especially to kill myself

I genuinely believe the advent of online dating has destroyed the odds of 80% dudes to have a successful long term relationship
t. Met wife before it existed. Hear stories from both my m8s and my sister-in-law about the bullshit on both sides.

I went on many dates using tinder. It works. I know several couples who started through tinder.

do I need social media to get on tinder?

I don't have a social media presence at all. no friends irl either

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I had to get snap to get them to send pics for proof and stuff. Ideally just meet in person as soon as possible.

no you dont
unless you are so dependant on your social media account to go out of your way to tell people you have an instagram account in your bio
literally the only thing people can see and judge you for is your face (or body if displayed on profile picture)
if they dont like you at the first glance they will swipe left (meaning they ignored you) and you will be lost to them forever as the system will no longer recommend you to them at all
plus tinder now literally has an ELO matchmaking, and you start at the top so the app gets you hooked on it to make you waste more time and observe all the prime pussy you will never get to slay and be rejected by. the more you get rejected the lower your score in ELO is so you get only displayed to uglier and uglier people until you eventually reach the bottom of the barrel (and still get rejected)
honestly this app is fucking vile for average dudes and absolutely will hurt you, imagine stooping so low to actively send matches to ugliest bitches youve seen in your life and STILL get ignored like holy fucking shit dude what the fuck
tinder is 100% the single most reason in the rise of the incels, lookism and male virginity, it absolutely killed any chances in genuine human relationships and average will NEVER be enough

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Perhaps dont be ugly

brutal but I knew this
I need to meet girls though. any recommendations?

I have no irl friends so I can't meet through that.
All I do is work and lift, and I don't want to approach women in the gym because if they think i'm weird/creepy, it'll be awkward since I'll likely see them again often (same gym)

idk what to do bros.
Maybe I should just get an escort

Tinder is a drug man. Really never amounted to anything for me and even with that i ended up using it again after ditching it until i finally got a girl (not with the app obviously). I think the app is more common in USA than here on Brasil and it may be diferent but from my experience you should stay away from it and not give in. It's fucked how the app i feed from the loneliness of the people who use it.

...Ended up using it again and again until ditching it...*

Tinder jumped the shark circa 2015

If you aren't 6'5 ripped & sitting on top of a Lambo don't bother

>any recommendations?
yeah
you have to put in tenfold the effort
if you lift then you have to outlift yourself to the point where your face or other negative features will be absolutely negliable and pale in comparison to your sculpted body
if you already like lifting and eant to do it then you have to kill yourself for it to the point where random bitch will see nothing but your curved biceps, your profound adonis belt or your firm abs
same with anything other you do you just have to stick to it until you are REALLY good at it and have RESULTS for it to show
and NEVER , EVER fall for the demoralization into giving up, it will give you nothing
there is no comfort in giving up, you get nothing from it and it will drag you down into the abyss deeper and deeper until the point of no return where its impossible to climb out of and there is nothing but more and more misery in your life
think of it as cleaning your room, it will never get clean itself if left alone and ignoring it only brings more filth that requires more effort to clean up
this is why so many sad and miserable people wish for the end of society, hope for another world war or the end of the world, their rooms have been neglected for so long that they would rather set them on fire then put in the effort to clean them up

Looks only matter on dating apps to a point. Anyone whose matches aren't throttled by the algorithm within a few days is paying for boosts. In my experience, OKC, despite its many flaws, is better than other apps because you can DM girls. I almost always get a match/response when I DM, whereas your profile card will likely be buried under all the simps paying to use the app if you only swipe right.
>Tl;dr: microtransactions ruined online dating

how does it compare to hinge bros?

Delete Tinder and get Bumble
Get better pictures. Have ones where you're doing activities you love and are doing things that you're proud of. NO SELFIES PERIOD. Smile in your pictures and make sure they're genuine and feel in the moment instead of staged and forced. If your teeth aren't great, get fucking better teeth.

Let your friends pick your pictures instead of doing it yourself, because pictures of you picked by other people will always do better than the ones you pick for yourself.

Don't be insufferable in your profile.

if you'd tried that instead we wouldn't be reading this dumb thread

Fuck you faggot. OP is a king and he just needs to realize

Here. Met my current gf on Bumble by following these rules. I'm hardly even a 6/10 and I met a great girl, but it takes time and I worked a lot on my profile.

Don't give up king

Agree with what you said but smiling isn't necessary.
Why the fuck does a man need to be smiling in his pictures? What are you even smiling at ? Teehee I am so happy look at me fishing. Grow up

Because girls prefer men who are happy and that will make them feel safe and it makes you look approachable and trustworthy, retard

>Hurr durr I need to look so cool and badass in my photos that's what bitches really want

You're the one that needs to grow up. You aren't fucking Ryan Gosling. Be human

Don't think for a second tinder will let top 10% chads get away with using their platform without paying, they are already rolling out features that severely limit mens options more than they already do. Everyone gets fucked over with rampant unchecked female hypergamy in the west. If you want a succesful relationship go overseas and stay there, globohomo shouldn't reach most places in at least 30 years

Unironically just go go to escorts if your country has legal ones if you want sex. They give good experiences and alot less wasted time and money chasing pussy on tinder. Normally Id be against it but most relationships online are transactional anyway.