For any rare anons here who will have children, don't make them become ultra nerds with school and stuff...

For any rare anons here who will have children, don't make them become ultra nerds with school and stuff. Make sure they make friends and socialize, that's more important than the silly shit they teach in school just to pass exams. School is important at the start but don't pressure them too much. Don't over shelter them also, let them explore the world.

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The only people who realize this won't be having children because their lives have been wasted on meaningless education and the wageslavery it leads to.

Well said brother thats the way to do it.

I'm gonna teach my kids the important shit and socialising is among it. But so is education. But honestly, having gotten a grasp on the world and a huge education helped me more than playing in the sandbox with some retards, even if I was a little spergy at the beginning.

Oversheltering is the worst tho. Not gonna happen.

>playing in the sandbox
But user, making childhood friends will help your children to experience very cool stuff when they're teens. It will build a great character.

>experience
That just depends on your social skills and status. They are both just means to an end, like everything else. When I realised this, it was all uphill. And I need a competent heir, not some emotional faggot.

I give the opposite advice. Make them only focus on school, ignore friends.
Friends are temporary and will go away within years.
Career and comfortable life will last a lifetime.
Friends will not be there when you need them; only family will

You do you, but i had lots of amazing moments in my life with the friends i had. It made me into a better person overall.

I think we have different views on what a good person is. I had amazing moments too, sometimes with other people, friends is a stretch for the most tho. I'm not saying my child shouldn't have friends, I'm saying him being competent socially as well as intellectually is more important than having friends.

That's so wrong. I'd be an autistic freak if i never had friends and would've missed out on so many great moments in my life. School just makes you like everyone else and it's boring. Learning basic things is great but yea most of it is useless.
>Muh career
So you're basically going to be working either in school or at a job for the rest of your life, wow, that definently wont make your children suicidal.

>competent socially
What do you mean competent socially? Having friends will help you to become social lmao.

>competent socially
Being able to get others to do what you need from them.

Jesus user, what do you want from the kid? Give them a decent childhood they'll learn how to be leaders later down the line.

>Make sure they make friends and socialize
That may be beyond my ability, user!

>what do you want from the kid
Excelling. Having a strong character and not being a bitch. Being smart and cultured.

On the off chance that I reproduce, the first thing I'll do is introduce them to the magical place called Any Forums.

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>not being a bitch
Having friends and doing cool stuff with them never made me into a bitch, i just have great momories from it.

I have a 1 year old son. I don't want him to be like his dad. I want him to be better, and I'm doing everything I can to make that happen already.

Question is what didn't you learn? What was the opportunity cost of that?

I mean user, if it all boils down to learning and improving, it's like forcing adulthood on your children. At the end of the day what will that bring you? What are the motivations behind it? I'm not saying it's bad but you can do that later down the line when you know what you're striving for. Children and teens don't even know what their real goals are yet.

Single dad with a daughter, I try to raise her well including socialization. However covid has kind of fucked things in the ass especially with school.

>it's like forcing adulthood on your children
Childhood is the tutorial for adulthood. Why don't use it to get familiar with the game you are playing?

>whats my motivation
I have a company and a legacy to pass on and some beta cuck is not gonna cut it.

>So you're basically going to be working either in school or at a job for the rest of your life, wow, that definently wont make your children suicidal.
Having a cush career for the rest of your life is way better than some minor moments years ago taht you can barely remember.
You can have same goofy fun moments at work too, if you got a nice job.
Friends are temporary, and will not help you when the time comes. It is a waste of time to invest in them; they have no clearly defined rate of return

Well it's your children user, do what feels right to you.

Hey anons, I intend to be a father later in life. If you could choose to grow up rich in a third world nation or just middle class in america, which would you pick?

Would you want to be mixed race or have a loser/contentious/less than ideal white mother?

>wastes 22 years on school
>loses out on job to hiring manager's buddy
heh nothing personal kid

It's gonna be a good time off anyway, now's my own time to prove that I'm capable of that.

>Friends are temporary
I had a best friend for a decade, not so temporary, and we still could hang out. Who cares about a cushy job, that will only make you bored. Even if the children will struggle when they're older it's still more interesting to struggle a bit then to have a cushy job for the rest of your life. And besides in 20 years jobs will probably be extinct anyway do to automation.

You have too weak stats, frend. If you have good stats, you can get a good job somewhere.
Stop whining. You wasted time chilling with friends or pining for friends, and didn't put in actual work. Now your life is shit.
At least you can remember some vague events that sort of happened at some point with your friends (who all forgot you by now), whoop pah dey doo

lol cope i spent 8 hours a night on homework so i could get a good job one day

>we still could hang out
Key thing. KEY. I had a good friend at post grad training. He is gone now, moved to another state.
I spent lots of time with him, given the nature of the post grad program, and he hated bitches the same level as me.
But I would never let my eye off the ball: my only goal is career, and if some fun friend moments happen along the way, sure, why not?
But you tards actually think having friends is an actual objective that you should waste time on? You guys are literal tards, that is why your jobs suck so much

>lol cope i spent 8 hours a night on homework so i could get a good job one day
LOL, if you need 8 hours to do homework, you a literal tard, harry

Enjoy your wageslavery I guess.