Sexual Fitness Advice

I have no problem getting sexual partners but I can never maintain an erection. I tried working out, drinking, Xanax, gas station boner pills, quitting smoking and various supplements but nothing worked. I feel like my anxiety is turning me asexual. Has anyone here ever overcome something like this?

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Age, height and weight?

You can achieve an erection but fail to maintain it?

Do you watch pornography and/masturbate?

Are you depressed or under great stress?

I've had this problem. I found my causes to be:

1. Alcoholism
2. Depression
3. Fucking women I'm unattracted to

Stop masturbating.

Stop using condoms

Stop watching porn

Have you tried finding a sexual partner that you actual connect with or are you just trying to bang sluts at the bar?

If you're fucking for the sake of fucking and you don't really have any interest in the chick you're doing it with your dick won't lie to you.

>Stop masturbating.
>Stop using condoms
>Stop watching porn

^these are all excellent pieces of advice desu.

Assuming you can get an erection in the first place, something is going on hormonally

stop roiding

Hm i think this is me. Cannot maintain hard erection, i think im not attracted sexually to the hooker im with. Any tips?

Like, you are in the middle of having sex and your dick goes soft? Does that actually happen to people without cumming? I have had whiskey dick before and couldn't get it up, but that was years ago in uni.

Some of us are so attractive we can’t get it up for anyone because you’re all so ugly. It’s tough.

never
you know chad watches BLACKED and pornhub every day and he still can get it up for stacy? if you really think taking all the joy out of life will fix your sex life you might as well kill yourself.

>you are in the middle of having sex and your dick goes soft?
I've had sex two times and exactly this happened both times.
She was really hot too.
I think for me it was a combination of
>alcohol
>tiredness
>anxiety
>sex is way more cardio than I though
>years of watching porn and masturbating
>a bit thin dick so it didn't feel that much
>shame from getting too self conscious about my dick size
>awkwardness of doing it with a stranger
Quit porn after that and haven't masturbated with my hand since then.

Thankfully I’m a narcissist and I get off on myself being desireabe, so I’ve never had this problem

Chad here. I only watch HWD porn. BLACKED is gross asf.

Jesus are you me? Glad there is some hope. Trying to fuck disgusting chicks is no joke. Also booze. Man it sucks I had this petite Indian milf all worked up and I couldn't even come close to getting it up even though I thought she was attractive because I was just on a 3 day bender. Fug

Have you tried...

being in love?

get your T levels checked
do cardio, not just weight lifting
and what said

If you can be open with the girl that you aren’t that experienced and she says it’s okay, it relieves a lot of pressure.
No porn + no alcohol + not being psychologically under pressure = great erections

That happens to me quite often but after like 30 mins of sex. It gets really soft and i stop feeling anything. Hard to finish too so we just take a break and go at it after a bit. But i rather not lose erection.

you just might have issues where sex makes you feel vulnerable so you can't get it up. all these people in this thread only addressing the symptoms not the illness - try going to therapy for it. very common issue for men

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