How do I stop drinking when the only time people like me is when I'm drunk?

how do I stop drinking when the only time people like me is when I'm drunk?

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Drink with friends. Never drink alone.

1. Do it for yourself don't do it for them.
2. Fix whatever issues you have in your life that make you an asshole or otherwise insufferable person.
3. Find better people.
You can do it user. I'm 1 month 17 days off booze and it's been great. Mental health gains alone are phenomenal.

1. Get better friends
2. Stop drinking with new friends
3. Notice that people who actually like you, also like you sober.

>Notice that people who actually like you, also like you sober.
that's the problem. I'm extremely unlikeable sober but everyone loves me drunk. it honestly feels like if I could just go through life buzzed everything would be better.

I only drink alone. I've been binge drinking everyday for the last 6 months.

I just want to die now

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You have no evidence "everyone loves you drunk". It sounds like what you have is a case of being an introvert, and the lowered inhibitions allow you to be yourself.

Instead of medicating yourself with poison to please other people (never fucking please other people at your own expense) figure out what makes you likeable when you drink and then do that sober. Assuming you're not a total prick and a sociopath without booze, you probably just aren't very social.

Again all of this is fixed by finding new friends who accept you for who you are. A good place to find them is a hobby. If you're so unlikeable not even trying to be your drunk self sober fixes it, honestly consider therapy. You will do a ton of damage to yourself. I know, I was once that guy too (in my early 20s). A lot of "drunk friends" and no one was around when I needed them. Don't do that.

>You have no evidence "everyone loves you drunk"
i mean what am i supposed to do write a research paper on it? my parents like me more, girls like me more, my friends have a better time around me when I'm drunk, unironically every part of my life is better when I'm drunk me vs sober me

Adding to my own post for one last bit of advice. Dump your friends. Do not let them down slowly. People who tell you these things are actively harming you. Simply tell them something like "you guys only enjoy me when I'm drunk and to maximize my health and fitness we can't be friends anymore". You DO NOT need these people in your life. Get rid of them ASAP.

>I've been binge drinking everyday for the last 6 months.
i know that feel. for atleast a month now I've been drunk every single day. start my day at like 10 am drinking seltzers. I have no job I live with my parents I'm 27

Become drunk without drinking alcohol

> girls like me more

and then when you sober up they hate.

> parents like me more

and then when you sober up they hate you

> friends like me more

and then when you sober up they hate you

Look user it's your life. But either you humble yourself now, get your mental health in check, and dump this toxic waste attached to you or a doctor will deliver the bad news to you and you'll be with a bum liver and no friends (because you never found friends you could be sober around). Don't fucking do that.

I have been going to therapy for 10 months. I've been taking zoloft and wellbutrin the entire time. There is nothing I enjoy anymore so I get drunk to minimize the time I am concisous. I am fundamentally broken and have nothing in common with other humans. I just want to die. I want to go home so I can shoot myself in the head

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>Become drunk without drinking alcohol
how though?

>> girls like me more
>
>and then when you sober up they hate.
>
>> parents like me more
>
>and then when you sober up they hate you
>
>> friends like me more
>
>and then when you sober up they hate you
no that's the problem, they still like me when I'm sober but I have a hard time connecting with people sober and feeling good, it's just, they like me more when I'm drunk

Yeah man. I got stationed in Japan and I just get drunk off Soju and Strongs the moment I get off work

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Then it doesn't sound like you're an insufferable asshole you're just anti-social/introverted. I was (and still am). I got better by actively trying to be social and fucking up a bunch, taking note of the feedback I get when I try, and learning how to be more open/extroverted within my own limits. You have a block in your mind preventing you from realizing this. Before you hit the bottle again start taking notes of how you act and begin to emulate yourself. You'll learn if you put in the work. Believe me, being liked sober is a lot better than being liked drunk.

atleast you wait til you get off work. I just work out in my backyard in the morning and start drinking. why not, you know?

Be brave

I don't think I have the courage

One step at a time user. Fixing maladaptive behavior takes a lot of time. You certainly have the courage to try. You're on Any Forums. How many times did you have the courage to try for a PR and fail? It's the same thing, but instead of lifting weights you're putting in mental health reps. Start slow, pay attention to how people act, and take notes (maybe not literally lol). Don't be afraid to reach for help or even ask your friends how you can improve yourself. All you have to do is want it, set your mind to it, and build a habit. No different than the gym.