My mom is having a mental breakdown since I failed college
It's like she failed to notice everything prior to and thought I will turn it around
>user never had any friends
>user never had a relationship
>user never talks to anyone outside of school
>user failed several classes in school
But now that I failed college it's like everything has come crashing down
No she won't listen to anything I say, in her mind it's like
>user graduates
>user gets a million dollar job
>user is successful
My mom is having a mental breakdown since I failed college
I went to class, went to my room, repeated for 4 years and got a degree. what do you need friends for?
Not OP, but my big problem was the going to class part.
I always felt like everyone knew what a fucking loser I was, and I just didn't want to be around people or to have anyone see me. And then I'd skip a couple of classes, and would feel like I couldn't possibly start showing up again because then people would be like "Who is this fucking loser who hasn't been coming to this class and then just shows up one day?"
Lucky OP. I wish my mom cared at all.
College never helped me.
I wasted many years there, there's always a catch, and the payoff never comes
Fucking brainlet, choose an easy career if you have no interest.
Yo Keith is that you homie?
I got real fucking tired of going to class and doing the work
Started off a good student with a 4.0, gradually descended to doing the bare minimum, and eventually didn't care anymore
I had a part time job and realized the degree just gets my foot in the door for a 9-5 office job
So what happened on the first day? I thought there's older tutor students that literally give everyone a free ticket to the insider party. That's how my college first day was before covid cucked all the events they had planned.
There were some people that just went home and didn't come to the bar. But it's not like they weren't very loudly invited. Guess they just don't want to make friends or something.
Funny how self-perception and confidence defines whether an action is cool or pathetic. I've skipped class in all levels of education. In high school I'd sneak off the school premises to go buy energy drinks and snacks (you weren't allowed to eat outside the cafeteria or bring your own food to class, and not allowed to leave the school premises) and I'd just brag to people that I don't need to attend half the time because I'm smarter than everyone else and I learn in half the time. And then I sold them some of the snacks at a markup.
Obviously in college people can come and go as they please but being smart enough to attend less still holds up.