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wait til the inevitable crash sometime next year. I'm debating whether to forgo buying a car this year and using that money towards a bigger down-payment for a house. Only good thing is there's special programs to help buyers in my job field with first-time house purchases

fuck you

I have finally acquired a gf and she seems really interested but out conversations are still awkward and I don’t know why.
We fuck like rabbits and have fun on dates but talk like we’re co-workers on the first day on the job and don’t text often.

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A woman that has anything worth a damn to say is much more uncommon than one who will let you fuck her

> but out conversations are still awkward
> talk like we’re co-workers on the first day on the job and don’t text often.
can u give examples.
also you dont want to text her all the time. your attention to her is like her sex to you. if she wants ur attention then give it in person

So this is normal? At least in the early stages? I haven’t had a real gf in years but have fucked random sluts and most of them I had an easier time making conversation with than this new girl.

Yeah totally normal, you'll almost certainly end up not marrying this girl.

>how was ur day
>good i did x with my family hbu
>yeah i went shopping
>oh nice what did u get
>i got x
>cool
>u wanna go x on the next date
>sure
it’s we’re robots. i don’t send her a ton of texts and we initiate equally but i was the one who first said i want a more serious relationship instead of being casual.

you're right
thankfully stars have alligned and I've got some interactions
I cant say I will stop feeling ashamed but I'll choose to feel thankful for now. I'm really not doing bad, but I've been taking everything way too seriously

currently approaching a relationship talk with a girl and in the same position. Boy we really have nothing in common except the desire to rub our genitals together.

>announcing a report

Anybody else have wild success with really young girls in their mid 30's? I feel like a legit pedo for dating an 18 when I'm twice her age. I'm legitimately disgusted with myself but she's really hot, kinda crazy too but crazy over me. I don't even buy her shit. I can't be the only person in this conundrum.

Good luck fren. I really want this to work because casual sex is as appealing as fapping at this point and I'm not getting any younger. I'm hoping that building some memories on dates will lead to more shit to talk about down the line.

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She is legal. Who gives a fuck what everybody thinks

I’m starting to come to terms with the fact that I’m not single because I’m an anxious sperg, I’m single because I’m socially lazy and would rather jerk off and ignore people.
Also my shin splints won’t go away.

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I don't see the conundrum. other women might notice and judge you for it, I'm 32 dating a girl who's 24, and her sister-in-law gave me shit, but she's just jealous.

>on the internet

My best friend lied to me having a gf. I saw them today and I kinda knew he had one but he kept lying and saying he didn't but I almost spilled my spaghetti and pretended I didn't notice him when he said hey but I backtracked and said oops sorry earbuds on.

I'm not mad he had a gf but whenever my other friends joked about it in the car when I was around, he'd say "huh I don't have one." and my friends would be like "ah yeah right...." like I have a feeling that he told them not to say anything when I'm around. Honestly I feel kinda insulted, I'm hanging out with them going fishing on the weekend at the cottage for two nights but I'm so annoyed idk if I should cancel. I know if I do it would be the end of our friendship, but honestly I was planning on ditching my friends after the trip anyways.

Holy shit I know that feel of being socially lazy. Only when I have some booze in me am I able to actually talk to people I don't know

I fucked up with some girl I met on the internet a few years ago. We live pretty close and she was a right-winger, blued eyes, pale skinned, perfect short girl. Now I wish I could talk to her again, but I'd have to follow her on Instagram - out of nowhere - like a weirdo, and I don't even have an Instagram. Anyway, I feel like I'm not ready yet. I have a plan to do it at the end of the year, to create an Instagram next month and to normy there until I follow her. But what if she meets another guy until then? What if she doesn't gives a fuck when I follow her? She was in passion with me before I screwed it up.

Like I dunno, when I was alone during covid... Yeah I was lonely but I could focus on myself and it felt good. When I'm with my friends I always feel like I'm playing catchup, that I get no respect, that everyone treats me like a clown. I don't like being intentionally the clown but it's my self defense mechanism because if I'm not an idiot, I'm not interesting, and therefore nobody talks to me.

I know I blogged about this several times before but it always hits me. I hate having no respect but if I don't do anything, I'll just be alone and I don't know what I prefer.

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>gave me shit,
what did she say?

things have been rough lately but i feel better than when i wasn't doing anything. i guess the challenge makes me feel like i have something to live for. anons here successfully bullied me in to both actually tracking my calorie intake to cut and in to getting a job. i feel like i am on a streak and just want to keep it up. thinking about trying to learn an instrument again, which i kind of attempted but gave up years ago. there's a negative side here of course though that i have to keep in mind. i am very lonely, a khv nogf and do not have a social life. i did well with few to no friends all through my youth but not having a gf and missing out all these years (i am early 20s) with no one really makes me depressed. i am on four day nofap and noporn streak, which is good and part of my overall successes lately, but i am beginning to experience the negatives of that which for me is usually beginning to have very vivid sexual dreams which i then think about. not sure how to deal with that. i am glad i have anons here to express these things to, thank you bros.

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My ex is dead. It blindsided me and I’ve felt sick for the entire day. 4 years later she still occupied my mind daily and I considered her my soulmate. How do I ask to attend her funeral and how do I find out what happened to her? I suspect her death might not have been an accident but her family has been vague

that sounds like my friend who is now in a 12 year relationship with a girl and they have nothing in common from the start
i remember him realizing it at a certain point and told me he yelled at her like "WHAT THE FUCK DO WE EVEN HAVE IN COMMON" and made her cry
those girls are mentally 7 year olds and like the idea of a boyfriend but dont really interact on a deep level due to low IQ or some shit, idk.

are her parents freakshows and weird? figure out if she never learned how to even communicate based on how she interacts with her family

Just show up if you know when and where