Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex, we start by me giving her oral. She cums...

Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex, we start by me giving her oral. She cums, then I penetrate her and fuck her until I cum. She has never been able to cum from penetration.
Lately, she's been browsing Instagram and shit on her phone while I fuck her. When I confronted her about it, she said it was fine since she doesn't get anything out of penetrative sex anyways. I'm not happy about this, but I understand she doesn't enjoy sex and don't want to force her to pretend just to satisfy my ego. What do I do?

Attached: url(3).jpg (180x179, 9.78K)

lol dicklet

your peepee too small

It’s normal for women to not cum from sex so don’t expect that to change but try fucking her as if you’re raping her like drag her across the bed by her ankles and shit then she’ll probably respect you more

A girl wouldnt ignore a big dick

Tie her up

Sorry your dick is so tiny my guy but don't be sad my gf is fat which is probably not as soul crushing as your case but still makes me pretty sad

>girlfriend
you think its bad now lol, just wait

My gf also doesnt cum from penetration and doesnt get as much out of it physically as i do. I tried to work through it with her for years. She still enjoys sex, but not how id want her to. That, among a few other reasons, led me to conclude we arent compatible. Im going to break up with her soon
5’10, 98k salary, 7x5”, handsome face
Its going to destroy us both but i cant live like this forever. We both took each others virginities

Attached: 4AB6FCD7-E4E6-48B6-A6ED-461CB4EEF51B.jpg (719x688, 61K)

Its one thing to not cum from sex but to be on her phone? Are you fucking her for an hour?

Pro tip if its like this now it will be 10x worse when married. Move on to another girl that will give you 5 fucking mins of sex where she at least acts involved.

What a cunt

Tell her that intimacy during sex is important to you and you enjoy being able to share in this one special moment with each other
God, it's like none if you tards know how to communicate in a healthy relationship

Attached: 1646060573201.jpg (221x195, 9.56K)

>she doesn't get anything out of penetrative sex FROM ME anyways
FTFY

I don't know why you gotta tear your fellow man down instead of work together towards something positive. But ok

Dude if you have to "communicate" to your gf that she's supposed to love you in the relationship then it's already over

Bro, the only thing that user wants to do is tear down your girls panties...

Attached: Screenshot_20220330-181404_Photos.jpg (1440x2960, 1.44M)

Maybe be more aggressive during sex? Grab her phone and throw it, slap her and call her a cheating whore for looking at Instagram when fucking? Are you a pussy she is YOUR gf and you are the man?

OP seems genuinely unaware of what the issue actually is so I explained it to him by altering the statement he himself made to show him where his thinking goes wrong. The fuck do you want me to do? Send him a motivational message about overcoming his small penis?

>girlfriend
I am so jealous of you that you could never believe it. I am 21 and any time I open up to a woman and we about to progress to being "exclusive" or however you want to put it they completely shut down. My entire adult life I have been in a state of emotionlessness or in huge emotional pain. Hopefully I will overcome this but I think I never will. God is punishing me for treating a girl badly when I was 14.

based fat woman hater

>any time I open up to a woman
oof
you never EVER want to do that

good trail oregonbro

Your fucking manages to bore her. It's not due to her inability to cum from penetration. My girl can't come from penetration alone. She can cum almost instantly from penetration with manual clit stimulation, but 90% of the time chooses not to do it because she enjoys the sex as is without orgasm. She always says the best sex we have is when I act like an animal and toss her around. All those times I use her as a human fleshlight and I don't care if she has an orgasm or not, and that's her favorite. You need to figure out if she just hates sex or hates how you have sex. You can change but she can't.

She is pretty much perfect in every other category tho but seeing her naked is just so fucking unappealing and I am very sad i think this way

Because your sex is boring. Are you manhanlding her? Are you choking her? Are you spanking her ass? Are you doing any dirty talk or making any kind of noise? Are you throwing her on the bed, pinning her hips down and fucking her relentlessly until she taps out? Are you teasing her by not putting you cock in till she begs for it? Even tho she may not be able to cum from penetration she can still enjoy it. And what you're doing is not gonna last because even if she orgasms she gonna get bored of your routine and stop fucking you or fuck someone else. Experiment nigger.

There’s a known fix to this:
Stop acting sexual with her. No more sex. Instead go jerk off. Do it with the bathroom door open so she knows. When she questions you about it (she will) just tell her you’re tired and it’s easier. Brush off any of her concerns as not a big deal like she did to you. Suddenly, after 2-3 weeks she’s trying super hard to be intimate with you again. This is a common tactic. Be warned, it’s fucked up to have to resort to this but when it gets to a point where your relationship is this is what’s required and it usually means the relationship is going no where. I personally would do this, get what you want, then not too long after break it off gently with her and explain why and that you don’t think you guys are compatible and so you don’t see any future with her.


Whether she gets pleasure from penetration or not, sex should be a bonding thing where you both express your love for each other. Not ducking around on instagram.


I had an ex like this but she still tried and was into it.

Dump her, user. She's browsing Instagram while you fuck her. How fucking disrespectful is that? You shouldn't even want to fix it beyond telling her to fuck off and kicking her to the curb

Distracted sex is the best though. I love fucking her then her phone rings and she talks to her daughter while giving me the look to keep quiet