Any Forums , /adv/ is terrible so I’m coming here.
My 2 year GF who I planned to marry came out to me as “non-binary” and it just feels different.
I feel weird now and she said it doesn’t make me gay or anything, but it feels like I’m seeing an “item” and not a person if they don’t have a gender. Wtf do I do or am I just being an idiot?
I’ve invested 3 years into this
Lifts for this feel
Any Forums , /adv/ is terrible so I’m coming here
Jordan Nelson
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Charles Cruz
bail. not suitable to raise your children. do not get sunk cost fallacy into this, bro. get out, before it gets worse.
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Xavier Brooks
Lack of beatings.
Wyatt Ward
>non-binary
Sounds like she's just jumping onto a bandwagon.
Or this is her way of asking for anal.
Maybe both.
Juan Ortiz
Landon Bailey
Checked.
Nathaniel Rodriguez
Got pics of them ?
Levi Hill
Unironically make her surrender to the dick.
Fuck her and pleasure her past what could be considered necessary. Ask your doctor for some Sildenafil or get some over the counter depending on where you live.
Take one around 30 minutes before. You dick will remain hard. If you cum and lose it, throw her on the bed and immediately transition into fingering her. I'm talking absolute finger banging. Swap your arms when you can't keep up the speed with one arm. Make sure you cut your nails before hand or she will bleed. Once your dick is ready, continue to fuck the shit out of her. I recommend putting her legs over her head while you fuck and plunge in with your entire body weight to hit her cervix.
Repeat. I recommend doing extensive cardio for the fucking and extensive fingering training for the fingering.
She will beg you to stop or tell you to keep going. Either way, keep going.
The entire time this is happening, you need to call her a slut, and a whore, and a bitch. Specifically, your slut, whore, bitch, etc, and tell her that only a woman can feel like this. Be frank while you hate fuck her, how she is nothing but an object when she identifies as "non-binary". Make sure she realizes that she is a woman, not anything else. (Reiterate on this over and over).
You will be able to literally make her lose to the cock. Afterwards, (this should be hours later) tell her you only fuck women. If she ever implies to you that she is non-binary again, either ghost her, or tell her that you're only interested in women.
This should kick her out of this idiotic ideal. She'll still be dumb as a rock and progressive, but at least that will fill her with doubt whenever she remembers what you did to her (a woman).
Ian Morales
My ex did exactly this to me. I dumped her when I realised she wasn't going to see sense. I can type out a load more if you're interested. Basically though, my advice would be to stay with her and be supportive if you think it's just a phase or if nothing materially changes. If she starts chest binding or hanging out with trannies it's probably over.
Noah Gray
Seconding this. First it's gonna be nonbinary, then she'll put on 200 pounds, dye her hair pink, and tell you respect her zer/zir pronouns , and before you know she'll become a ftm tranny and force you to get pegged by zer.
John Adams
after you do this show her this video
Logan Hughes
OP here
Appreciate that. If you don’t mind could you tell me the rest?
I’m usually pretty open with stuff, and I do love her (them), but just constantly having to correct myself if I call them her or she etc, she’s started having very gender neutral clothing and dressing like me
It’s kinda heartbreaking desu because she’s usually very conservative leaning, she’s middle eastern and gender bending is almost unheard of in her home town
Leo Bennett
Can I get a quick rundown? The fuck is this? Who are these people?
Jeremiah Butler
Not fitness related, stop shitting up the board
Cooper Miller
This, plus sleeping with women because "it's something you as a man can't provide for me, also it's ok because they're not men"; then sleeping with other beings with dicks because "it's ok they're not cis men".
Gavin Johnson
We don't want you here
If /adv/ is terrible, it's because faggots like you belong there.
Henry Howard
last gf hated her name, couldn't decide on a new one, it's really hard to love something without a name, I bet it is kinda the same for something without a gender
Justin Sanchez
It's over. Nightmare scenario, sorry fren.
Easton Jenkins
OP just tell her you're not attracted to men and worry you won't be attracted to her if she continues. She's doing this for approval since that's what she sees trannies receiving, but the ultimate approval for a woman is a hard cock. She won't risk losing your approval for some social media clout. It might take some time for her to realize that real life is not like the internet and few people will actually praise her for acting like a freak, so give her some time to work that out. However if she's worth marrying, she'll eventually put you before an imaginary audience.
Aiden Bennett
>My 2 year GF who I planned to marry came out to me as “non-binary” and it just feels different.
BYEEEEEEEE
Get out now while you can. She's retarded. If you can't sort her out QUICKLY then cut your losses before she spirals into more retarded shit. It's not worth ruining your life with her mental illness.
Jeremiah Richardson
What great way to get a rape charge. OP don’t listen to this moron he’s a coomer
Aiden Fisher
Its a guy and his girlfriend telling a story (its a bit painful to watch desu) about how the gf used to think she was non-binary or something like that, and her bf convinced her she was using the trannyism as cope for hating herself cause she was a woman, and had emotional issues.
i believe this is the case for all of them.
Brody Powell
Guys what do I do with a girl? I’ve been out of the dating scene for 5+ years idk how to interact with them. The only thing I can think to do is behave goofy as fuck the way I did with my ex but I can’t act like I was in a multi year relationship with a completely new girl.
>treat her like your bro
The problem is I’m awkward as fuck with anyone new and have no idea how to interact. If I try to find common interests and they don’t share it it gets awkward
>do you like vidya/anime/other dumb shit
>no
>oh okay haha
>goes quiet
What tf do I do? THIS is what’s holding me back I’ve turned down so many girls. Only reason I got my ex was because she was EZ and lonely as hell I don’t even recall what we first talked about just that we shared the same friend group so we’re already semi acquainted
Lucas Reyes
fpbp
Daniel Allen
>and I do love her (them)
>(them)
And so the slippery slope of retardedness begins. If you don't nip that in the bud with yourself too then you may as well just cut your dick off too. You're already buckling to her stupidity because of your inherent weakness, even here in text when she's not around. You're doomed if you don't put your foot down.
Wyatt Martin
Yeah that’s exactly what it is. I actually find Middle Eastern chicks are the most prone to this in western countries because they’re treated like shit by their families for being girls
Henry Adams
you sound like you're me
Brody Cook
fpbp
Aiden Jones
It sucks man I keep not hanging out with actually hot girls or acting on their hints and shit because I’m going to sperg tf out. Idk what to do. When I’m with my bros I legit just act like a spastic mongoloid the entire time and ever have anything to offer
Xavier Parker
Fip and bip
Aiden Nelson
>wtf do I do
Leave before she kills herself and blames you for it. Make her break up with you so there's no backlash from her crazy friends or family.
Jordan Garcia
Sure, bear in mind I may be callous here because it's been about a year, however know that I was very deeply in love with this girl and very much still felt this at the time.
So, I met this lass during my first year of uni, we got together, fell in love quickly and stayed together for the duration of our degrees. She was always tomboyish, wore her hair fairly short and was quite athletic (small and lean). I liked all this about her, thought it was cute and I liked her body. She was also bisexual, so cared a lot about LGBT stuff, and spent too much time on tumblr.
After about three years together, she told me she was NB. I told her she could feel however she likes about herself, but I'm into women and I would always see her as a woman. She was ok with that at the time and things carried on like normal for a few months.
After that though, she started visibly dressing uglier, wearing like nasty stained t shirts all the time and baggy trousers and the like. She also cut her hair really short. I was honest in my opinions when she asked for them, but it clearly didn't matter to her because she kept dressing that way and cutting her hair.
I found out she'd joined a discord group based around some fan fiction author she liked (I know). Was obviously full of trannies and I'm sure they were persuading her to do all this. I told her these people were losers, and she agreed but kept talking to them anyway.
A couple of weeks later she showed me she'd bought a chest binder and was going to start wearing it. She also told me to start calling her "they". I said I'm not doing that, and if she's really serious about going down this path, I'm not going to follow her. She cried a lot but wouldn't back down on any of it, so I broke up with her.
That's the basic story, feel free to ask any questions or add your own experience.
Jace Williams
I'd pay good money to watch this. Just sayin user.