Watcha drinkin user? >Finally hooked up with my highschool love interest after 6 years and me burning the bridge >Had sex twice >Both times only lasted about two minutes before she had a panic attack and had to stop >Her notch count is approaching three figures yet she will never have functional sex with me
I feel like I’m going to die. I am literally within touching distance of a relationship with the girl I have loved on and off for my entire adult life but it only promises to be a sexless, joyless slog as she relives her rape trauma and endlessly fishes for compliments.
Stay away. I know you love her, but love is not enough. Trust me, I've been there and done that. I know you probably have your own issues, maybe something from your childhood affected your attachement style as to be attracted to a woman like that. Maybe shes just hot, interesting and your sympathetic. But there will only be issues long term, especially if she's been promiscuous before leaning on "the nice guy". She needs therapy. Support. And if she ever gets that and recovers, she will not be choosing to mate with you.
I'm saying this out of kindess, because I wasted years of my life on a woman who - once I helped her through her issues, disposed of me. Call me jaded, but I'd just advise you to lift, read, work, and focus on any other friends and hobbies you may have until someone functional appears in your life. Join a dating app if you must, but only when you feel content enough in your own life, and spend no more than 30 minutes each day on it. Then you will attract a healthy person with similar status.
Jaxon Turner
Theres already a whiny faggot general up you attention seeking vagina
Evan Robinson
three figure body count? Lmao bro that relationship will bring you nothing but pain and misery, just cut your losses
Nolan Flores
>joyless slog as she relives her rape trauma and endlessly fishes for compliments. It's time to fucking leave orbit man. Suck's that she went through that and I know you love her but you can not do this to yourself, for the love of god.
Liam Campbell
This guy is right. But not because of this: And I'm a bit into her now. :/
Isaiah Wright
>panic attacks during sex uh, what?
Jace Clark
>Her notch count is approaching 3 figures Okay something doesn't add up here, she's had sex with almost 100 guys but with you she has a panic attack in 2 minutes? Something doesn't make any sense there.... Any other anons wanna chime in? It sounds like she's just messing with you
Thomas Turner
In a few years you will be sad, alone, and heartbroken all while having wasted some of your best years.
Don’t go down that road user.
Brayden Wright
Just throw me a beer. I made friends with her. I asked her for her number. We had some nice conversations. Suddenly all I get is silence. I don't care anymore. I'm gonna jump on a plane to Ukraine and go get shot.
Ryder Thompson
>girl blew me off on valentines day >still have to see her from time to time >it's awkward for both of us How do I deal with this? Should I make it obvious I am just trying to avoid her or some other tactic? I'm asking because I still got feels for her and I feel like an idiot when she shows up and we both immediately catch eyes and do this 'stay away from each other and avoid each other,' dance.
Jayden Evans
Fucking kek 6 years SIX FUCKING YEARS Do you know what that means cunt? DICK HOW MUCH DICK? FUCKING MILES CUNT You're the fucking settler. She's done with chad, she's done with chud, time for a beta fag who buys my rape trauma shit. 100 bucks says she's still fucking on the side and burning those triple digits away. You're a fucking loser, and you chose it. Imagine "falling in love" with the village bicycle. I'd sooner chop of my balls than stoop that low. Every one that fucked her is laughing their ass off behind your back. Every time you kiss her you're tasting a hundred cocks. A literal prostitue would have less milage. pic related is you And one for the road youtu.be/p5yJgu38D24
Stop being a faggot about it, that's how you stop the awkwardness. Move the fuck on.
Ethan Ortiz
D-DOC?
Jackson Turner
>has random one night stand sex with men who don’t care about her >she does it for the thrill >she regrets it everytim >does it again and again for the thrill(TM) and for male validation >regerts compound >somewhere along the way she has sex with genuinely abusive men who go too far, too rough, don’t care about her resistance, possibly even date rape her >trauma.exe gets uploaded >continues same lifestyle >enter kind and sympathetic OP >she can tell he cares about her autonomy, consent, and comfort >through no fault of his own, he is clearly beta as fuck in comparison to the men who pumped and dumped her >her emotional floodgates open wider than her snatch >she feels comfortable that OP won’t leave her if she denies sex because he will stick around for her as a person >notice the stark difference between OP and the men who only validated her in exchange for 10 minutes of pussy It’s not that she does this on purpose, she is just a terribly damaged individual who needs help, not dick. Sorry OP. If you want a project, rescue a dog from the animal shelter and get over your one-itis. You are not a therapist or a professional psychologist. You can’t help her and you certainly can’t even fuck her. Seek out a healthy woman
Luke Gutierrez
Thanks for the boost bro. When ever I'm feeling down I'll remember that I'm no where near as pathetic as you.
Ryan Gray
What's the bet OP is ignoring everything here and will fold like a wet blanket once she gives him teary eyes?
Dylan Parker
Why is he even going to see her again is the better question. The things people do for the hope of but a crumb of pussy
Lincoln Turner
Met a girl with BPD. Not worth it. Cute innocent girls with hearts of gold are worth sacrificing some physical attractiveness for.
Beauty is a depreciating asset, so get a kind, clever, hardworking woman that will be a wise mother if your goal is long-term.
Jackson Martin
>never had sex with a teenager until I was 35 >realize that dating women withing your age group is absolutely retarded
I know why it took me so fucking long, it's the sigma and I fucking are that shit up for over a decade. What a retard I was.
>relives her rape trauma >endlessly fishes for compliments >has "panic attacks" mid sex >body count in the triple digits
Look bud, just fuck off away from her. How the fuck do you tell a dog not to lick a bear trap? Kick it? Jeez.
Josiah Morris
Based >t. 28 dating a 19 y/o >Unironically the best gf I’ve ever had >I don’t want kids, but she does eventually >when we eventually end, I’m getting back on the ride with another 19-21 y/o
Samuel Price
Dude what the fuck ever lmao.
How much bull shit do you have to swallow before tasting that it's shit?
Fuck offf lmao retard
Jaxon Flores
>panic attacks Probably just doesn’t like the beta dicking that you’re giving her so she comes up with a plausible reason to stop fucking, plus a bonus round of an emotional tampon session
Austin Clark
Lmao I’m not OP. Are you saying OP is retarded for participating? Or I’m retarded for this hypothesis of why she is acting this way towards OP?
