>Try to get friend to play vidya together
>"I want to but I have no time with work and my wife now"
Try to get friend to play vidya together
Sounds like you need to start grooming some youngins with nothing but free time.
>get job and wife
>breed her
>play vidya with kids
It's literally that easy.
Uh maybe kill his wife?
>lucas room
You are on a website full of NEETs and virgins, how hard can it be?
Based
He has time, he just doesn't want to spend it with you. You really think his job and wife take up 12+ hours of his day, seven days a week?
You'd be amazed at how much time all of these "I never have any free time anymore!" faggots actually have.
Count how many hours a day their eyes are glazed over staring at their phone as they lament how busy they are.
Now if he "doesn't have time" because of you as a person, or because you're wanting to bing bing wahoo with him, that's your mystery to solve.
>30+ years old
>have to live watching everyone around me my age not only having gfs and not only starting families but already having children
>have to live with the fact I'm going to die alone with no legacy
he says that then they sit around for 10 hours on their days off watching capeshit
Get new friends, join people who are likeminded
Oh yeah, this is the worst.
>damn near 30
>all my old friends just constantly move from one relationship to the next unable to be single for even a little while
>they work shitty compromise jobs and make bad financial decisions
>buying and or leasing new cars they cant afford, living in expensive areas or houses etc
>so they have to work more to keep paying off their own debts
>they never have any time for vidya
I used to have one friend who was a NEET but he got a job a couple years ago and it hasn't been the same since.
I pointed this out a girl who I was seeing but was very fickle and gave those "i dont have time" excuses to me constantly and she absolutely exploded seething at being called out on her bullshit. Everybody has time, we all live with the same amount of hours in the day, if something is important you can find time in your schedule.
I still dont get why having a gf or wife suddenly means you dont have any time for your hobbies? Do women force you to interact with them during all your free time? Why do men stay with them then?
Yes I have autism.
>Do women force you to interact with them during all your free time?
Yes. Now I also have autism but I have personally witnessed this many times through people I used to be friends with. Even to the point that I've heard about someones gf literally not allowing them to do their hobbies.
That's better than the flaky, fickle faggot that starts a coop with you and dips out after two times.
Absolutely.
People have simply been conditioned to have their ritualistic media time over social time.
And I don't mean sitting down with a bro and a beer like OP wants and playing some vidya online or something. You're still shooting the shit and enjoying each other. The game becomes background filler to the interaction.
I'm talking about taking 2 hours of your day mindlessly swiping tik-tok, or what said and sitting in a dark room streaming show after movie after show without pause.
It's not gf/wife, it's kids.
Woah. So.. they just like sit with her on a couch and just talk during all their free time? Must be hell holy fuck
every girl ive encountered has been boring as fuck, cant imagine being forced to talk to one every day for 8 hours lol
This, my married best friend always hits me with dumbass excuses as to why he can’t hang and then he’s sitting at home on his phone with his wife cuz she’s obnoxious as fuck and needs to be babysat 24/7. They have time they just won’t make any.
>Being friends with normalfags
The fuck were you expecting?
Yes, they do. They are nonstop siphons of attention.
If they so much as hear you in another room laughing and having a conversation with a friend, they will interject and ask that you come and do something with or for them. You could spend 10 hours straight entertaining a woman, and the 20 minutes afterwards that you spend with someone else would piss her off or make her jealous.
The trick is to find the rare 1/100 woman that isn't a spiteful attention whore, or to finally overcome the pussy paradox and learn to say "I'm busy right now" to them.
>i want to but i'm a pussywhipped fuckboy who can't spare an hour to my bro because my wife has my balls locked in a chastity cage. if i don't do what she says, i may never have sex again
FTFY. many such cases.
maybe it was for the best that they werent interested in me then because of my autism
>friend had a bad breakup
>everyone either straight up forgets about him or betray him by going out with her ex's group of friends behind his back
>i try to stay close to him and listen to him when in need
>"user, you are a true friend"
>one month later he doesn't have the time to out with me, either because he's sex-hungry or getting wasted in pubs
Well, fuck me.
Humans are not machines. Just because they still have 4 hours in a day after work, commute, groceries, family time, etc. doesn't mean they actually have the energy to spend those 4 hours hanging out with someone. Glazing over phones, Any Forums and whatnot takes nearly 0 energy and is done mostly as a way to de-stress. You can't do that when actually playing a game with someone because you need to engage your brain for both the game and conversation.
t. tired gamer who only has time to browse this shithole at the end of the day.
>34 years old
>No relationship
>No kids
>Spend free time working out, playing video games, pursuing other hobbies
>Friends tell me how how difficult life is with a kid or married, almost no time for anything
I'd rather keep enjoying my life than getting bogged down with that shit.
Wtf that’s my old house