What the fuck were Fromsoft thinking?

why do you have so much dex and int?

I forgot why I put points into INT, dex is actually higher because I have a medallion.

Assuming the INT is for incantation requirements, I'd pick either STR or DEX to bring to a softcap (depending on the scaling of the chosen weapon) and leave the other at the lowest possible value I could get away with while still being able to equip the shit I want. Quality builds are an absolute meme in ER.

ok why do you have 20 dex?

Dump Dex and Int. On level ups hammer points into Vig/Str or Faith (whatever your weapon scales better with)/End, add Mind to taste. Get at least 10-20 more points of Vig in total, and round everything to a good point at the 150 PVP shenanigans cap.

Trying out weapons. So far I like the Cipher Parta, +11 Redmane Longsword, Bloodhound fang, and my main weapon +15 Hoarfrost Stomp Cold Morningstar

doesn't sound like you're a paladin

>stopping leveling because of some arbitrary pvp code
why would you do that?

they weren't

Then you don't have a build because you'll just keep leveling until every stat is 99. A build implies limitations of some sort. If you're just gonna level forever, there is nothing to fix because eventually every stat will be the same.

Because pvp is the only endgame aside from redoing content over and over, so being at a widely accepted meta level helps you get more matches

do you even realize how little sense you make?