not even the WHAT, but if you ask about something with an example or fact they don't like they are like
>user HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT??? user WHY DO YOU KNOW SUCH INFO??
And I don't even mean something like an edgelord jew joke. but maybe something like
>If we build our product in this way, won't it be a bit when all the hedgehogs getting cut in the wheat fields by machines, since they won't hear them, and our product might not make the user aware it will allow permission X on their phones
So instead of me observing business critical problem, they are upset about me using an example to illustrate a point. I maybe saved them 100s of thousands or something, but no one cares
because they HAVE to feel morally superior at all times
Kevin Morales
it means you have no idea how to communicate with normies and it's your fault. normans are there to enforce a narrow band of acceptable thought conducive to making things work okay. when you introduce ideas that conflict with that comfort zone, they react. if what you've said is a legitimate concern (it might not be, you're autistic) you have to reiterate and dismiss the plebs by affecting an earnest tone, and reiterating to/convincing the person in authority that your idea is important.
Justin White
I literally fucking ASKED about it here. Why are you rude to me for asking?
You are unironically part of the problem. How is it bad to put your job and business first lol
Caleb Gutierrez
>if what you've said is a legitimate concern (it might not be, you're autistic)
and by the way, i'm one our best cloud architects who plan for a lot of outages, migrations set up monitoring and so on , so usually my concerns is very valid
I never forget when one team failed to do a DB backup restore, because guess what, they never fucking tried it IN PRODUCTION
I do one every month just to try how it works
Isaac Harris
post ass
Jonathan Gonzalez
use ur assburgers to watch some videos on communication skills, that is the core issue here
normies get uncomfortable around people who arent sociopaths
Oliver Hill
>Why are you rude to me for asking? That's all you got out of that post? It's rude? You are actually an unmitigated autist, I'm sorry for you in all sincerity.
I told you how to communicate more effectively with normans. They don't understand the scope of your work. They are there to make things appear to operate smoothly and won't go out on a limb to understand your horrific cave troll jargon. You have to be outspoken and direct about your concerns with technical people in authority, whose jobs are affected by fuckups you've noticed (PM? his boss?) In all workplaces, this means cultivating relationships with these people such that they understand you're not just another disgruntled autist, but someone who can save them time and the company money. work on your social skills man
Anthony Sanchez
>hurr durr find a video
no one can literally tell me what's wrong. you must be some kind of normie too, why are they always like this?
>did i say something wrong or..? >user just dont say it!! >say , what exactly? >YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN! YOU ARE JUST MAKING IT WORSEEEEEEE >what do you mean? I have literally no idea
well thats' what i'm trying by giving real world examples. If i told them something like "oh the probability of such a cluster to fail is 5%, and therefore we must have monitoring of type A in place to not run into a halting zombie process problem, as you know"
they would be even more confuse
Nathaniel Thomas
What I'm gathering here is you brought up a potential catastrophic failure that has a low likelihood of happening, and to do that you may have used a particularly jarring analogy.
Think of social interaction like a plate of food - if you see a dog taking a big stinky pile of poop big brown shitnrope slowly sliding out of his ass a block away, it might make your tummy hurt. In conversation, even though "words don't hurt" or have tangible mass to them, you're going to shock people if you say shitnthats shocking. It doesn't need to be a cold logical process, just don't do it simply bc it triggers people and on some level you know the weird shit you say scares people so just use more "light" wording next time. Understand?
Nicholas Wilson
you need to understand that the normie's capacity for metaphor is extremely limited. they will understand perfectly fine if you say "there is a 5% chance of catastrophic downtime, so we need to do X in order to mitigate that." No elaboration required. ALWAYS wait for them to ask for elaboration, and if they do, don't use metaphor unless it's a very simple one. As a side consideration, metaphor is a good tool to signal to other intelligent people so that you can meet eachother.
Ryder Martin
im telling you to go research becuase no one has the time or patience to tell you how to be a human, especially on an internet forum. I wish i could tell you to phrase it a certain way and that would be it but it would be like teaching an advanced math problem to a toddler. First I would need to teach you how to talk, how to treat others, how to be responsible, how to empathize, how to lead, how to fail gracefully, how to accept your faults, and a million other basic building blocks. You graduated school, you got the job, you figure it out
Jaxson Cruz
yes but i want to show the importance of a situation. then i can't just say "oh it's like you miss to go to the store and arrive 5 min after it closed"
Logan Gomez
thanks, finally a good answer instead of being disrespectful. I think my overexplanation might be a problem in general, I just want to make sure everyone knows what I'm talking about and have a plan for all kinds of events we might need to handle
because otherwise, a lot of times the reaction is "oh, why didn't you tell us that BEFORE??"
