Two weeks ago I talked to a pair of girls who were walking from the same nightclub as me...

Two weeks ago I talked to a pair of girls who were walking from the same nightclub as me. I got the number of one of the girls. She ignored me at first. Then she replied three days ago. A few messages back and forth. I was busy at work and when I had time to message her it was very late so I waited until the next day. Then I sent "do you want to meet?". It's now two days later and she hasn't replied. What should I do?

Also another question. Some girls have shown interest in me at clubs but most of the times when I'm at clubs no girls show interest. Are you supposed to only approach girls who show interest first or are you supposed to approach them even if they don't show interest? Like for example last time I was at a club there was a pair of girls on the dance floor facing each other. I was standing some distance away. When they walked off the dance floor they walked past me and they didn't give me any looks of interest, they barely looked at me. Should I have placed myself close in front of them on the dance floor facing them when they were dancing in one spot?

Third question. I've been declined entrance at many bars and clubs. They say shit like you need to be on the guest list, you need to have a booked table etc etc. Are these lies just to have an excuse to decline me because they think I'm ugly? I was never declined when I was young but I didn't go to very many places then.

Attached: nightclub dancefloor.jpg (1600x1062, 1.11M)

Fuck off furfag tranny FBI intern
You’re supposed to go on Grindr and get the poz

Don’t go to clubs. They are for whores and douche bags.

I tried daygame for months. Did about 60 approaches, mostly in the street. Then I got stuck, couldn't do any more approaches. So I switched to nightgame. Only got one lay with a 3/10 out of the daygame approaches. I might switch to daygame again because I'm getting fed up with nightgame.

>clubbing for women
I mean if you want to bang std riddled thots you might as well hire an escort, it will probably be cheaper and you won't have the risk of an Indonesian raping you because you got too drunk

thank you for the update on your love life, Sven. i'm not the best person to ask, because i'm a random autist on an anonymous cartoon porn website, but i'm guessing the answer to your question has partly to do with you and partly to do with factors beyond your control, i.e. the fact that girls are bombarded with requests by dudes across multiple platforms IRL and online nowadays.

all you can control is your own behavior, so in a nutshell try and be normal, respectful, make them laugh, and ask them about themselves and their interests in an organic way. don't be pushy or demanding- a terse text message saying "Do You Want To MEET?" is a bit autistic for example, she's going to think you are angry and frustrated (which you are, but you have to pretend like you're not)

finally i think there's a real epidemic happening, of ghosting. girls just stop texting guys or don't show up for arranged meetings nowadays. it's happened to me, multiple friends, and men across the country and world or at least western world. girls are just flaking out at an unprecedented rate since the pandemic. so that part isn't you.

also nightclubs are not good places to meet girls usually, unless you are going more for one night stands etc. i would recommend meeting girls volunteering, or while working a part time job at a place like a restaurant, or maybe through church or another community organization. clubs are not places to form lasting relationships. you should have asked the girl back to your place on that first night instead of making plans to meet later.

1. You can't ask a girl out directly, you have to talk to her first and be pleasant. View it as marketing, do not make real small talk, talk about yourself (the good stuff of course) and see if she reacts or can relate.

(Protip, bitches love animals, Zodiacshit, and Plants).

btw you might have already fucked that thing up, I am sorry, usually, you can save shit like that if you send shit like "I am not often here, if you wanna chat, here take my number", but that only works on Tinder - you already had given her your number bro.


2. Yes, only the girls that show interest. Girls aren't stupid. They flirt with you by noticing you, if she chooses to ignore you there is no option to get her. Just move to the club I guess -

3. Don't know, that stuff doesn't happen here in Germany, maybe in the really big cities. But doesn't matter, girls, think all guys look more or less the same, so act confident - then you get confident - and they love that shit.
Good luck brother

no one ever scored in a club, its a fake business model

I asked the two girls if they wanted to go to another club together and they refused, said they were going home. They also stopped outside the subway and said they were going to wait for a friend who was coming in a few minutes, probably a lie to not have to enter the subway together with me. I only asked for snapchat though. She was the one to say we could exchange phone numbers, after I already had her snapchat. I have said "do you want to meet?" to pretty much every girl I've fucked from dating apps, maybe 10.

>1. You can't ask a girl out directly, you have to talk to her first and be pleasant. View it as marketing, do not make real small talk, talk about yourself (the good stuff of course) and see if she reacts or can relate.
Some people say you should ask her out almost immediately. Not sure if I should message her again or not.

You're probably just coming of as a serial killer and triggering a survival response from people. Embrace it, but display it in way that is mysteriously dangerous and fun, rather than creepy and scary.

Should I message her again? When? Now? What should I say?

please go back to 2010 with your """game"""

>I waited until the next day.
Too late, it's over. She has another cock now and lost interest.

just embrace the sweet approach of inceldom
not everyone was meant to have a pair, accept that

I mean there are girls who hate talking via chat and will meet up with you. But I wouldn't recommend that shit bc that dramatically raises the chance of having an awful cringy date.

If you can talk organically with her on WA and find a couple of talking-points you both can bond over you are 80% save.


But don't wait too long for the first date - like talk to her for a week, then meet up with her when the next weekend starts.

And go out to bars, bc this dating shit is much more easy with alcohol.

1. Don't call/text her anymore. You seem desperate, which you are but you don't want to her to know that.

2. Approach who you like. I usually wait a little bit when they start drinking or dancing to get her guard down a little bit.

3. The popular clubs usually have a lot of requirements for you to get in.
Most of the time I go to clubs that just require you to dress well. I always go on my own in case I get lucky. Don't give up I have literally taken women home when the club/bar was closing and they were walking out. Good luck.

What do eat on a regular basis?

Dude, if she’s not showing interest, drop it and move on.

I already sent "hi". After all she said we could exchange numbers after I already had her snapchat.

>What should I do?
Move on. Don't waste your time is she's not responding.

>Are you supposed to only approach girls who show interest first or are you supposed to approach them even if they don't show interest?
Approach when they show interest.

>Should I have placed myself close in front of them on the dance floor facing them when they were dancing in one spot?
No. If they're not looking at you, it's because they aren't interested.

>Are these lies just to have an excuse to decline me because they think I'm ugly?
How am I supposed to know if I haven't seen what you look like?

They decliny you because you are a single dude obivosly.