Yet after banging about 30 women I find myself unable to settle down with a woman, even though I am ready to and want a family and children. I just constantly find flaws in what other people tell me are decent women. I've even had 4-5 women straight up ask me for marriage and I ghosted, dumped, or cheated on all of them, including my current girlfriend who I'm cheating on with 2 other women. I feel no remorse. Should I just marry one and have white children and accept the fact that I have to be with a woman who will look disgusting after bearing children and who will annoy me and steal my time and energy for the rest of my life?
You told me men don't lose their ability to pair bond
Jackson Roberts
Logan King
You should stop watching porn. You will literally never heal your fucked up mentality until you do. But it will reset and you'll be in disbelief at how skewed your mind was about relationships and women.
Zachary Gutierrez
I've gone through long periods of not using porn at all, though during those times I've been rotating 4-5 women, different one every day. I don't believe porn is the problem, it's more that I expect more from women, especially ones in their early 20s, and they just seem to not be mature enough to have the same goals and interests as me. And I refuse to be with anyone older than 26 (though I dated a 40 year old once and she was superb, aside from the age)
Bentley Howard
>You told me men don't lose their ability to pair bond
who told you that?
I lost my ability to pairbond while still a virgin from the constant demoralizing stream of rejections
The only way to even get to a 'yes' with any woman was to treat them like a numbers game and give up on any concept of romantic love
at no point with any female partner have I ever considered her anything more than a hole who will try to financially rape me
It's simple
get in, get out, move on
I hate every one of them
They created this situation, not me
I would have been happy to marry my first crush and get old/fat with her together
but no, that was not ever an option
Nathaniel Russell
>stop watching porn
OP is the porn.
Joshua Thomas
chad problems
Cooper Richardson
>I've gone through long periods of not using porn at all, though during those times I've been rotating 4-5 women, different one every day.
Well assuming you're telling the truth this is extreme sexual deviancy. You're basically a faggot who has sex with girls. You don't need to find a woman, you need to quit your addictions and figure out who the fuck you are.
Jonathan Johnson
Since when does Any Forums have sex
Kayden Johnson
>chad haha
are you surprised the meme was bullshit? didn’t you ever look around at those bars and see who the other dudes were that were slutting around?
David Johnson
nice pink Gai ID, fag
but yeah, relationships are basically a transactional power struggle. I have a long checklist, and the less boxes a girl checks, the less I respect and like her
Levi Sanders
it was a numbers game for me, I was looking for a wife and thought it would be more efficient to date multiple women at the same time. However, talking to them takes a long time, so I figured I might as well get something in return for my time (pussy) even from the ones that weren't viable candidates. I didn't even really enjoy it most of the time desu
Tyler Perry
Love is a concept created by Theology and Religion. That is your first main issue.
Parker Gutierrez
Reproduce to create slaves to keep the economy afloat. Please follow the programming.
Lincoln Sanchez
>You told me men don't lose their ability to pair bond
Nobody told you that.
Samuel Hernandez
Asher Turner
"who will look disgusting"
Nigga we all will look disgusting at some point. Try to find a woman that isn't a whore and who you connect with on more than just sex. My current gf is maybe 1 point below in the looks department I'd usually go for but makes up for it in other areas that put me off with better looking chicks.
Evan Thompson
Feels bad, I'm at 32 partners and my current one is the longest one I've had. I've had sex with her like 700 times and still have it everyday, and she's been completely agreeable with me, she lives with me weeks at a time, but we really don't talk or do anything together. It's simply a neighbor I desperately dragged into my bedroom one night because I knew I could, and then she just kept coming over for sex everyday for years and I couldn't stop. The whole time I still feel like I haven't had a girlfriend and haven't been on a date.
Losing my virginity to a 16yo slut that kept linking me porn when I was 25 really fucked things, sex was too much and I kept just wanting sex like that again first instead of a proper relationship. Now I have sex daily with someone I'm not working together with and don't desire and it's fucked. I even look at her and think "oh, she's pretty, so why can't I feel something?".
Alexander Robinson
Mating without a soul at the cinema
Logan Brown
Why not kys instead??
Zachary Young
Once I had an affair with a girl like that.
Basically we liked each other as persons, had our own lives and family, but it was mostly just about sex, at every occasion.
And for the first time in my life I was alive, in love, and felt full.
It totally crushed my whole self esteem, when I have realized, that was the most happy period of my life.
I guess my real life is about responsibilities, goals, doing the right thing, but deep down, I'm just an addict, the only thing that makes me feel alive is hardcore sex.
Life is complicated.
Jack Kelly
>women are shit
Maybe you need to lay off the fucking bitches for a couple of years until you grow the fuck up.