Zoomer here who’s not in a relationship right of any sort but I’ve heard that once guys marry they fall off the face of the earth and all they do is hang out with their wives and children. Is this true?
Is it true that once you get married you lose all your friends?
Str8 people can't get married. Marriage is about love and men can't love women.
Do you have friends? After my post high school party days were over I pretty much stopped having friends. Only people I play dnd with and co workers sometimes. When I had a gorlfriend I saw them all less and Covid and everything.
I feel like once I’m married I’ll have more friends who are married with kids my age. You dont hang out with single people when you’re married.
You still have friends, but other things become more important and you hang out at family gatherings with friends like the 4th of July and whatnot instead of partying hard all day everyday. Yes. Real life and work makes you tired, home ownership eats your time too. There are more rewarding things in life than hanging out with the boys and having a perpetual party and soiree at the red pony.
probably because if you leave the house too much your bitch wife will use the power of the state to rape you in the ass and keep your kids from you while siphoning your paycheck every month
remove the power of the state in marriage
sir this is Any Forums
no but it does if the only activities you do with friends involve getting drunk, most people don't have the energy anymore to get drunk multiple times per week after getting married
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Do women really want to be with you constantly 24/7? Don’t they have friends of their own
Yeah, pretty much. Having a family takes a lot of your time, so you and your friends sort of just drift apart.
Only if you suck at time management
no. just make a point of disc golfing with the bros a couple times a week, it’s good for your marriage to break things up too
>Do women really want to be with you constantly 24/7?
Yes.
>Don't they have friends of their own
She won't like spending time with them as much as her man, if she really sees him as hers.
no, unless you marry a schizoid and submit to that narcissistic asshole excuse of a woman.
>Mannerbund
huh?
It's not the marriage that makes them fall off. Men work a lot more hours than women to make sure their family is taken care of. Today men are told that they need to do housework and other woman shit. There are only so many hours in the day.
sometimes
most women get their socializing done at work
You tend to stay friends with people on the same trajectory as you.
If you're married and have kids, you'll be friends with the same people.
It's not that big of a loss. Raising a family is much more fulfilling than hanging out to cope about how you haven't secured a legacy.
Your hangout time will diminish because life and because you aren't a kid who has endless free time once school let's out, but beyond that a lot of people don't make the effort to schedule time with friends and basically let their wife/kids run their schedule.
>i've never been in a relationship the post
You will never see your friends again and your wife will think she can keep your dick and balls in her purse.
i feel like people who lose friends as they age are people who never had close friends to begin with, and the veil is just finally lifted. i've known most my friends since basically middle school or freshman year of HS, a couple since grade school. that ben rector song about old friends is on point. no, we are not from a small town. and all of us are in our 30s, married or have a serious GF, and great careers. and we still hang out- every weekend? fuck nah. but i see em a lot honestly. so, if you're of HS age reading this. don't be a sperg- make some lasting friends. people with good character and values that align with yours.
It's true. You don't have time for a wife, kids, full-time job, home maintenance AND friends.
I have friends but they're all doing their own things as well. We hang out online more than in person.
>virgin shaming good
No. I did loose all my friends though when they became self righteous jabbies who kept their jobs during the shutdown and didn't give a fuck when I lost everything I had worked for. I learned that the unsaved, propagandized mindis not going to be your friend when SHTF. My wife on the other hand proved unfathomable loyalty. God blessed us with a kid during all that. Now we have got a growing family while my friends are unmarried and getting literal vasectomies.
>Waaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhh
Shit like this makes me wish the malthusian plot is real. It's not a result of marriage, it's the shitty society we live in where social media has made this bizaare faux hyper-socialism. In contact with so many, but so far apart. Humans function best living in smaller communities anyway. Teddy K is right
Women have standards now. You need friends to get a gf and then forsake them once she says so.
unironically solid advice, considering the state of this shithole board. finding those bros you really connect with later in life is extremely difficult, don’t ever take for granted your friends from adolescence and make time to maintain those relationships
My brother married a cunt.
His phone will ring within 15 minutes every time he stops by to say hello, every time.
And the conversation is always the same..."sorry honey...I'll be home in a few minutes....15 minutes..."...."gotta go, talk to you later".
I have stopped caring, not my problem.
Told him this would happen...