>Tfw I have boomer parents who have me revolve around their life but don't care to look after me or help me move forward in having a life of my own, so I try to do what I can to get different things together in the hopes that one day it will help me be independent and break free, but then they just use their experience to take advantage of me and steal everything that I've tried to garner together and make me even more dependent on them than before
Tfw I have boomer parents who have me revolve around their life but don't care to look after me or help me move forward...
You know what to do
Hi fellas. Nice try. :>
"Yeah man, just shoot those mfers"
You think doing this will really solve anything?
Condolences on beinga mutt
You know what to do.
explain more. other then them being boomers idk what they doing wrong
You have to be at least 18 to visit this adult imageboard.
Get on welfare/disability programs, get neetbucks. Move in with a friend, start a business or just do anything you can.
No this is commonplace for evil boomer parents, narcissism runs deep with their generation. Many boomers will gimp their children into adulthood and beyond.
When I was a kid I had gameboy camera, and the maori tribesmen or whatever that appeared whenever there was an error along with the noise gave me intense, life altering nightmares.
just move out retard and slowly cut communication.
They don't want me to move out and be independent. They want me to revolve around their life. I am their bread winner, after all. Once I am used up, they will simply do away with me
My mom did this shit to me and ruined my life luckily I'm still young and can still salvage the mess. My plan is to join the military, it's a free way to just get away.
Yeah there are lots of Gex X/Ys who never got married and are essentially servants to their Boomer parents. I know several with high-school educations slaving away at Walmart to come home and pay their parents rent where they are expected to “pitch in” which generally involves cooking the majority of the meals and taking on the lion’s share of the housework. Meanwhile their Boomer parents watch tv all day and bitch about pretty much everything. Boomers are an incredibly selfish generation.
Lmao that picture is really scary man):
user., you're young. Realize that while now feels like forever, it's not. The best you can do understand you're current circumstances and make them work the best for your goals.
You got this. Read the sticky and remember, Moots a fucking fag that works for Google.
I could have also chosen to stoop down to their level, but who on earth wants to be a boomer?
Only one way out. Either you or them.
If evil was a generation...
>if
Stfu, Mutt. We will take our land back from you. And your women too.
It's from Mr. Incredible becomes uncanny videos. Don't recommend watching at night
My parents kicked me out at 18 and I got very independent from them right away. I’m in my late 30s now and I haven’t spoken to them in over three years. They never helped me with anything and were retarded consoomers, buying motorcycles, cars, boats, a pool, timeshare, vacations, etc. Now they’re bankrupt and I’m playing the role as the “parent” for my younger siblings, since they never did anything for us. I can’t wait until they’re old and so I can come into their lives in put them in a senior living facility and watch them get punched by niggers on YouTube in their final years.
Who gives a fuck the what they want? Just cut ties with them and move out.
kek what the fuck is this mental illness
When I was a kid in highschool I was getting charged for every little thing in the house and that amounted to $500 a month in the early 2000s, when their mortgage was $950 a month.
>Crying about how boomer parents won’t help you succeed (i.e. do the work for you)
ngmi
I’m sorry fren.
Trust it can and will get better.
First, forgive yourself. You’re not the reason you’re awkward. You’re not the reason you’ve been unsuccessful. It’s them. It’s always been them and you’ve always had to be the bigger person, even from age 3 you’ve noticed they’re not right….
Boomers are a cursed, narcissistic generation. Every single one is tainted. Not even exaggerating, every single boomer has a form of NPD, even if mild.
1. Move out.
2. Don’t speak to them for at least a few months or use the ‘Gray Rock’ method (be as interesting as a Gray Rock and don’t engage, Google this for more info)
3. Go gym, work on your career, enrol in a course for something you’d actually enjoy (video game design, screenwriting, filmmaking, art etc.)
You can do this and don’t ever let them control your happiness again. If you can conquer your narcissistic, Boomer parents, you can conquer literally anything. No one will ever make you feel as bad as a narcissist.
Finally, forgive them. I’m trying this now but it’s hard. There’s a difference between forgiving and forgetting. You forgive them as they likely had abusive parents that would put their hands on them, so in comparison they think they’re great parents…. However, don’t let them control you in any way
Don’t let them help you with a business
Don’t stay there longer than a few days
Don’t open up to them about personal stuff/relationships
Don’t even introduce new romantic partners to them until at least 6-12 months in.
Don’t count on them for anything.
It’s on you now. Don’t look at this as a loss. Trust me, as hard as it is with shitty parents, it’s much harder with parents that are overly-loving and don’t mind you crashing at home until 35-40. They eventually become narcissistic themselves.
In time you’ll see this as a blessing and you’ll notice when others are uncomfortable and doing it tough, and in time you can help them.