My life was ok before, but after taking the redpill at 20(24 now) , it really went downhill. Not all of that is due to the redpill however. >still addicted to porn and fapping since I was 14 >very shy and low self esteem >not disciplined. Quit the gym after 7 years(only did 2 years consistently) >Virgin who still lives at home >job sucks( I dont want to work at all, I feel like Im wasting my life) >overweight I don't know what to do anymore. I know that stuff like that might not belong on Any Forums but I hope that some good fren might help me out.
That's a phase we've all been through after taking the redpill, user. It'll wear out after a while.
Joseph Baker
cry somewhere else
Daniel Wright
>very shy and low self esteem Why should you give a fuck about what other people think of you?
That being said stop being a fat faggot. All you need to do is literally nothing. Literally stop shoveling food into your fat disgusting mouth. It's that easy.
Nolan Anderson
>I realized I was living the life of a lazy degenerate >I continued to live this way >Life feels empty now WOW, WHAT A HEADSCRATCHER, user! A WONDER WHAT ON EARTH COULD POSSIBLY BE CAUSING THIS?
Jordan Butler
How long did it take? already asked /adv/ for help but didn't get a response, Mr. Memeflag
Ethan Bailey
>How long did it take? For me it's kinda special because it coincided with depression, so I couldn't give you a good number. I'm only coming out of depression nowadays, been like that for 5 to 6 years.
Adam Russell
You're right. I tried bettering myself, but the "I start tomorrow" mentality is always catching up to me.
Dominic Martin
not my problem
Cooper Morgan
Keep in mind too, that the brain isn't even fully formed until 25. I was in a similar situation when I was your age, I had existential dread for about 6 months, suffering serious depression. I'd think about killing myself, but also of the implications of doing that.
The one bit of solace I can give you though, is if you manage to overcome these thoughts, and deal with the nature of reality, life actually becomes significantly more enjoyable. You may want to pick up some books on Stoicism and Cynicism. I'm 35 now, and while my conditions still aren't optimal, I'd say my general happiness has never been higher.
Dylan Rodriguez
stop coming to this shithole, its only demoralization propaganda, no redpills here anymore
Alexander Reyes
In all seriousness, here's what you do:
Fuck tomorrow. Tomorrow isn't guaranteed. For all you know, this is the last day you get to spend alive. Maybe you die from getting hit by a car or a from a gas leak while you sleep. What do you want people's last thoughts of you to be, if such a thing happens?
Treat every day like its your last day, and you want people to think well of you, and the game changes.
Blake Robinson
>Virgin who still lives at home Sex is way overrated. I've fucked dozens of women and to be honest I wish I had waited and gotten married first. Still not married myself at almost twice your age. >not disciplined. There are many forms of discipline. Find what you like best. That could take a while so be patient with yourself. >job sucks( I dont want to work at all, I feel like Im wasting my life) Most jobs do suck. I thought I made it working at a to 50 dotcom in a high rise. Then they made the job suck. I bailed because anyone out to do that to someone who's happy can never be happy themselves. Don't surround yourself with these kinds of people, even if it means going it alone. >overweight So? Goes back to sex and SMV. Think about something else. Find something else besides sex which holds an equivalent amount of fascination. >very shy and low self esteem Get the above sorted out and shyness won't matter. Your self esteem will improve by leaps and bounds. Hope you're not a 1pbtid, OP.
Jace Perry
Keep going buddy, you got this. Do you have any books that you can recommend? And should I include praying as well? maybe. I think it also contributes a bit to being blackpilled Thanks user, that hit home
Michael Adams
>Stoicism Love Stoicism. Starship Troopers is also highly recommended.
It's your age. You're at a transition point. Time to make some changes.
Sebastian Ward
boo hoo you absolute faggot. go back to being a porno addcited loser then goy
Nathan Garcia
>Do you have any books that you can recommend? Start with Starship Troopers. It's essentially Stoicism packaged for young boys. Short and easy to digest. From there, you should be in a mindset to where you're primed and ready to wrap your head around books like Meditations (Marcus Aurelius) or Letters from a Stoic (Seneca).
Blake Bennett
Appreciate it, user I want to make changes, yet I fail going to the gym consistently, NoFap and NoPorn and other stuff. I think I need discipline
Easton Evans
you should only be posting on Any Forums until you are a healthy weight or muscular. until they shut the fuck up and read and work out
