So basically I work in the public sector and they will renew my contract in like a month, problem is that I hate the job I am doing (customer care for train company). If I don't accept the renewal I get no neetbux for a year and now it's kinda too late to make something crazy like go to work drunk to get myself fired. After the renewal it will be very hard for them to kick me out. So I thought to sign the contract then fake a mental breakdown and get locked up in psychiatry for like a month or two (I already been there for other reasons years ago so it's in my medical records) and tell doctors that work with public makes me suicidal and me going to them was the last chance before performing suicide. Do you think that could work? I wanna stay home and work remote.
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>it's kinda too late to make something crazy like go to work drunk to get myself fired
Why? How is it "too late"? Is there a deadline on doing such crazy things?
Why don't you try being a normal person and make money? Plenty of people hate their jobs. Train for a new one for a year. Get it.
These other strange plans will destroy your life
For practical reasons, I am on holiday until september because I didn't use holidays during covid times so I took almost 2 months
There is probably something wrong with me but the job is so soul-crushing (having to argue with people all day) that I can barely work out and go to sleep after, I get no mental peace to dedicate to something else.
Just trust me on this. I've made mistakes like this, where I try the easy way out, and the pain is worse a few years later. You will have even less peace later.
Your only option is to cope for about a year while you force yourself to prepare for another job.
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>So basically I work in the public sector and they will renew my contract in like a month, problem is that I hate the job I am doing (customer care for train company). If I don't accept the renewal I get no neetbux for a year and now it's kinda too late to make something crazy like go to work drunk to get myself fired. After the renewal it will be very hard for them to kick me out. So I thought to sign the contract then fake a mental breakdown and get locked up in psychiatry for like a month or two (I already been there for other reasons years ago so it's in my medical records) and tell doctors that work with public makes me suicidal and me going to them was the last chance before performing suicide. Do you think that could work? I wanna stay home and work remote.
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just go find a new job user, maybe start smoking pot before work it will make it easier in a customer facing role, you'll be more chill and the customers will feel it.
Surely the train company has a role for you that can be done remote?
no need to get locked up in a psych facility, just go to doctor and say you are depressed/anxious from work and need to take time off and need a doctors note or something.
>the man who fears god fears all extremes.
Chill desu and think it through.
btw who is that sexy pajeeeta in an Australian police uniform?
i've heard a similar story to this one years ago here. ended badly. don't do it.
Sounds like you play video games. You should stop and embrace the fight. Gamify your interactions with people
Only quit if you can make more money somewhere else
This is the best advice. I quit a teaching job with nothing else lined up just before covid happened, and since then I've been doing odd jobs here and there for cash, but nothing serious. I'm now retraining myself and planning to get a proper job again. In hindsight I should have been learning a new skill way before I got burned out as I knew it was coming for about a year before I finally had enough.
I smoke pot and generally can manage the cattle (aka customers) pretty well, but the workplace is just women, i have women bosses and it exaustes me on a mental level to deal with women's bullshit all day.
I don't really play videogames but yeah interactions arent that bad except when people verbally harasses you for something you have no control of
It's not like quitting, they will have to change my role to put me somewhere without contact with the public, and only if I tell I am depressed and suicidal I have a chance not to work with cattle anymore (in italy once you have the definitive contract they can't fire you for health reasons)
yeah its the truth you always suffer in one way or another so you might as well suffer for a reason. suffer toward a goal.
Mate, study java for like 3 months and get a backend dev job. It's confy, 100% remote, you barely talk to anyone, work 10 hours a week and get 3k+/month after 3 years (partita iva forfettaria, you will thank me later)
What happened?
Why don't you just say you are addicted to weed or something then take a month for rehab
>the workplace is just women, i have women bosses and it exaustes me on a mental level to deal with women's bullshit all day.
Examples? I work in a mostly male workplace, why are women bad as collegues?
I was thinking about study some programming language but I got mixed suggestions: someone told me Python, others Java, and others told me that it's too late for learn2code. I have a biology degree but I never studied programming, I don't know how hard it can be.
Because they want to be revered, they arw not mentally flexible, and generally they bring their home problems at the workplace. I talked to my boss about this but the whole system is rigged, most of those women are in such positions because they have been vouched or have fucked someone higher, and you can't do much against them, they are protected. Trenitalia is a very corrupted entity just like everything in the italian public sector
My gf studies biotech, you guys are inherently good at programming imo because it uses the same kind of hypothesis-thesis logic reasoning you are used to in determining what happens in a cell or chemical stuff.
See, when we talk about programming there are two kinds of people: the ones who are good at it, and the ones that are not. No in betweens. Just try it out for a week, you'll love it or hate it. If you hate it, please do something else or you'll burn out even faster.
Lastly, i said kava because i work with it and i love it, but you can try a couple and see what feels better for you, both are very good languages for a job rn. Just do 8 hours of learning one, 8 hours of learning the other, then decide, you don't need a lot of time to see it.
Sweet, thanks. i downloaded a bunch of cracked udemy courses, I'll try and see if it suits for me.
Search "java programming mooc helsinki". There are two courses, basic and advanced. Do these and you are set for 80% of what you have to know. Then, spend no more than 10 days to learn
- maven for dependency management
- spring for inversion of control
- spring MVC, to at least know what an MVC paradygm is
With this, you can get your first job. In milan i got 1550 after taxes at my first job, but seriously accept anything at this point. Your goal is working 6 months and get experience. After, you can ask for a decent wage (1600+ is guaranteed). After 3 years, partita iva and 3k+.