Whenever I see women interact with a dude who is short, has autism, even just average-looking facially, whatever - they give him one word answers, literally don't call him by his name (they just say You or even talk to him in third person, it's fucked up).
Meanwhile when they interact with a 6'4" dude, who is maybe good-looking as well, they literally cannot contain their shiteating grin. They are suddenly so talkative, they ask him questions about the most mundane things, guy does not even have to do anything, women just take over the conversation. Most men can't even fathom the fact that the tall attractive guys out there literally get approached BY women - they don't have to do the asking out, they GET asked out BY cute girls.
It is NOT about "muh confidence" or "muh abundance mindset" or "muh personality!". It's TOTALLY about looks (that is, height, face, frame, body.) And if you're "confident" as a manlet or an ugly guy, you WILL get checked and put into your place by people, or laughed at. Manlets who go to the gym get laughed at too, and seen as compensating. (Don't get me wrong, I'm not anti-gym, obviously if you have the height + face, going to the gym 100% will help you, women love abs - but for normal dudes, it won't get them any girls)
On top of that, when I go outside, when I see young couples the guy is almost ALWAYS 6'1 and above. Occasionally 5'11 dudes with super handsome faces. The only tall single guys I see are ones who are just flat out ugly or balding or something, but it seems like you need to be 6'1 nowadays to even have a CHANCE. And no matter what your height - if you have a shit jawline, if your hairline is even slightly receding, or anything - fucking FORGET about it.
So I guess what I'm trying to say is:
What incentive do average-looking men even have nowadays to participate in society?