socially functional weeb hikihermit here and i just came back from a family party were i was basically pimped by my mom to 2 upper class hikigirls (likely femcels too)
>be me
>remote work ITchad
>5'9 and slightly overweight ugly
>khv incel sperg
>never leave home unless there is capeshit kino i wanna watch (alone)
>mom bugging me to go to party all day
>bribes me by promising tendies (which she did not honor)
>tells me to dress up nice
>agree because family member is not poorfag like us
>be first to party
>help out setting up decorations and shit
>nothing sus so far
>guest start arriving
>group with the 2 girls arrive
>mom tells me to move to their table because she wants to “talk” to them
>sit down and greet them like a normie and start eating chips
>girls' mom start staring at me intensely and smiling
>dead stare mode: ON
>mom starts talking about my uni degree and my current job
>how old i am and my personality
>girls' mom start saying shit like "oh my girls are JUST LIKE YOU"
>she keeps staring at me and tries to small talk to me
>give short and quick answers
>cousin calls me into his room to play warzone
>nope the fuck out
>party ends and we in driveway
>mom calls me over to girls' mom
>she straight up says to me that i should hookup with one of her girls
>i finally realize that it was an ambush
>start spilling my spaghetti by bumbling like a dumbass sperg
>mom saves me by saying shell get their numbers
>on the way home, mom start saying that we are a great match since they also never leave their home and are the smarty nerd types too
well Any Forums, do i take the bait and try this shit? i had no chemistry with either of the girls and they are kinda mid desu but im kinda desperate for the companionship and they could fund my NEET lifestyle. i actually like my cute normie neighbor which my mom is very friendly with too but she hasn't taken the few hints ive given to her about my intentions so thats going nowhere atm
Redpill me on arranged marriages Any Forums
Women only have an emotional span of about 2-3 months. After that, they accept whatever the conditions are. Arranged marriages are very good when the families both make money and it encourages the children to actually do something. They can be bad if the families are stupid though, of course.
sure, what do you have to lose? I'm pretty much the same as you and have a gf like that and it's great
I'm not reading that but basically yes ypu should do it. Women assuming they're not sluts, form attachment over time especially if you're doing things together, it literally doesn't matter who they are now.
leafbro it took me a long time to write it, at least acknowledge my tendies joke
but what do i literally do? like i tell my mom to give me their numbers and then what?
your neighbour probably doesnt see you. but organise a bbq and see. realistically go for the girls and just try to be a gent, if family is involved they probably wont act like bitches at all, everybody wants a dub when family is involved
literally dont text them, just call them and ask them to go out. one on one later, and catch up with cousins or whoever i assume you dont have frens first as a group so they know you
Arranged marriages are our thing. Stop this cultural appropriation.
its a third world thing poo sirs, fuck off or give advice
ask her out. Best dates are where you can do something fun together like bowling/pool followed up by chatting over drinks or some fast food
or you can do something casual like some coffee and a walk.
I refuse to believe arranged marriage exists in Mexico... Does this mean I can get arranged to a hot latina? I don't want to marry a hairy Indian she-ape.
>weeb hikihermit
>tranime
The answer is that you shouldn't breed and that you shouldn't take the game that belongs to Chads.
You are dysgenic failure that is a byproduct of modern society and you should perish if humanity as a whole is to survive.
thanks gypsybro, very helpful
yes their a thing now sirs pls give advice
but what if i want a family?
>also
>mfw shits on anime in chink cartoon website
By arranged marriages, I assume we're talking about a guy and girl being encouraged to hook up because the parents are friends, as opposed to muslim's trading underage cousins with the threat of an honor killing if things don't work out.
Perfectly compatible, happy 100% couples are a fantasy. You're going to do shit that pisses the other off. Our parents, grandparents, and all our other ancestors were imperfect matches. The best you get is that things are cool MOST of the time.
Look at the structure of your own extended family, assuming yours isn't truly fucked up. It has highs and lows, but generally you stick together and help each other out in life, a mutually supportive micro-community.
Getting set up like this is worth a try, I'd say. At worst you find the two of you have nothing in common and move on. Back to what I said, there's going to be bumps in the relationship. Most of our predecessors had to ride it out, because there was a major stigma attached to divorce. Nowadays, marriages are ended on a whim because I'M NOT HAAAAAAAAPPPPPPPY. If your two families have a long history with each other, and each family internally is pretty close, there's a social enforcement going on to encourage the two of you to suck it up and get through rough patches together. That's a major aspect missing from modern relationships, that has contributed to an overall societal decline.
If you ever have kids your autism would probably be squared. What's the point if they are going to be genetical dead ends and/or kill themselves?
Your poor mother must be at her wits end.
Step you game up user, you only live once and you havent even started yet.
>but what if i want a family?
Wanting a family and taking care of a family are two different things.
Weeaboos are not going to discipline their children and they won't teach them practical lessons that will make them proper human beings.
At this point you are something like a cancer cell that is trying to multiply itself but it will destroy the organism in the process.
>I assume we're talking about a guy and girl being encouraged to hook up because the parents are friends
yeah this, we not mudslums savages here kek
damn bros, why you roasting me like this?
Disney Jews and other movie Jews have been busy demonising arranged marriages.
You know what that means.
they are bitter for one reason or another. Well adjusted individuals don't attack strangers so personally for no reason
Some of us oldfags have kids already, and we have realized than having a gf is the smallest of the problems.
Unless you are a complete person you wont make it with kids. You may be inmature, we all are at the beginning, but you can't go from hiki to having a family just because you got a woman. 100% sure the family would be disfonctional and everyone unhappy.