What the hell has happened to female dating standards these days?
I have a decent job, my own apartment, nice car, workout and look great, but it's STILL not good enough for even a 5/10 average chick
They all think they deserve 6'4 gigachads who own a business or is Instagram famous and won't settle for anything less
What the fuck happened?
probably because you keep chasing them like an idiot
Jews
You probably give off insecurity vibes
Women want a man who is 100% confident in himself
>Went into years of debt for a nice car because he thought it would get him laid
Turbocucked
Go to a library to meet women instead of bars and gyms…?
What would be different there?
>I have a decent job, my own apartment, nice car, workout and look great, but it's STILL not good enough for even a 5/10 average chick
>You have created a set of standards by which you think women should judge potential mates
>You are a male
>You have not told not asked women what standards they want
>Instead, you just assume, without bother trying to find out what they want in a mate
>You conform yourself to the standards you made up
>you get disappointed when women don't accept your made up standards
Do I understand your dilemma?
Look up "covert contracts" on the red pill sites, because that's what you're doing.
if you chase them too hard they'll get turned off. Think that she would be a nice part of your life if you like her, not that you have to have her at all cost regardless. Remember that the one that is willing to walk has the power in pretty much any exchange
social media
once you stop caring, only then will the pussy flow
lmao
you have autismo
and you're probably a fag too
>Stop caring
>Never hit on girls because you don't care
>Die alone
Epic win
this only works in hs
>t. knower
you still have to make moves just dont give off vibes that you're a drowning nigga looking for pussy to survive and molding your personality so she likes you
yeah ur stressing it too much. stop looking at it as “hitting on girls” too, thats gay af. talk to a bitch wherever you are, one of them is bound to fuck with you
How many women have you actually talked to? In person not some gay online app
>girls are all materialistic whores these days
>Why wont they date me? I have a nice car, job, house, lots of money....
The first step to fixing the problem is self examination. Sure, there may be a lot of trash women, but Im gonna give you advice and say look at your own attitude.
the one thing you forgot to do, become something other than a pathetic loser
This. You don't need to be mr. cool but looking desperate is a deal-breaker for most. Read 'Models: attract women by honest' by Mark Manson, it's the opposite of PUA fake shit and it makes a lot of sense.
You’re not black. There is your problem.
if sex is the goal, they will go for the best sex machine out there, I wish I had a 35cm dick, but I think a human with such a feature would need at least one extra heart and a bag of blood somewhere in the body to pump it up.
anyways, it's about the goal they set up, so yeah, they'll only go for the biggest dick out there, if a horse could set a tinder account it would be the final boss.
if you didn't share your struggle with a decent woman I don't think you could stomach such a companion, because those woman have all their personality around sex and once their sexual value declines they become really annoying and since they had all that sex, they become also underdeveloped and entitled...
I know everything about women ama
You're not black, you don't have what women want and that's BBC
You shouldn't voluntarily engage in personal contracts with emancipated women
muh peacock feathers
muh new emerging neurological patterns in the next generation due to new jewish conditioning and technological innovations
>What the fuck happened?
You're not a 6'4" mega chad
It's not that hard. Make sure you're smart, likeable, have (develop) leadership and social skills and looksmax. And honestly put your own standards high and don't settle for shit girls. Eventually you'll find a good girl.
>t. Have medstudent 8-9/10 trad, right wing gf
Its the algorithm. Play the algorithms game.
Females employ strategic pluralism. That describes the propensity to fulfill multiple needs regarding replication and propagation via a strategic application of mating behavior. Females look for specific signifiers, as do males. Females select for signifiers of fitness and testosterone/dihydrotestosterone, ie androgeny. But, they also seek protection, provision, and parental investment. Females have had millions of years of selection pressures, and hundreds of thousands of years as hominids, to seek out a male to exclusively protect them. We evolved alongside predators, constant stressors, aggressors, and altercations. Similarly, they have had selection pressures to seek out males that can provide them with resources. Females are incapable of bending the environment to their will, so they have to do it by proxy. They are incapable of hunting efficiently, they are incapable of building shelter, they are incapable of guarding resources. It's only sensible that the females that exhibited an outsized obsession over seeking out males with access to resources and ability to amass more resources, tended to survive and birth offspring that reached reproductive age at greater rates than the ones that did not.
By the same notion, the females that attached to a male for undivided protection and safety tended to survive at greater rates than the ones that did not. Their hardwired need for parental investment is a little more nuanced. Species that produce very few offspring as their replication strategy tend to invest a lot of attention, resources, and time on the development of said offspring, in order to maximize their chances at survival and subsequent replication. Female mammals, namely human females, are no different. A paternal figure that invests in the development and upbringing of the offsrping greatly increases its chances of surviving to reproductive age and developing prosocial behaviors that maximize its reproductive success. Females expend a lot of energy and time, as well as suffer bodily and risk mortality, in order to gestate and birth offspring, it's sensible that they are outwardly invested in its proper development and its ability to reproduce.
Males employ two different mating strategies, depending on their status in the hierarchy of the extended family unit or tribe, even though they can converge. Males high in the hierarchy, males that are genetically fit, masculine, and high on testosterone, enjoy high levels of 5-HT. They enjoy the proceptive and receptive behavior of numerous women, and they enjoy the submission, implicit or explicit, of other males. Their most sensible mating strategy is reproducing with as many females as possible, ie spreading their genetic material with little regard when it comes to parental investment that would potentiate the offsprings' reproductive success. They do not have to expend resources, energy, time, or even bodily harm through mate guarding, in order to replicate their genes. It's only natural that they navigate thusly, in a system of abundance, of limited scarcity.
Males that are lower in the social hierarchy, whose genetic fitness is not comparable, whose testosterone and dihydrotestosterone levels are midling, have to navigate a system of scarcity and competition. Their serotonin levels are lower, they are more risk-averse, and they are better able to defer gratification out of necessity. Their mating strategy involves provision, protection, and parental investment. They amass resources, and commit undivided attention to the female, they obsessively mate-guard in order to mitigate paternity fraud and paternity confusion, and expend time, resources, energy, and other potential mating partners, in order to bring up their offspring and ensure optimal development that will in turn translate in eventual reproductive success.
As you might have noticed, females seek out males of optimal genetic fitness, that will also protect them and their offspring, commit to them and their offspring, provide for them and their offspring, and will invest in the upbringing and development of their offspring. But that is generally a combination of two disparate mating strategies employed by two different classes of men. Cue strategic pluralism.
Females' evolutionarily hardwired imperative is to primarily mate with the male of the best genetic fitness if their sphere of infuence. Females' secondary evolutionarily hardwired imperative is to attach themselves to a male that will protect them, provide for them, and invest in their offspring. Ergo, in a vacuum, females will always seek to fulfill/satiate both imperatives with two different males.
I believe it's patently obvious that nature is at odds with structured society. In fact, structured society reins in nature and bends it. In order for structured societies to exist, a social contract has to be upheld. Men exchange their excess of labor for reproductive access. In effect, the evolutionarily hardwired imperatives of extremely fit men, and all women, are reined in for society to function.
What happens then, if the social contract is broken?
Women are free to exercise their imperatives. Single-motherhood sees a steep increase. Infidelity sees a steep increase. Utilitatian, opportunistic, and solipsistic bahavior sees a steep increase. Female in-group competition sees an increase, resulting in an arms race for women to present themselves progressively more proceptive and receptive to mates. Women will accentuate their secondary sexual characteristics, they will exhibit sexual behavior, they will incentivize male competition, and will shun/ostracize males that are low in the social hierarchy. That's how it goes in nature, especially during seasons of estrus.
Conversely, males will engage in two different behavioral patterns, that are seemingly axiomatically antithetical. Some males will enter into an arms race when it comes to provision. That means assets, resources, status. Other males will enter into an arms race when it comes to protection and the metastasization of that, obsessive mate-guarding, agression, criminality, risk-seeking, antisocial behavior. Finally, a group of males will opt out and engage in hedonistic endeavors, maladaptive behavior, self-actualization.
Since the number of men that are genetically fit and able to reproduce, in a tournament mating paradigm, is minuscule, the end result is progressive degradation of the systems of structured society. Males are no longer incentivized to produce an excess of labor, thus the system tht relied in a specific volume of labor and participation can no longer be sustained. The system will run on its inertia for some time before finally collapsing.
Well, how did human females even evolve the means to be able to employ strategic pluralism?
Human females do not have an estrus mediated by melatonin. They are fertile year-round. They also do not have outward identifiers signalling ovulation. Human females are the only mammalian species with a concealed ovulation.
Human females retain a lot of their neoteny, and have had selection pressures for neoteny. Neoteny obviously allows them the ability to command compassion, attention, protection, and preferential treatment.
Human females, as hominids, developed "sex sounds", with the primary impetus to make other males in the vicinity aware they are receptive.
Human females, have developed predilection for duplicity, confrontation-aversion, and in-group prosocial behavior amongst other females.
All that was to facilitate paternity confusion. When the male in question is not positively sure the offspring is not theirs, they will be hesitant to commit infanticide, and they will be instinctively primed to expend resources and energy to protect it and provide for it.
Be tall, good-looking and socially popular, that's it
If you're instagram famous, enjoy easy pussy for the rest of your life
This. When I used to care about what women thought about me and tried to be careful about what I said/did to not upset or creep them out and they wouldn't give me the time of day. As soon as I stopped caring what women thought then they started paying attention to me.
It's your personality. Women really don't care what you do for a living or how much money you make. You have to exhibit alpha dominance in your interactions with women. You're probably too nice.
This.
But other anons in this thread are correct when they say "don't act desperate or chase them". Girl I currently live with gets hit on by a lot of guys. After a week or two of dates and complements she's bored and moves on. She hung up on her ex that treated her like shit because she is shit. Don't tell them they are special and/or smart. Women will always be 13 year olds mentally. Personally I love telling women no their reactions these days is priceless.
Okay, so how did the males evolve in response?
Males employ mate-guarding, obsessive control, threat. Males also employ limited investment. Both strategies are instrumental in maximizing their chances at replication. When a male is mate-guarding and controls the female's environment and actions, he mitigates the risk of paternity fraud. Ie, he mitigates risk that he will invest resources and energy for another male's gene replication. When a male is employing limited investment, he is in turn not expending energy and resources. He is content he is replicating his genetic material, and is not particularly interested in the offspring's optimal development and reproductive success. The law of large numbers.
That's just touching the surface. The arms race is even present on a biological level, with antisperm antibodies, faux ovulation, faux gestation, menstrual synchrony, androstenol pheromones and androstenol olfactory receptors, telegony, and a host of other things.
Please, understand that females are for just for reproduction and nothing more. Males for everything else.
>I wish I had a 35cm dick, but I think a human with such a feature would need at least one extra heart and a bag of blood somewhere in the body to pump it up
well, let's do some quick calculations
let's say you've got great girth as well, 15 cm
assuming this penis to be a perfect cylinder, we're than talking about a volume of ~625 cm^3, corresponding to roughly ~6.25 deciliters
that's definitely quite a bit, relative to the average penis that only requires ~1.3 deciliters to get hard
>174 (~5'8")
>62kg (~136lbs)
>No job, just went back to school
>Lost my apartment
>on the brink to alcoholism
>pussy flows
Just fucking interact with people and stop care
It was weird for me to realize that women won't like you if you are nice and are much more likely to want to fuck you if you're that "arrogant asshole" they always complain about
It's not hard to get women once you understand that what women say they want, and what they actually want are completely different things.
Now go find another forum to sook on. Pol is not here to help you get laid.
Every young woman has an inflated opinion about her value on the market.
Attractive young woman has hundreds if not thousands offers from men at any given moment trough social media.
Men that had 0 possible opportunities to create any access to some young woman from your town, can now bp into her on interpals, on fb, insta, on a video game, and offer her dick and what comes with it.
For men the situation is opposite.
Even the highest quality chad is just one more offer on tinder or on insta among thousands.
And young zoomer women don't know how to behave when a man approaches them irl as they are living their life online since diapers.
None of that matters, though a decent face helps. Fact is OP you’re probably a bore to be around. Learn to tell a good story, flirt and make her giggle. Most of them don’t care about towering gigachads, that’s an incel meme
15cm of girth on my 35cm dick? that's just to thin of a dick, a 35cm long dick with at least 23cm girth.
not true, they like the odd compliment and nice gesture but only if you truly qant to do it. most men compliment and do shit for them because they have the ulterior motive of "please pleade please like me I just did this nice thing for you". women pick up on that shit
its all about looks and height. would you want an ugly fat chick who says she has her own car, job, and house, or will you prefer the hot young girl who lives with her parents, or sleeps on her girlfriends couch. women are the same
let them whore around and just wait at the back of the club for sloppy seconds and marriage, cuck.
what new patterns? it's the same shit
>get shiny thing and it give me wet thing for ding-dong
>Epic win
It is, actually. Wish that happened to me. But now I'm in love and afraid.
>I want a pseud bitch that cucks me after 5 years instead of 6 months, because she's a frigid intellectual who decided to re-discover her sexuality
Having saved up money all winter I got facials and new clothes and worked out a lot and went to bars to get used to talking to normies. Females just assault you if they want you now. Threaten to cry rape, that they're carrying your baby (even if you never fucked them), will hit you and follow you around but not as a cute 18 year old but a fat 35 year old roastie. I don't care anymore. Just go to the park to feed rats and squirrels. Females are finished.
>>You have not told not asked women what standards they want
if you ask women what they want, they'll tell you to be a simp/cuck hybrid AKA the guy they use for emotional work, for drama, for money, for attention, and to whom they give PUSSY BREADCRUMBS once in a while
>they like the odd compliment and nice gesture but only if you truly qant to do it.
This isn't true at all. This doesn't just apply to sex this applies to life in general. For instance I work with women and at first I tried to be friendly to them and they all treated me like shit and tried to get me to do their jobs for them. When I told them to fuck off and quit bothering me they started treating me with respect. Women will treat nice men like shit in all aspects of life.
pretty basic evolutionary biology
it also means that I, as a genetic loser who is also a neet, will not be reproducing
thus I have elected to instead hate women for not allowing me to insert my penis into them
I hate women so much it's unreal
You have to realize that women are fundamentally evil
They want an evil man
Men might like & respect you if you're a good dude, but women hate, HATE decent men
They want a selfish asshole, go full dark triad