- Has or HAD an OnlyFans. At my last job 1/5 or more of all coworker females had OnlyFans
- Uses one or more 'nicknames' that have no relation to legal name at work. Goes by different nicknames around different groups of people. I stumbled on this working in nursing. The shadiest bitches literally had X different names they went by, and none of them were the name printed on the paycheck.
- At her home: If she's a single mom and you're a man, her tween/teenage children AREN'T interrogating/inspecting you when you're in their home. It's not certain but it implies strange men coming over to the house are nothing new. This is a huge IRL 'tell' for single moms, IMO.
- Travels a LOT, even though they're working a normal job that doesn't pay great. Sometimes this goes hand in hand with taking strange days off for trips that don't have to do with sick family, etc.
any complaints that hint at her being attracted to shitty men >men are scum >men are assholes >my ex cheated on me >my ex was abusive I'm a "survivor" because I didn't choose to date an abusive asshole stay the fuck away from women who chose to date cheating abusive assholes and now want to settle down
