Let's talk about the stigma of living at home above the traditional age of 18. I'll admit: I'm 30 and live with my mom, and I just graduated university. I know I'm a loser, but I'm trying to get out of it.
Where did this stigma come from?
Let's talk about the stigma of living at home above the traditional age of 18. I'll admit: I'm 30 and live with my mom, and I just graduated university. I know I'm a loser, but I'm trying to get out of it.
Where did this stigma come from?
White people.
This is one of the things I can actually blame white people on.
Yes, the individualism we display is very damaging.
Families in traditional cultures used to all live and work together, "moving out" is a jew trick to keep poor people from developing wealth.
So is it a legitimate thing that someone is a total failure for living with their parents above the age that's considered normal, or was that something that people with vested interests in selling real estate came up with? Or both?
My parents did this but never taught any of the other skills, so I ended up in a homeless shelter. “Tough love” is a dog whistle for shitty parenting. How are you suppose to get a drivers license when you need a car to take the test? Buy the car but you can’t drive it because you need a license? Fucking boomers.
Please take a shower
It is anti evolutionary bullshit designed to weaken genetic clans.
That stigma probably has to do something with the fact that most HS grads have to move out at 18 because they are attending a college that's too far away from their parents' home for regular commuting (in the US at least). Since it's thus the common thing to do at that age, it's frowned upon to do something diferent. That old fag is for sure going to end up in a nursing home btw.
being a failure and living with your parents should be considered separate ideas. there should not be a "normal age" to move out. aging parents can take care of house chores and watch children while younger generations work. only women should move out to join a new family.
>my parents never taught me how to do anything so I ended up homeless
>my parents never taught me how to wipe my ass so I never learned
>my parents never taught me how to cook so I starved to death
Give me a fucking break. People have it worse. Sure your parents may not have been the best, but don’t use that as an excuse for the mistakes you have made in your life.
there is no "normal" who cares what the collective masses think about literally anything. fuck crabs
why would you be a failure for living with your parents? think about it, you don't get any benefits from having your own house/apartment.
t. had my own apartment for 5 years, moved back in with my parents when covid started
Generational homes are common here where I live, used to just be the normal thing to do.
I grew up in the same home as my parents, my siblings and my grandparents. My grandparents grew up in this home. My children will grow up in this home. Why the fuck would I kick them out?
I can only think that the man in your image there, who thinks he is projecting some ideal persona of parenthood, is actually just selfish and would like to sell his house at some point like a boomer?
Also drivers license here usually costs thousands to get. Good luck doing that at 18 without parents.
Also maybe boomers could afford with their 19 bucks and hour part time jobs and cheap housing to move out of mommys house at 18 but in todays market it's damn right impossible.
fucking loser
I make a point to ridicule anyone living with their parents after the age of 18. fucking pathetic babies still need to suck on mom's tit?
kiteral shart opinion
> retarded
> fat
> homosexual
100% this.
Zero reason why you shouldnt share burdens between generations.
Its literally a jewish trick and the boomers fell for it.
I guess the societal stigma, plus I currently don't have a job because I was focusing on school. I feel like a bum.
if you had any experience of life outside the US, you'd see in most countries, it's common for adult men to live with parents until they are married. only in the kiked US and some scandinavian countries is the exception to the rule.
if this was my parent i would just ghost them forever good luck dying alone piece of shit
Charing your 19 yo kid market rent rates is boomer/jew tier. The kid staying at home to save money is smart, but the kid should be chipping in: i.e., paying a utility bill.
Unironically Jews normalized leaving at 18 to sell more houses and drive up profits in other sectors.
Lol yuropoors live at home. Pathetic
yep, just keep blaming your shortfalls as a man on
>it's zeh jews
fucking victim, too much coddling from your mom at 30 yo?
What resources have you accumulated over the last 12 years by having having benefited from subsidized living expenses?
How has your mother benefited? And quite frankly, she should NOT benefit from you living there. You should be a burden to her, such that she sacrifices herself to your gain. More specifically, to put you into a better position to attract a high quality male and raise many children in a safe, secure, loving environment.
Has this progress occurred over the last 12 years? or are you and your mother simply co-dependent loser consumers?
We must imaging Sisyphus happy....
I hope his kids toss his ass in a retirement home and forget about him
Not paying rent, tuition, or a mortgage the second you turn 18 is anti Semitic.
Can you explain why. My dog could sign a lease on an apartment. But so what. Why does throwing money away make you a big boy
>I feel like a bum.
you are wtf. I moved out when I was 18 and worked full time while I went to school full time. Get a fucking work ethic you pathetic pleb.
This kike is going to take blows to the head by niggers while slurping bugs through a plastic pipe in some hell hole of an (((elderly care facility)))
Or you do the same thing while living with your parents and save hundreds of dollars?
>high quality MATE
jesse kelly is such a blowhard
Dunno, I'm a software engineer and I still live together with parents. I don't feel like a failure considering my wages and how my grandmother says she feels proud of even though she doesn't understand what I do.
living off your parents once your of age is the most pussy thing I can think of.
your parents probably hear you pulling your dick to tranny porn from your room
fucking disgusting beta tier shit
i know an asian kid whose making six figures and his mom is letting him stay for free (he helps with some minor stuff). kid will have a leg up on all those white kids having to do everything from scratch hard.
They used to practically give away licenses to drive here, now there is so much red tape to get one. Its such bullshit. Or you can pay $800-1000 dollars to an "accredited driving school" and they'll give the government the ol' wink and nudge and make sure you pass. It's a criminal racket now desu.
or you move out like a big boy, be responsible, and save anyway. freedom > money
Mommy. Daddy. Take care of me!
>"it's my job to make sure the know how"
So when his children become opium addicts he will pay for their naloxone?
Or will his failure to care for his children be societies problem, or their own?
The most ghoulish thing about the present ZOG order is that parents seem to think there is anything more important in life than raising and supporting their children. Even animals can manage to prioritise their offspring.
I'm 30 and own my home. My Mom lives with me. It sort of sucks because I'll never get a girlfriend or anything but a the same time we'd both be struggling hard without splitting bills. It is what it is.
I'm 28 right now and buying my first house, that could not have been possible if my parents didn't support me financially for all these years
I know anglos will call me a bum because their culture is much different but I will pay my parents back by supporting financially when they are too old to keep working
>my grandmother says she feels proud
jesus fucking christ, this might be the most pathetic thing I've ever read on Any Forums
I can understand living at home past 18 if you are genuinely building a career and still living an outgoing social life where you have options to stay elsewhere if you have a romantic encounter etc. But too many people who stay past 18 make excuses and just pretend they're building a life when they're just slacking off and fucking off.
It's not helpful to kick the kids out at 18. The age doesn't matter. You should only have them move when they're ready and it financially makes sense. But most kids defending a stay at home lifestyle are leeches.
He has the illusion of independence and thinks he's a big boy. No one is truly independant this day in age. We all rely on the gubberment and others to exist.
It made a lot of sense back in the day when your parents had 12 children in a 4 bedroom house. Nowadays when you have 2-3 children in a 4 bedroom house it is a bit silly. Most other societies treat households as a family possession. You would have 3-4 generations in a single household all working to together. If there wasn't enough space the community would band together to build a new house like the amish.
Ine of my high school friends got kicked out at 18. He couldn't make enough by working to pay for college while also paying rent+utilities so he never advanced into a good career. Eventually he ended up moving back in with his parents at age 27. Boomers who still think the world works that way are fucking their kids over for life.
That's a shitty situation mate but good on you for looking after the woman who gave you life. You're a good lad, which is a lot more than can be said about most cunts out there.
it's the same shit as with lots of other things - the elite wants society as fractured as possible to make sure they are reliant on the government. if you have a good relationship to your family and know you can always count on them, then you do not need the government to save your ass, which also means it will be way harder for then to just vaporize you when you wrongthink.
Crabs in a bucket mentality
Very good question regarding the real estate jew.
I moved out at 16. Owned my first home at 22. Have not seen my parents in well over 10 years. My wife has not seen hers in over 20 years. Quit being a baby.
The idea came from uneducated working class, and the less altruistic who go out to get drunk all the time.
If you’re deadbeat uneducated and noncontributing to advancement, you don’t have a good reason to be housed rent free.
>parents millionaire
>child ends up doing nothing to self-develop
>picks fights at home
>never feel guilty
>get kicked out
>surprised
>learn what it’s like to be poor
>feel guilty and learn the value of money and kindness
>fight with faggot roommates
>understand what it’s like to have a jew parasite in someone’s home
>goebbels was right
>remove kikes
attend NSG, faggot
be a better person
The stigma comes from the Housing Market Jew trying to sell more properties. Kicking kids out at 18 as a trend is just another tactic in their arsenal of tactics to erode the family unit. Humans are clan creatures and any destruction of the family unit breaks humans. Families in Asia live with their families well after marriage because it strengthens the bond with families when they are together.
Any other explanation is completely false, fake, and gay.
You shouldn't be a failure.
YOu can live with your parents while contributing to rent, utilities, food, taxes, gas and whatever.
That makes you a fully fledged and respected contributor to the family.
>Where did this stigma come from?
Old Germanic cultural traditions. The Germans of old used to believe that the evolvement of boys into men comes by the custom of "Wanderung". For some time,, boys/men between the ages 15 and 20 would wander around alone or in groups, living by themselves without the protection of the parents' family until they return to rejoin the bigger family.
You can see the divide along an inner cultural line in Europe between Germanic and Romanic countries. Italy - so to speak - is the motherland of NEET culture since Roman times. Up until this day, the trend of Romanisation hasn't stopped, as we see more and more young people in Germanic countries living with their parents.
people in general sure as fuck hate it when you do things differently. it presents them with options, which means they now have to decide between A and B, which means they will be personally accountable for the outcome because they themselves made that decision.
they'd rather just do what everyone else does as if there is no alternative at all, so they can pretend that if things go wrong, it wasn't their fault. what were they supposed to do? they just did what everyone else did.
the purpose of parents is to help you avoid making mistakes.
I literally had all the freedom I wanted, though. But the 'learning responsibility' part is actually somewhat true. You get a better feel for organizing your life when you live alone, and will have an easier time once you get your own home and start a family.
And you think that's good.
Do you still resent them for circumcising your or what?
This happened to me, I haven't visited my parents in 14 years. I spent 9 years in a shitty room before I could get a house. My mother called me after getting a heart attack and I hung up the phone. Boomer scum.
What if you never get married? Should you live with your parents your entire life then?
That's a fucked up boomer mentality. I was blessed with boomer parents that weren't made fully retarded by lead poisoning and can crunch numbers; I make a decent salary but they still sold me their old home with a 100k discount because in their own words "the housing market is impossible for young people to get into. We're leaving a worse world than the one we got". Helped me get an incredible leg up in life, have an enormous nest egg now as well because they let me live with them and work until I got married. I love you mom and dad, you will never go to a nursing home.
Now that I noticed, yeah, most of my work colleagues and friends from university who are single still live with their parents.
With the exception being those who rented houses or apartments due to work.
Why do you think it's pathetic? I feel it's justified, but then I would need to give more context that no one would care.
Nothing wrong with living in an extended household user. Rental jews would have you believe otherwise but it's perfectly normal to live in the same household as your parents
I dont think its good or bad. I think sucking mommy's tits until you are 40 is bad. Lets me know you are most likely severely mentally ill. Grow up. Get a job. Sweat, work hard. Quit being a fucking neet.
>18
>Traditional
>I hung up on my mother
you sound like a shit son. the jews have done an excellent job on you.
Yes that's true. Most people are too narrow minded to deviate from certain social norms (but obviously they love to deviate from the norms, their ZOGtertainment tells them to not deviate from).
I am 35 and make 6 figures and I still live at home with my mom and have no debt. Having no debt and a nice emergency fund makes you feel great. I refuse to be a debt slave and give the jew man all my money. It's hilarious when other people try to shame you for doing so, ok retard have fun paying 1.5k a month to the jew man.
So it's the circumcision, ok.
I'm surprised to how things work for you guys,here men can stay with their families untill they got married as long as they work/study and stay away from drinking or taking drugs,sometimes most sons do WANT to move out but usually the family would get mad for them so they stay,you can still be an independant individual and stay with your family at the same time,this is how things used to work in the ancient world,this culture of kicking people out is a product of degenerate modernity and alienating globalization.
Nothing wrong with it. Boomers stole alot of your potential wealth. Least they can do is house and feed you as you save up for future independence
I fucked out of my parents place at 21. Bought a house at 24, now 27.
Simp
duh, plus you'll likely need to share a place opening up an entirely new set of experiences on how to share a living space with people you don't know as well as your family.