I am living with a person who is a control freak, refuses to cooperate with anyone or anything, is a hoarder who makes huge messes and never fixes them, never apologises and never admits his own role in the shitshow of an apartment we live in. I tried having a cool headed conversation with him about it but he was completely unreasonable and started fucking THREATENING me because I refused to back down to his manipulation tactics and call him out on his bullshit (I could drop him like a squash and yelled as much in his face, shoved him into a wall nearly started a fight). Every time I try to clean up or do any change to make the house better he demands an end to it and refuses to negotiate anything. He ignores when I try to start polite, cool headed rational discussions about the state of the house and instead takes personal digs at me (correcting the grammar of a sentence I said, attacking my personal life), and steams in silence refusing to respond to any discussion or issues in the hope you get frustrated and give up. When that doesn't work (because I'm not a pussy who's going to be whipped into submission) he gets really angry and starts yelling at me to leave him alone, or even tries threatening me with violence. I'm convinced at this point he has Dark Triad personality traits and am wondering how Any Forums thinks I should deal with him. Frankly I'm fucking sick of the cunt and his psychopathic and control freak behaviour, and I dread the life of the woman who dates him
Living with Dark Triad personality traits
>wondering how Any Forums thinks I should deal with him.
They have reptilian brains. Assert your dominance and beat him up. Approach like you would a woman(they also have reptilian brains)
>I am living with a person who is a control freak, refuses to cooperate with anyone or anything, is a hoarder who makes huge messes and never fixes them, never apologises and never admits his own role in the shitshow of an apartment we live in. I tried having a cool headed conversation with him about it but he was completely unreasonable and started fucking THREATENING me because I refused to back down to his manipulation tactics and call him out on his bullshit (I could drop him like a squash and yelled as much in his face, shoved him into a wall nearly started a fight). Every time I try to clean up or do any change to make the house better he demands an end to it and refuses to negotiate anything. He ignores when I try to start polite, cool headed rational discussions about the state of the house and instead takes personal digs at me (correcting the grammar of a sentence I said, attacking my personal life), and steams in silence refusing to respond to any discussion or issues in the hope you get frustrated and give up. When that doesn't work (because I'm not a pussy who's going to be whipped into submission) he gets really angry and starts yelling at me to leave him alone, or even tries threatening me with violence. I'm convinced at this point he has Dark Triad personality traits and am wondering how Any Forums thinks I should deal with him. Frankly I'm fucking sick of the cunt and his psychopathic and control freak behaviour, and I dread the life of the woman who dates him
He has no say over cleaning up shared spaces but leave his room alone.
Escalate with the home owner otherwise.
>had dark triad traits
You sound like a fucking woman mate, what is your roomie a fucking Capricorn?
Man up or continue to be bitched on. Sounds like a melbcuck problem. Are you a mud, gook or nig?
I guess you must be an unbearable little shit too huh
I have a lot of experience with these types and am a 4th year psych student, the best thing you can do is get out of that situation as soon as possible, the dark triad are the only disorders that I would call hopeless, and they are dangerous in many ways, and beyond (but including) physical safety
to elaborate, stop confrontations, start an exit strategy, you want these socio/psycho's to like you until you can escape
>I guess you must be an unbearable little shit too huh
>4th year psych student
Bruh
A bit late for that. I have a short fuse with anger issues and have already made it clear that I hate his ass and will fuck him up if he tries to threaten me again
Just don't gib him any food. Very effective strategy.
I know I am no expert, but I have some knowledge
then you are playing with fire, a dark won't confront you in a fight, they will fuck with your life without you knowing until it is too late, they will use your anger against you, if they get violent they will attack or kill you when you are defenseless (sleep, etc), you are shooting yourself in the foot with this macho I can beat yo azz shit
Poison him
Soo, maybe stop living with him? I dunno, might solve your problem of living with him.
This user is correct. He will not attack you directly unless you can get him to lose his shit. If you can get him to assault you first and can prove it you could beat him to death I guess. There is no situation where he will back down and compromise I'm sure, you either need to leave or find a way to kill him without going to prison OP.
these people will never admit wrong, will never comprmise, will make you think its your issue, and will go great lengths to seek revenge and destroy you, one ruined my life, fucked up every relationship I once had
Poisoning him is an option but you can beat the shit out of him always.
damn..you live with elon musk or something?
I used to have a roommate that would basically do the same thing. Leave half eaten shit all over the place, toilet paper and even boogers on the sink. Never cleans up after himself and always eats my food. To make it long story short I defecated into a bag and placed it under his bed. He never approached me about it and I’m almost convinced he never even bothered to check where the smells were coming from. So a week before I was set to move to another apartment I bought a thing of ticks and unleashed it all over the place. Fuck him and fuck everyone. I am not to be fucked with.
Just kill him lmao, what the fuck, retard?