Is life of hedonism better than being a dad in 2022?
Is life of hedonism better than being a dad in 2022?
No. Purpose and meaning are necessities of survival. Hedonism as an ideal will fail anyone who must endure or suffer any trial. Those who have something emotionally valuable to hold onto like family, the well-being of their offspring, or some invention to gift to mankind are more likely have happiness and succeed.
Isn't having children hedonistic for most people ? If someone thinks having kids will be more bad than good then they probably shouldn't have kids
There is nothing quite like hearing a teenage son say 'Hey Dad' twenty times a day.
Yes, they do it for retarded reasons related to their own good feelings (social acceptance, saving the marriage, …).
No.
being a father is both great and terrible. im terrified for the world my kids are growing up in.
but its pushed me to the limits of my capablities. to provide for them and set them up for the future.
if i was hedonistic i wouldnt have any of that character development, id just be a chad. or a loser fapping away
Implying a boomer father with his house full of materialistic junk, toxic BMI, three golf games per week, and 4 hours of TV a day is less hedonistic than a childless monk praying on a mountain.
If youre a hedonist before kids, youll be a hedonist after. If youre not, you wont.
yes if you're not white
You’re poor
becoming a new dad in 2022 seems like a new challenge to think of making it as a father up until 2040. it's actually a huge challenge to become a father now considering what the world is about to go through.
durtrrrrrrrrr
so are most people you retarded moron.
Yes. working yourself to an early grave for children you MIGHT see every other weekend while their mother uses your money to fuck other men is totally worth it. Real man shit.
Not at all actually. But its not relevant.
I could lose everything and still be rich. I could not have kids, have kids, or lose my kids and be rich.
Most of the fathers in the West are hedonists. Hedonist and father are not antonyms, not even close.
>being a father is both great and terrible.
This.
True
that's worst case scenario. but yeah it does suck that things are taking a turn for that.
Life of hedonism isnt worth it in the long run. You end up 40 or 50 yr old and bored, then realized you wasted a lot of time and money.
Have kids early then you can still have a life of pleasure later.
That is a common-case scenario.
Why is wrong if she fucks other men but is still loyal to you?
Can you?
Party with 50 or 60?
No, as a dad of two its ok, they say annoying zoomi stuff sometimes but that's about it
Cuck thinking.
1. If she fucks other men, she is not loyal.
2. That is what divorced men are forced to pay for.
it basically exactly describes my father.
Big house in Connecticut, two luxury cars in the garage, then a third hybrid for everyday use. then an extra house in the PGA village in Florida. little annoying emotional support dog he flys to florida with in his lap (his doc gave his a free pass to be his emotional support dog). he also has another 3 extra houses he rents out to multiple tenants, assuring constant stream of income. never taught me anything, despite having been an eagle scout. just sits on his ass watching TV and acting like things are getting rough for him. yet he can still afford to pay car and property taxes and the luxury of having extra houses. but yeah "things are getting so difficult" as his children literally have nothing.
Dude I’d just be bringing my kid golfing lol
yeah you're probably right... sadly.
I’m not poor. I’m middle class, nigger.
>middle class.
implying that means anything nowadays.
>1. If she fucks other men, she is not loyal.
Outdated thinking
I have a wonderful gf who I’m on the course of getting married / having kids with. But sometimes, I just want to be a Troon and get railed by guys.
Oh I forgot to mention the other extra car in the garage in florida.
poor guy. the money just isn't what it used to be! such a shame his dreams couldn't come true! I know how hard he worked for it while spending years burning illegal copies of third rate B movies he ordered off of netflix for no reason.
He worked for it hard and now you bitch that he doesnt want to just give it to you