Is anyone just happy on their own, without an SO or children after 30?
I'm 29, live in a sophisticated big apartment (I rent, I've bought before but I prefer renting atm for flexibility), have a high paying, rewarding, low stress job and I'm in fantastic physical condition. However, I'm alone almost all of the time - most of my social interaction is messaging friends and family or my significant instagram and linkedin following, and going on tinders dates every 1-2 months with an 8-10/10, which basically always ends in unprotected sex.
In my teens-20's I've had sex with about a hundred women, and co-habited twice. Both co-habitations ended in total misery and pain after years of combativeness and jealousy.
I regularly see people on here state that kids are the only thing that matters in life and renting is for cucs. Most people seem to have or want an SO, yet my personal experience (and the vast majority of the thousands of people I've worked with in 11 years) is that it's the fast track to absolute misery and a slim majority of them seem to get divorced, cheated on or have at best distant/disappointed relationships with their kids after their awkward teenage sexual years (which sounds like hell to me personally), and a majority of the remaining minority are deeply unhappy or just a bit blank.
Is MGTOW/being happy on your own just a cope or are there oldfags on here who've successfully managed it? Do normies just seek the normative wife & kids path because it's 'safe' (like the vaccines right)? Do you have any tips? What are the political implications of this?
if you aren't you probably don't have a soul, and no, I am not talking about the christcuck definition
William Diaz
It's basically just the male version of being a cat lady, except men doing this focus on their hobbies and tend to live quietly. I manage content most days and there is something about waking up in the early morning before dawn. That perfect silence.
Andrew James
Yes, I feel like a lot of the 'muh kids are all that matters' is that they simply cannot tolerate silence or being on their own. Yes! I have a cat, as it happens, who I absolutely adore and I've had for 7 years. By far my longest relationship. I completely know what you mean - I wake at 5/6 naturally, go get a carafe of iced coffee from the fridge and drink it in bed watching the sun rise. It's the most delicious, peaceful way to wake up... I never got to do that when I lived with a girl.
Daniel Roberts
The older you get, the more you're going to realize you're biologically hardwired to desire a family in the long term. You can fight that impulse, but it will lead to a hollow quality in your life, because ultimately you'll be left with material success and little else. Everything will eventually become monotonous and you'll wish for a way out. Having a wife and kids puts things into a better perspective for you if you do it for the right reasons, and it has a similar effect on you to drugs. All that being said I'd say three things to keep in mind >its better to be crying on the dash of your BMW than the handlebars of your bicycle >The reason every married man tells you to never get married is because only 1/50 women at best is worth you actually marrying, and all those men chose wrong. >your social value as a male peaks at ~50
Chase Morgan
40 something, divorced, yeah it works, the isolation can suck ass but it's less painful than a wife with a wandering eye or caring to be a cuck for [megacorp] just to get the "better half" what she wants(which she'll never be satisfied with). It's less complicated, fewer forces preying on maintaining happiness, like for that of family and wife, which seems pretty intentional these days.
Call it what you want, cope, a Jew ploy, doesn't matter, reality is what it is, if the climate for relationships is tenuous, expect such things. It has gotten worse and the behavior sink will continue until a dramatic shift occurs.
Angel Nguyen
not retard, you failed at life.
stop coping. MGTOW is feminism for man except it is a meme.
Search wife, have children, make your family and you will be true happy.
Otherwise you are just coping and coping.
Isaac Rogers
Your wife just left you because you did not provided children to her.
Liam Ortiz
I made peace with dying alone and unloved back in high school. It's better to accept it early if it's clearly not in the cards.
Aiden Morales
Checked. Yeah I've noticed I care less about unprotected sex with high quality girls which I never thought would happen. I've got a 'if it happens it happens' mindset about pregnancy that would've shocked me 10 years
>its better to be crying on the dash of your BMW than the handlebars of your bicycle >The reason every married man tells you to never get married is because only 1/50 women at best is worth you actually marrying, and all those men chose wrong. >your social value as a male peaks at ~50
Thank you, saved. I suspected the middle one - I truly do believe it's
Jayden Mitchell
MGTOW doesn't influence laws or infiltrate educational systems, it's not even close to being compared to feminism, you are free to be as flexible with it as you like, the most extreme example of MGTOW is a dude making youtube videos simply talking about how shit women can get lol.
go back to beating your child wives grug.
Ryder Price
I totally get what you mean about the wandering eye, you can give some women the world and in their hearts they never really settle.
Colton Thomas
I did get her a child- she miscarried the rest, the divorce was her cope, women initiate 80% of divorces retard.
James Cook
I'm pretty much living like a monk these days and life is good. Can't say I "made it" in material sense, but I'm much more stress free and able to focus on things that I find important, now that the whole relationship part has been pushed out of the equation.
kek, having a wife and kids is a meme all the same.
Pretty sure the 1/50 statistic comes from the late 90s/early 00s PUA scene, which means your odds are probably significantly worse today. All I know for sure is that despite there being no rubric for finding a truly marriageable woman, when you meet one, you know. Find the right one(the one where your chemistry really lines up) and your body will feel like it's tensing up and relaxing all at the same time, and she has the same reaction to you. Find a woman you have that kind of chemistry with and you'll never need to buy drugs again, nor will you even question marrying her.
Tyler Wood
To your monk comment "Marrying" God is always an option, and always has been.
Aaron Phillips
The pressure you feel is from 1000 generations of your family tree yearning to pass on their genes before you die in WW3. Start a family user, you wont regret what we all cherish. And if you do, just be a deadbeat Dad, better a honest deadbeat then a fucking no one. Plus its free entertainment, and if she goes wrong in your 50's you can have ones kidney! You can't really lose, and you will hate your wife anyway, so just accept that and find a hotty that wont upset you if she cracks the shits. An if she is jealous that's a good trait, means she don't want to lose you, cunts think jealously is a bad trait but that's Jewish brainwashing.
Nathaniel Wright
you are basically doing too well to be on pol. Something is wrong with you
Lucas Cooper
I've been shitposting here since 2007 you fucking retard. Some of us have a good life and are good people and come here for the freedom of speech, not because we're too scared to say nigger in real life or because nobody listens to us anywhere else.
Thank you. Is this from personal experience? I will pay close attention for that feeling.
The marrying God thing is interesting... I was taught in catholic school that to be holy meant 'to belong to God', so being a holy man in a sense, is a similar thing...
I am the same with the monk life (except for when I get a really juicy tinder match). Acceptance made the background noise of the world just drop away.
Logan Howard
If women lose their rights Im gonna marry one straight away and impregnate her.
Luke Anderson
You cant run the numbers, every girl like every man is capable of having a wandering eye, a look is free, but a taste will cost you, because if you truly are there sole mate and the clown they are with is a loser why would they settle for having kids with a loser? Everyone wants to be with the main character bro, just be the main character. You sound like a main character, don't find them, find your own, she is out there.
Jaxson Reed
Yes. I got a lot more done after my wife and kids went under the patio and driveway. It's odd so few people noticed or even asked about them.
>irrelevant time wasting question >btw I'm basically patrick bateman and I fuck models all the time >thoughts?
Luke Bailey
This is my opinion, i'm 28 now and have only had 1 real long lasting relationship from 22-26. The rest of my relationships have been short flings or situations where i've been in love but nothing ever came of it. Besides a crack addict that sucked my dick when we were doing drugs together, all i''ve done is fuck hookers when I feel that urge since I broke up with my ex. So i haven't had a real partner since 2019.
but i've been okay with it. I've gotten sober and improved my life. I flirt and talk with woman all the time because I think its entertaining even if i wouldn't fuck them. My ex and me were drug addicts together and she was pretty crazy and manipulative so i've been pretty okay with being single for awhile now. I remember thinking at one point - do i really want to waste the rest of my 20s with this girl?
truthfully though I don't feel as defective anymore so i'm not afriad i'll be single forever. I notice since i've been off drugs I can deal with the way woman are a lot easier, I'm more funny and witty, and I don't obsess or fantasize as much anymore. Don't know if thats a result of just being disappointed over time but a girl can call me daddy, hint that we should be together, or say yes when I jokingly tell her she should be my sex slave for a day and I don't really take it seriously/it doesn't mean much to me anymore like it would if I was younger. I don't get all happy and grow expectations. which i think is a good mindset to have.
my father got married at 28 and i compare myself a lot to him sometimes especially on my birthday this year but i realized i've exceeded him in some aspects and i'm sure i'll be alright as long as i continue to do good.
Adrian Hernandez
>I will pay close attention for that feeling. not to be a wet blanket, but that feeling lasts 2 years tops and by then she is guaranteed half your shit
Asher Green
A lot worse happens to women and children in the UK.
