If you say to a guy, "what do you want to do today" they will give you a straight answer.
If you say to a girl "what do you want to do today", they know full fucking well what they want to do, but the conversation goes: >"I don't know... what do you want to do?" >"Go watch a film?" >"Hm.... there's not much on at the momen...t" >"Go to a restaurant?" >"Hm... I'm not really that hungry..." >"Go for a walk?" >"Hm....It might rain later" >"I might go hang out with my friends then" >"Oh... don't you want to do something together?" >"Uh... we could go... bowling?" >"No..." >"So what do you want to do?" >"I'd quite like to go shopping-" >"-Okay, let's go shopping-" >"-but why do I always have to be the one to come up with something to do?" >"You said no to everything I suggested" >"Yeah but like... don't you want to do anyting with me?" >"Yes but..." >"Wouldn't you rather see your friends?" >"Uh..." >"Okay, we'll go shopping, I guess..."
give them the choice of 3 activities if they can't decide you choose, then you go do said activity, its that easy mate .
Samuel Evans
Kick her in the cunt and go fishing. Problem solved
Gavin Jackson
You both nailed it.
Gavin Clark
Your problem is asking them and responding to said vague request. Nothing turns a woman off more than an undecided man hanging on a thread to change his mind at her request. It's called a shit test
>I'm going for a walk, you coming? >I'm going fishing, want to join? >new restaurant I want to try, I'm leaving at 6 pm >I m going to visit X, I'm leaving in half an hour
Stop giving them options. They don't want that. It's so much more simple than you make it out to be. Treat a female like you are babysitting some mentally handicapped idiot and they fall right in line
Ryan Mitchell
God I wish I was fucking gay sometimes
Liam Reyes
Bullshit. Don't give women a choice if you can at all avoid it. >"We're going to get Mexican food for dinner. Leave at 6, be ready" OP is a total faggot but he at least understands the probelm.
Zachary Nguyen
>Nothing turns a woman off more than an undecided man hanging on a thread to change his mind at her request. It's called a shit test
Instead of offering just one thing, offer her a choice between 2 or 3 things. Usually they’ll pick one right away and feel good about it
Jason Stewart
Why is Any Forums the board with the most kissless virgin incels?
Julian Myers
Gee user. Chill.
Nicholas Perez
You have to train them. Been married 23 years. Early in the relationship my wife pulled the “I don’t know, user” crap. So when she did I’d immediately choose and picked something I knew she didn’t like. >what should we do today? >I don’t know user >ok, we’re going to the shooting range After enough of this, two things have happened: 1) she just straight out says what she wants, if she’s in the mood for something 2) when she says “I don’t know/care” she truly doesn’t and knows I’ll pick something she will likely enjoy. As an aside, she’s a better shot with a pistol than I am now.
Asher Collins
Protip: don't ask. Just do what you want and they can tag along. Say "if there's anything you'd like to do/eat/etc, let me know." They won't suggest anything so it's fine.