Has anybody actually been married for 3+ years and still deeply care about/love their wife? At this point I’m just staying with her because I want a family and she’s the best option. I hate women in general and just can’t stand how my wife is lazy and doesn’t want to be servile like how women used to be and wants to work, yet still wants to be babied and treated like a princess. Feminism has instilled some deep double standards into women. And mind you my wife was a virgin and apolitical when I met her, so I believe she is way better than most women when it comes to this.
Is it natural to hate your wife?
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>apolitical
so you married a know-nothing with no values sense of creed or loyalty
Why did you marry her?
The problem is that you're treating her like an equal human being instead of the lesser minded walking incubator subhuman that she is.
Well I taught her politics myself and she hates niggers and Jews now. She’s even called out a bunch of (((coincidences))) to me on her own, and stayed redpilled about COVID the whole time. But the feminism thing is something I can’t shake.
do you have a job
No. You're probably an uninteresting, shitty man. I am 5+ years and we have a baby, and she is far more right wing than I am and we love each other more all the time desu.
yes I still care/love and I have a great marriage, but i think I'm not the majority
most of my friends complain heavily and some truly hate their wifes, calling them "child raising partner entrepreneurs"
I think that's fucked up and I'm happy with my wife
>wants to work, yet still wants to be babied and treated like a princess.
this is essentially why my engagement failed, I got so confused with the mixed signals. She was obsessed with promotions, earning a lot and having a good career, but also wanted to be treated like a kid in the sense of surprise presents, constant smothering affection and affirmation etc. But then when I did that, she got turned off because I wasn't acting like a man. But when I acted like a man, she said I didn't love her.
I hate women so much and have had no desire to date since we broke up
Yes, I work as an engineer and make about $100k in the Midwest. I tried convincing her to be a housewife but she only did like 1-2 hours of housework a day, spent the rest of the time watching tv and YouTube and complaining that she still wants to work
It’s all so tiresome
Depends user. Does she work? Do you work?
Fuck your wife , apparently foreskin has nerves that connect to oxytonic centres of brain and during sex helps males pair bond with , oh wait —
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>Has anybody actually been married for 3+ years and still deeply care about/love their wife?
I’ve been married for 22 years and am deeply in love. There is a book called the five love languages by some faggot named chapman. It’s kind of faggy but the info in it it’s good for improving your relationship. Id recommend you read it first then read it together. Good luck user
Not a dad yet and considering leaving her because I think she’ll be a shitty mom
Motherhood changes women, not all of them but it forces them to grow up and think about the child they are caring for more than themselves, before children they are lazy and if she has a job then she will do the bare minimum, most women are like this when they work, women cannot multitask like men until they have children. After she has kids, it will shock her, it's tough, hang in there though once the kids are about 4 and she's not as tired things get better. I've been married to mine since we were 23 and 21, we have an 18 year old, 14 and 10, things are better now than when we were young
Grow a pair you fucking idiot. You can't treat women as equals, I love my wife but she is not my equal. You need to control her to an extent, not being abusive or anything of course, that's retarded. You also need to shape her political views and wean her off of retarded celebrity worship shows. Women love strong men. Get a baby into her as well.
>he thinks his wife actually has a sense of creed or loyalty
AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Bruh if she wants to work just split the costs of paying for food delivery/cleaning services/nanny+daycare. I mean I know it sucks but its not 1847 anymore, the world isn't going back to the whole, wife stays home and raises the kids while you die of coal lung in the mines. Unless you're doing programming and can make like 150k+, then you can probably support her, in which case, shit man, in your place I would switch to remote work and be the stay at home father. I don't think thats beta at all, you get to raise your kid to your own standards, no pathetic woman shit. If you had a boy, and raised him yourself while working from home, imagine what a fucking chad that kid would grow up to be.
I'm in a similar position with the career-working virgin gf, its okay, man, we're way better off than 99% of these other suckers who marry some tatted whore. Make the world your bitch, don't be so idealistic - there is no mold that you have to live by. Though, if you are having these doubts 3 years in, chances are the marriage is bound to break.
Man isn't made for long relationships. Sooner or later, anyone will be irritating to you.
>Feminism has instilled some deep double standards into women
No.
Yes. It's a rough lesson if you can't learn it from someone else.
Let me guess, you married the average western roastie sow and now you're wondering why the relationship isn't working when you could've married a higher iq Asian qt that would do whatever you want as long as you're white
Good morning sir
I work my ass of so she can stay and take care of the kids and the house.
>career-working
>virgin
How old is she?
Mines I just joke about feminism stuff with and she actually likes the bantz. Long as you playful and not all serious they come around to some things. My situation different tho she makes a lot more money then I do in the medical world but it's cool cause I'm more domestic oriented anyways.
You need to change the social.dynamics and keep her on her toes at all times
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Married for 18 years never been as good at it is now she is based now. Mother inlaw came around other day massive feminazi lefty lovie type was talking about Ukraine wife blurted out ' It's the jews fault' i keked my ass off