I'm 24 years old male and everything i think whole day every day is finding a attractive girlfriend. I tried everything. I started going to gym and crossfit, started dressing nice with marked stuff, expensive side-part-fade haircut every 7 days, going to public library where i study with other students, i started conversation with almost every girl that comes there and still i'm unable to find girlfriend. Like what the fuck. I'm 190cm tall and 106kg can deadlift 200kg and bench 130kg, have chad face and jawline, light hair and girls who are 7/10 are rejecting me when i propose to drink coffee with me somewhere. Its unbelievable. I'm not virgin i had nice amount of relantionships when i was in highschool but i swear. Since 2017 when tinder and instagram became super popular in Serbia its almost impossible to find a gf in real life occasions. I realized that in 2022 you can find girlfriend in Serbia on 4 places ONLY. 1.) Club or private party 2.) Kafana 3.) Tinder 4.) Instagram.
Its like girls are programed to seek partner only on those places, and i realized why i cant find girlfriend. Its because i'm not going out in clubs anymore because i lost all my friends in the last 3 years. Reason for that is i was struggling to quit smoking and porn jew and i started isolating myself because of cravings and my friends had 0 understanding, they didn't care and got angry because i'm not hanging out with them and i told them to fuck off. And currently i know many people but have 0 friends and nobody is asking me out...
I want to try Tinder and make instagram account but i understand that i must be 9/10 shirtless chad on photos and currently i'm around 25% body fat maybe less, and i changed my diet and hope that i will get around 18% untill summer. And until then, i really need to stop seeking and desiering gf. I want to be on semen retention for the next 4-6 months but i simply cant stop thinking about girls.
Becoming an efficient COOMER. Learn to create near illusions in your mind. Cooming is the only way out
Jordan Collins
Stop masturbating and watching porn. You're a coomer, I can tell just by how much you want a gf.
Nicholas Torres
There's no way user forget it, buy a house in the countryside and life a hermetic lifestyle
Juan Nguyen
If you actually are 190cm with chad face and jawline you'd have no troubles. Sounds like you're lying about at least one of those things.. Or you're a true mentalcel. Women are trash though, just focus on becoming a better person.
Lucas Rodriguez
Literally the opposite.
Adrian Baker
Go to church, do you have Mennonites or something of that nature in your country? Nice girls who have never seen the internet.
Ayden Thompson
>I started going to gym and crossfit Getting Any Forums to get girls is a total meme, dressing nice is a very good step, but it's really just about not being a slob, you don't have to buy expensive shit.
1. Work on your posture, find physical therapy exercises on YouTube so that you'll naturally have good posture without thinking about it. Makes 100x more difference then being fit.
2. This doesn't apply to just getting gfs, but everything in life. Pretend people can read your mind. Women can smell desperation a mile away and it's a huge turn off for them. I don't really know how to explain learning this as I learned it doing door to door sales.
you are overthinking this shit way too much dude. quit trying to attract women and focus on yourself
Logan Perry
It lies in our genes to have the urge to find a partner at that age. The only thing I can tell you is that it will be less urfwnt in the 30ies from what I have heard. I am also 24 btw and have the same struggl3
Justin Gomez
Dont use tinder/dating apps unless ur in the top 20% of guys in looks, you can but your self esteem will be crushed. Find volunteer events where lots of girls show up (animal shelters ex. Lots of lonely women seek animals for attention) and talk to them while volunteering as it's easier to talk to people when you are helping each other out and as a bonus it's free. Even if you're awkward as fuck they will at least appreciate your help.
>“It’s really important to understand we’re not seeing reality,” says neuroscientist Patrick Cavanagh, a research professor at Dartmouth College and a senior fellow at Glendon College in Canada. “We’re seeing a story that’s being created for us.”
>Most of the time, the story our brains generate matches the real, physical world — but not always. Our brains also unconsciously bend our perception of reality to meet our desires or expectations. And they fill in gaps using our past experiences.
Carter Bailey
I'm telling the truth. I don't know if its problem with me but asking girl out in middle of day in library or gym is almost 99% reject, idk why.
Nobody is going to church every week here. Only when its slava.
Getting fit its not a meme. Looks is what matter the most if you aiming for 8s o 9s.
You are right mate.
Camden Roberts
Turning 30 did it for me.
Christopher Cook
>25% body fat >chad jawline
Camden Edwards
Motherfucker I masterbait and watch porn daily. I'm the type that does that before, after, instead of fucking a girl I'm dating. Learn to make yourself cum good and you'll hate women for sucking ass at doing it for you
Chase Hill
If you have a gf don't look for one. Become a bride of Christ. If you still want a gf, just be a man. Be masculine. They'll come to you. No muscles needed.
Easton Nelson
>finding a attractive girlfriend You probably aren't worth one. Beggars can't be choosers.
Samuel Flores
If you have a delusional view of women change that. Realize that all of them are pragmatic and only love your utility to them. They use your feelings against you. If you already see them as useless animals attached to the hole that is your goal then get hookers which is a cheaper alternative or just jerk off.
Christopher Peterson
Look how many 8s and 9s you see with just average dudes Any Forums wise. Facial features and shit matters, but you can't really do much about it. Women aren't turned on by visual stimulation as much as men are, hence the old joke that trashy romance novels are just porn for women. Posture makes a big difference I'm telling you though. Idk the specifics of how it works, but I promise you'll see way better results from it than getting Any Forums It's also important to remember than getting Any Forums doesn't mean you'll have good posture. A lot of times it actually makes posture worse as your performing exercises with poor posture and reinforcing it.
Jayden Perry
>Overcome the desire to have a girlfriend
Have a girlfriend. Once you do, you will quickly realize it sucks.
David Brown
Very true. I hate and love my psychotic bitch so much its surreal.
Bentley Davis
fucking cringe beta kissless virgin, don't ever think of polluting the gene pool ever again
Blake Ward
Lol become a bride haha this nigga just said that hahaha
Cooper Wood
lmao nice catch OP needs to lay off the cookies
Samuel Ramirez
Your probably acting like an autist. As long as you aren't a 4/10 ugly manlet you should be able to get at least 1 out of every 10 girls to give you their number.
Quit acting like a creepy autist and just talk to girls like normal people and you will have better success.
Robert Watson
>1.) Club or private party 2.) Kafana 3.) Tinder 4.) Instagram 5.) Rape
Jaxson Robinson
Haha do some meth with her I'll give her the knife Fucking loser
Isaac Hernandez
6.) Sex slave
Joshua Gray
give up
Ryan Williams
After this post I wouldn't go to a date with you
Brandon Lee
>I'm 190cm tall and 106kg can deadlift 200kg and bench 130kg, have chad face and jawline, light hair and girls who are 7/10 are rejecting me when i propose to drink coffee with me somewhere you're still trying to do things the old fashioned way the women you want no longer exist
Oliver Gray
I feel like i'm missing out for not investing my 20s when my sex-drive is in peak in fucking attractive girls... i just need one real friend to hang-out with in clubs and kafanas... nothing else.. i'm not afraid to start conversation with girls anymore
No good hookers in my city... only milfs 40+
Those averaged dudes are even having lots of money or they are really good at flirting
Josiah Mitchell
I'm a 26 year old white manlet in Scandinavia and even I have a gf. Just have fun, dont overthink, but take charge.
