Sorry for blogpost but need advice
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Raised by single mom, and her sisters, didnt have brothers or many male friends (most of them were onions themselves). I am afraid of loud noises, and of fighting people. I'm also overly emotional and melodramatic. How can I become masculine in mannerisms and mindset
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Stop caring about that shit. Boom done
>How can I become masculine in mannerisms and mindset
Join an MMA gym and start boxing/wrestling. Everything else falls into place because those are places you'll find confidence.
>I'm also overly emotional and melodramatic
you will never be a man
move to the tropics, grow your own food all year round, tell any "government" that wants to boss you around to go fuck themselves
Defining masculinity is a self limiting trap.
I was like you. The thing that saved me was enlisting in the navy and then being in a dangerous completely male environment for 6 years. The beginning was scary and hard but it was worth it. I went from quiet introvert to the strongest guy in the group in the civilian post-military life.
Also, it seems like meme bullshit information when you're young because you see supplements and pills and enhancement thigns enchancement htat everywhere for working out and being healthier but the blunt truth is your body produces more Test the more active you are, the more you life weights, etc.. it responds to what it thinks are circumstances going on in your life. If you don't provoke it you will run on less hormone production for your entire life. Higher test from just exercising and lifting weights will have you as a completely different person almost 5 years later. Invest.
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Everyone here is going to make fun of you here, and they'd be right to, because you're a sissy faggot, but I'll throw in some advice to you:
>Be principled
>Do the hard thing, don't wait for someone else to first
>Be disciplined
>Be a leader for those weaker than you
>Fight for those that you love
Since you probably don't know where to begin with any of that, start lifting weights as a very first step. It'll boost your test, give you structure to your day, and improve your discipline. Being physically strong is foundational in many skills and a good pre-requisite to everything else in life.
Based. But what kind of changes
>I am afraid of loud noises,
There is no hope for you
You ignored the one piece of advice in this thread that's actually going to help you.
You deserve to rot in a prison of your own feminine mind, weakling. Being a man isn't easy, toughen the fuck up or lay down and die.
Why do you need to appear masculine? You just need to know that you can pull out your burger gun when some nigger tries to rape you. Human nature is using weapons to defeat larger animals, having big muscles is just social pretend stuff.
Masculinity is about responsibility, self-reliance, and duty. Start doing things for yourself. I don't mean writing your own desktop environment. I mean grow some fucking food. Repair your fucking plumbing. Dig a fucking sewage line. Do hard things until they become passe. If you're still too much of a fag to figure that out then just go ahead and join the military. They'll beat the pussy out of you. Or at least they would've back when I was in... maybe they're too pozzed now.
Start lifting and hope your testosterone production will kick back in. If you are afraid of loud noises you have been incredibly feminized.
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You we be manlier than 99.999 of every man out there
No I didn't ignore it just didn't have any questions. How should I start MMA
Find a local MMA or boxing gym and go check it out
I am sure you can find a nearby group to join - they welcome newcomers and teach your stuff. They'll 100% take it at your own pace if you want to. It's your job to commit to it though.
I am in between a man and a woman in my personality. I don't get along with women, they're incredibly cringe and dramatic. They dwell and get offended very easily. But I realized I do too relative to men. And I have low confidence. I sometimes have fought people and am not as agreeable as a woman, but still more than a typical guy. Im a biological male but heavily influenced by womenness
All things are possible with God (Matthew 19:26 KJV).
Get saved and know him and ask him for guidance.
>Revelation 20:11 & 15 KJV
11 And I saw a great white throne, and him that sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away; and there was found no place for them.
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15 And whosoever was not found written in the book of life was cast into the lake of fire.
Now if you have fear of this, of God… That’s the way it’s supossed to be, do not be deceived.
Proverbs 9:10 KJV
10 The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom: and the knowledge of the holy is understanding.
>How do i get saved?
Repent and believe the gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ, that He died for your sins, was buried, and ressurected from the dead the third day.
Repentance is simply a change of heart about yourself. It is written in 2 Corinthians 7:10 that ”godly sorrow” worketh repentance. It is to have sorrow towards God over what you ARE. The fact that YOU have sinned against God by breaking HIS law makes you a sinner against Him. You were born corrupt, you are NO good according to scripture. Without Jesus Christ you are worthy and on your way to hell RIGHT NOW.
Repentance can be summed up into simply, coming to God as a sorry sinner...
Call upon and Recieve Jesus Christ as your PERSONAL Lord & Saviour and trust what he did on the cross for YOU, and He ressurected the third day. Believe on that with your heart, it is all that can justify a sinner in this time.
THE PASSWORD:
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>Romans 10:9-10 KJV
9 That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.
>10 For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.
>1 Timothy 1:15 KJV
15 This is a faithful saying, and worthy of all acceptation, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners; of whom I am chief.