Should I interview for a new job as a man or as a woman? Serious question, I need a new job ASAP but can’t decide whether it’s weirder to go in as a squishy young weird skin looking man with long hair or as an obvious turbohon with deep man voice. I live in a very liberal area and will mostly be applying to coffee shops and such.
t. 5yr HRT full time manmoder
send pic and we shall decide....
Man obviously. Then come out a few weeks after working there.
I thought about this except without the coming out part. Might just wait until FFS in a few years.
Pics? Also age?
i'd say as a woman if you live in a liberal area, but yeah, send pic
>t. 5yr HRT full time manmoder
pic is the only way to decipher this mess
>t. 5yr HRT full time manmoder
however you're going to present at work so man I guess but also you should stop being a manmoder because it's stupid
honmoding is hard even if people are accepting i really really suck at hair and makeup and coordinating outfits
you have to start one day or you'll never finish transitioning and will always be stuck in the middle
don't let perfect be the enemy of good.
yeah i know id love to desu but its just hard when you know youre gonna look like a freak
If your voice can't pass, then DO NOT honmode. Besides, they'll be more likely to hire you as a man. You can always come out later. Best of luck
we NEED pics user
an interview probably isn't the best place to start and discrimination is real but retail tends not to care these days and if they do you don't need the headache of yet another reason never to girlmode
we all go through that freakish phase and boymoding until you mailfail is mostly a myth unless you're one of these boymoders who wears women's clothes and has long hair and carries a purse
have you done laser at least? is your voice okay?
If you're still male identified, if you think like a masculine man then go as a man if you're female identified and think more like a woman, go as a woman
How would they do that if they're a man they should do it as a man and stay a man
I interviewed at a cancer hospital and the interview turned sour immediately once I told them I have cancer.
Never tell employers anything they dont need to know including your gender.
yeah full laser no voice 0 training its hopeless
yeah im terminally malebrained its part of why i dont bother
makes sense wait what
>boymoding until you mailfail is mostly a myth
Huh wtf I boymode and dont pass at all but get called a girl half the time. I have long hair but wear guys clothes (t shirt and like sports pants with the stripe on the side). I am 200% male in the face though so I think you are just crazy. Maybe you people just dont voice train or something?
I'll never fully understand it. How can you be so malebrained and want to be a female?
i dunno i just really like a lot of "girl" stuff and hate looking like a guy to the point of wanting to claw my body apart its been that way since i was an infant
HRT just kinda helps with both of those
if you were boymoding you wouldn't have long hair and talk like a girl lol. or maybe that's manmoding I can't keep up the point is that if you don't do anything you can't expect people to think you're a girl.
it's called dysphoria you fucking retard. that's the whole point of taking hormones in the first place. if you don't have dysphoria then go live as a fem gay male and stop shitting up the board, faggot
Just girlmode while continuing to use the male name and pronouns.
Stop shitting? Why are you talking about shitting?
I'm not gay I don't have dysphoria either I just like dressing like a woman so that I can get treated like a nice helpless little girl. I love being take it out for dinner. I like having a guy pick me up at my house take me out in his nice car pay for the whole outing it's really nice and I don't have to be dysphoric to get it because why would I have to be that? I don't understand why I would have to be that? I just like being a girl and I like guys doing things for me.