As a top, how am I supposed to behave upon first meeting with a bottom I met on Grindr? Like basically...

As a top, how am I supposed to behave upon first meeting with a bottom I met on Grindr? Like basically, what is expected from me from the bottoms eyes? I always take edibles before meeting and it leads to limp dickism, then we just end up cuddling and kissing and holding each other. Basically, how am I supposed to feel during the actual sex act? Should I just be using the other person for my pleasure? Do they want me to do that?

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You don't sound like a top to be honest. Maybe you're verse, or bottom. A top takes charge in the bedroom and puts his bottom in place.

>I always take edibles before meeting and it leads to limp dickism
Edibles get me horny as fuck, sounds like you should see a penis doctor

No, I don't want to be fucked or anything. But since I started meeting with people, all of their dicks have been bigger than mine. I think that's actually the main reason. All of the porn I watch it's usually the dude with the bigger schlock doing the fucking. Should I just penisbulk?

no idea what penisbulk means. idk you must be good looking if people want to bottom for you, but i really can't figure out the limp pp thing. like that other user said, taking thc shouldn't make you soft. Try hooking up without edibles once, and see if that solves your problem.

I think you know what to do already though

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I worship Hunter Schafer. I would do horrible things for the slightest chance of licking her asshole.

Penisbulk means doing the angion method with a hydro pump, taking blood flow supplements(like L-Arginine) and eating a calorie surplus to build the veins and arteries in your dick.

I don't desire to be a tranny, I desire to make trannies feel the way the trannies I watch in porn feel. I am just willing to work for my dick size though. I am 5.5 inches

My bf is a total bottom and about 3 inches bigger than me.
Big dicked bottoms need loving too, user.

NTA but there’s a guy I know who’s in denial about being a bottom (he’s admitted to me while drunk that he thinks a lot about me fucking him but sober he says he exclusively tops)
He’s got an 8 inch dick and something about a big dick not being used is so hot to me lol

I end up wanting to have their cock on my body. I want to use their cock on them haha. I really need to penisbulk.

>Penisbulk
Stop saying that, you sound cringe as fuck and it doesn't work.

>I desire to make trannies feel the way the trannies I watch in porn feel.
Dissociated, dead inside, humiliated, and generally suicidal?

the biggest turn-off for me is when tops talk a big game and then show up and are shy

like, I'm here, I've cleaned myself, we both know what's going to happen. why are you going to play shy and make me make the first move? I hate timid tops so much

Do the timid tops have smaller dicks than yours? I'll start off confident in person, and then once the other person's pants come off and I see how much bigger their dick is, something cracks and I feel out of place.

This, there's nothing more awkward than when the top is clearly in over his head.
Literally just invite them in, ask if they need a drink, show them where the bathroom is and take them upstairs.

what the hell lol
it literally doesn't matter at all
are you fishing for sph or something here?

Not OP but holy shit it’s so over lmao
Expecting tops to have absolutely zero insecurities is such a fucking blackpill

OP here. I am in a tough spot. I used to be 190lb and am now 162lb. I am pretty close to having veins and seeing my abs and stuff. But on the other hand, my dick is only 5.5 inches. I know that the size can be increased, but in order for that to happen I need to eat more calories. So I am having g a tough time between focusing on the cut, or just going straight into building my penis up. Should I just monkmode and try to vasiobuild for the next few months? I think I could reach 6 inches with a solid routine. I really hate when the other person's dick is bigger, I don't know why though.

Yeah what the hell, I'm the guy with the big dick bottom bf.
If you're going to fuck someone, unless they are literally only here cos you have a big cock, they don't care about the size of your dick and want to feel intimate.
If someone comes over to see you, and your dick isn't the reason the exclusively came over, don't worry about your size.

I used to be a little insecure around my bf too, he's literally 3 inches bigger than me and way thicker, and I was worried he was kinda disappointed that I wasn't at least as big as him. In his own words "I don't care how big your dick is, I just want it inside me".

>Think I could reach 6 inches with
No. If this stuff worked, everyone would have a 12 inch monster cock.

I don't expect tops to have no insecurities, I expect them to not act like scared children and to not get hung about shit like dick size that literally does not matter

OP here, I've had those kinds of things said to me as well, but I just can't get over it. It's like a mental block or something. Dunno what's wrong with me. Why did God give bottoms big dicks

you should consider seeing a therapist
I don't mean this as an insult, I mean this is something stopping you from having a rewarding sex life that can be worked through
everyone deserves to have good sex

I know it sounds unbelievable, believe me I do. But I am living proof that it does work. I was 18 with a 4 inch dick and it was either do these experimental methods and see what happens, or shoot myself. I am 22 now with a 5.5 inch dick, having it be slightly bigger definitely took the edge off of me, and I started getting lazy with the exercises. I know that there is more I can get out of them.

you're expected to have control over your insecurities at least enough to do what you said you would do. or don't do a grindr hookup with a fucking stranger if you can't handle it. why would anyone enjoy it if you talk like a dom and then can't follow through?

You just need to get over it. Either through exposure with people and sexual partners or via therapy.
Like the user above me said, you shouldn't have this problem about sex. It's actively ruining your sex life, you're that humiliated about it.
And again, penis growth does NOT work. Stop trying to "penismax" or whatever you sound 15