>transbian tops are either polywhores or insane monogomous abusers or both
>just gonna have to settle down with an older man instead now
sigh. wish it didnt have to be this way but thats life i guess. at least i can solace in the fact that cis bi girls do the same thing after experimenting rip
Transbian tops are either polywhores or insane monogomous abusers or both
:( shits weird as a transbian
could be worse. you could be a old bald faggot who isnt hot enough to attract an average gay man for more than a single night. i hate hookup culture so much. at least you get bites at the apple to reject
your insecurity is showing. go find an older new age lady who will bring you into the light. settling for some wrinkly dick is no formula for fulfillment.
I'm a transbian top and I'm neither, I'm just a trauma ridden mess that refuses to open up or find healthy coping mechanisms. I will implode in despair and anger, not explode.
fr fr
user i got super depressed and my teeth rotted so now the dentists gotta fix me so itll probably be at least 6 months to a year before i can date a guy and also i have a rectal bleeding issue which is probably cancer so realistically im just as fucked as you desu you sound like a kinda sad guy tho idk u seem nice maybe we could be friends or not haha probably not
idk wtf that means? i dont really understand the new age movement in general seems too complicated id rather just stick to worshipping random trees and plants
if you implode around others that might as well make you abusive user since itll still cause emotional damage. the sad truth of the transbian community is that were just as bad as cislesbians regarding the whole domestic disaster scenarios
There's nothing abusive or damaging about dropping out of life for a day to selfharm and then coming back without anyone knowing it happened.
>i have a rectal bleeding issue which is probably cancer
those are called hemorrhoids
>or insane monogomous abusers
abusive how tho?
as long as they arent threatening me, and they actually love me, i'll take it
>insane monogamous abusers
there’s nothing wrong with this it’s just how they show affection
thats kinda damaging to your partner still because your leaving them for a day, worrying them, and doing damage to yourself that could potentially keep from them forever or otherwise damage the relationship if ur not careful
ok u might sure but they dont exist in the first place thats the problem lol
no its a tumor, hence the pain when shitting. esp since im only 23 theres no way it could be anything other than cancer at my age
if you show affection by hitting your partner, screaming at them, calling them names, telling to cut, doing weird shit like turning the ac on high and then stealing their blanket, you are an objectively abusive pos and should seek professional help realistically though you wont do that because you know for a fact that you can continue to get away with it because this society is a hell world
just find a nice cis woman
I have a few experiences. Let me share.
The most recent one wasn't even transitioning. They kept on putting it off and sinking into their own fantasy world while calling themselves female and lesbian. We weren't dating but they started to talk as if we had been and then said we were even though we weren't and we never met. In response they just said we should change that and meet and know eachother better. It was insanely abusive to try and wordplay your way into a relationship that never existed.
Another one was just outright autistic and kept on watching anti-trans alt-right content creators and wouldn't stand for any criticism of them. A very abusive individual.
A few experiences with trans lesbians before that they were just childishly manipulative and chasing highs for attention. No real regard to a proper relationship, they moved on to more exciting partners that didn't work out either. It was abusive in a different way because people you're in a relationship with should get the respect that you're not just playing or chasing highs.
>but they dont exist in the first place thats the problem lol
i'd settle with a somewhat dominant bottom gf even desu
i already know tops are rare, and i don't even mind topping but i cant be assertive like is typically expected with topping
>hence the pain when shitting. esp since im only 23 theres no way it could be anything other than cancer at my age
bruh unless you've got a scan that shows cancer in your bowels it isn't cancer. you're too young for that lol. i have hemmoroids and i'm 21. there's a million reasons you could have rectal bleeding and pain not caused by cancer
>because your leaving them for a day
You can't even get one day away from your partner without it being weird?
>worrying them, and doing damage to yourself that could potentially keep from them forever or otherwise damage the relationship if ur not careful
I said they'll never even know it happened. End of story.
Stop posting this fucking image.
>cis bi girls do the same thing
Lol I'm a cis bi foid who is vers, and I would almost never date a cis man unless he is extremely different from the average cis male where I live. Fling while I'm half-drunk and desperate? Maybe. But never something serious. Even the cis women, MtFs and FtMs that I've either dated or had flings with, frequently complain that the cishet men here are shit at sex, even when the man tops and they bottom. I'd give a chance to a 'softer' cis guy with emotional intelligence who can be emotionally vulnerable, who is without the stereotypical-masc somewhat grating smug-yet-ignorant personality, and who is at least as considerate and experimental in sex as most lesbians and trans people here. But he has never appeared. PIV with five minutes of foreplay, and all those eye-rolling emotionally-blocked-off personality traits, is what you'd usually get.
Still, good luck if you like the average man, there are indeed certain upsides, the typical man does little things for you and acts protective and might even pay for your shit, as long as you smile and put up with all those other things I said.
>insane monogomous abusers
Putting a diaper on you isn't "abuse." Transbian bottoms BELONG to them. You're going against nature by using the toilet
>r insane monogomous abusers
NEED NEEED. WHERE IS MY ABUSIVE MONO TRANSBIAN DOM GF
i can top